Thought is the activity and creation of the mind; it is said of all that is brought into existence through the activity of the intellect. The term is commonly used as a generic form that defines all the products that the mind can generate including the rational activities of the intellect or the abstractions of the imagination; everything that is mental in nature is considered thought, whether these are abstract, rational, creative, artistic, etc.

What is a thought?

all profit for our benefit.

Physicists claim that the world is not really what it looks like. By reducing matter to its smallest components, we find atoms and subatomic particles. These chunks of matter vibrating at enormous speed are actually energy bundles.

The material world is made of energy. Nothing is really solid, and the speed of vibration of these energy packs determines whether it is a brick or toothpaste.

In simple terms, the solid material world that you think you know is just a mass of energy vibrating at different speeds, later this situation is expanded.

What do you think your brain produces when you think?

Energy! Vibrations Now, science indicates that to each action corresponds an opposite reaction of equal magnitude. So that every time we generate a thought, with its very particular vibration, we produce a reaction or consequence.

Because we generate more than fifty thousand thoughts daily, there are numerous vibrations that we emit, and the consequences that we cause.

What is the reality?

It is what we believe to be true. My personal experiences in this regard tell me that many people believe that reality is what they have to live at a certain moment.

Partly what they think is correct, but what they don't know is that they can change that reality. And that is changed by changing the thoughts one has about something or someone.

Once in a sales course they told us an anecdote to explain well the difference between what was sales and marketing. A while ago, two people came to Africa, one of them a Sales Manager for a large shoe factory, the other Marketing Manager for a small shoe sales company.

After more than a week of tours, the two arrive back at the hotel. One of them calls his company saying: "The trip, bad, everyone walks barefoot here, impossible to sell shoes." The Marketing manager, with a shaky and excited voice says: "Tremendous, a virgin market and everything for us, they must make alliances with other factories to be able to fulfill the deliveries, nobody uses shoes here."

Moral

Each of them saw according to their thoughts, one negative and the other positive. So the reality of the things that happen to you, you create with your negative or positive thoughts, you decide how to perceive them.

Plato said, with reference to these forces: "Reality is created by the mind, we can change reality by changing our mind." What is important to establish is that thoughts are certainly forces.

We are managing energy

Marco Aurelio, the Roman, wrote: "The life of man is what his thoughts make of it." The Bible tells us: "Man is what he thinks about all day." I tell them "You are, what you think you are."

Throughout human history, wise men have spoken and written about the power of the mind. It benefits us a lot to learn from what others have learned.

In life we ​​have the choice to listen to the advice of the winners or listen to the losers, you choose . I think the philosophy of the winners and successful, is to take into account.

As for these universal principles, they are and are fulfilled, whether we like it or not. Sometimes we go through life breaking and breaking universal laws, without knowing it, and after a while we ask ourselves, Why does everything happen to me? Why so much bad luck?

Very simply, we do not take into account the universal principles that apply to everyone, but less to us. In my development conferences some people assume the following attitude: "I know this works, but I have never tried it, nor am I going to do it". So don't complain about the outcome of your life.

Put what is in this manual into practice first, and then draw your own conclusions!

When we were children we believed that the earth was flat, but then as we grew older, we were offered more information and we changed our minds. Do not believe anything that is written here, make your own evaluation.

What is an objective thought?

It is the one that does not come fundamentally from the left / reductionist cerebral hemisphere, nor from the right / intuitive or holistic cerebral hemisphere.
It is the product of the cognitive synthesis of both cerebral hemispheres, which takes place through the ends of the corpus callosum of the brain, which make up extremely complex synaptic circuits. Since the corpus callosum of the brain is almost agencyic or hypoplastic in most people; although not so much in women and homosexuals. As it turns out, most of humanity never has objective thoughts or ethics; Hence, the very darwinist that we suffer (which is the greatest terrorism), the reductionist-simplistic science that we suffer, the philosophy and psychology that we suffer, the medicine that we suffer, the laws that we suffer, the environment that we have, the politicians that we have, the greenhouse effect that we have, etc.

Although women, homosexuals and veteran musicians have a thicker corpus callosum, their extremities have only developed the necessary synaptic complexity in the specific area of ​​their limited work or creative activity, nothing more ... And therefore, they also lack common sense, thought and feeling, coherent, consistent and objective.

This is a collection of more than 500 thoughts of Self-Improvement, dedicated especially for people with the desire to excel and be better every day.

Every day look at the SUN.

If you compare yourself to him, you will realize
that you always have light within you.

If you compare yourself to him, you will realize
that you can be warm.

If you compare yourself to him, you will notice
that your strength increases considerably in the course of the day.

If you compare yourself to him, you will realize
your perfection.

If you compare yourself to him, you will realize
that your body always shines.

If you compare yourself to him, you only have to do that:
GO EVERY DAY WITH A NEW OPPORTUNITY
TO PROVIDE THE BEST OF YOU.
And to thank GOD for so many blessings

 

Tere Bringas

 

 

A STAR ON THE HORIZON.

 

(A message from our friend Agueda Anaya)

There were millions of stars in the sky, stars of all colors: white, silver, green, gold, red, blue. One day, restless, they approached God and proposed:

- Lord, we would like to live on Earth, to live with people. - This will be done, replied the Lord. I will keep all of you little ones, as seen from afar, so that you can go down to Earth.
It is said that on that night there was a fantastic shower of stars. Some huddled in the church towers, others went to play and run along with the fireflies through the fields, others mingled with the children's toys. The Earth was then wonderfully illuminated. But with the passage of time, the stars decided to abandon men and return to heaven, leaving the earth dark and sad.
- Why did they come back? - God asked, as they got to heaven. - Lord, it was impossible for us to remain on Earth, there is much misery, much violence, there are too many injustices.
The Lord replied
! You belong here, to Heaven! The earth is the place of the transitory, of that which falls, of that which errs, of that which dies. Nothing is perfect. - Heaven is the place of the immutable, of the eternal, of perfection.
After a large number of stars had arrived, God verified the number and spoke again:
We are missing a star, where will it be? A nearby angel replied:
- There is a star that resolved to stay among men. She discovered that her place is exactly where imperfection exists, where there are limits, where things are not going well, where there is pain.
- What star is that? he asked again.
It is Hope, Lord, the green star. The only star of that color. And when they looked to the earth, the star was not alone: ​​the Earth was illuminated again because there was a green star in the heart of each person. Because the only feeling that man has and God does not need to retain is Hope.
God already knows the future and Hope is proper to the human person, proper to the one who errs, to the one who is not perfect, to the one who does not know how he can know the future.
- At this moment receive this Little Green Star in your heart, Hope. Don't let her run away and don't let her get away. Be sure that she will light your way, always be positive and thank God for everything.
- Always be happy and spread your happiness to other people.

 

365 days of peace and tranquility

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May there be peace and tranquility in these days, when so many hearts are open. And may that peace and tranquility last in each of the 365 days to come. Remember that each of them is a new opportunity to do things. Keep in mind that every day you have 24 wonderful hours to live them in the best way. And if you fail one day, no problem, another one comes to recover. If there is a problem, don't worry, there are solutions for each of them.

THE IMPORTANT THING IS THAT YOU ALWAYS MAINTAIN A POSITIVE ATTITUDE.

Tere Bringas

 

 

As soon as you get up ...

 

As soon as you get up every morning, make positive affirmations of joy and triumph, trying to create in your environments a climate of tranquility and harmony. Learn to smile at everyone with your heart: family, friends, acquaintances, so that your presence is enough for joy to enter the hearts of those who approach you. And feel the happiness that all this brings you.

 

AT Pastorino

 

 

Giving thanks

 

Every day marks the beginning of a new stage of work already begun! Remember to thank the father for the desire to rest that he gave you And prepare yourself for the tasks that have been entrusted to you, with joy and good will. Give thanks, also, for the work that daily bread provides you, and try to do it in the best possible way. A job well done gives us the joy of doing a duty.

 

AT Pastorino.

 

Make sense of your fear.

They say that Napoleon loved his troops very much, and that he was an expert in how he managed them, so his army followed him and trusted him fully. Back then, human relations were not discussed but practiced with great success. On one occasion, before leaving for a very dangerous mission where the great Corsican knew that his men were going to perish, he ordered his troops to be trained to encourage and inspect him personally. Imposing, mounted on his white horse, Bonaparte started his magazine. Wanting to do it in a very personal way, he dismounted and on foot, he greeted them one by one, stopping here and there.
• Monsieur Bouver, how good it is for you.
• The other replied;
• Thank you, my General, always at your service.
• Jean Clair, with your experience we will succeed.
• I hope so, Lord.
At last he came before a boy, a young lieutenant who, seeing him, pale and trembling, greeted him. -Ready? She asked, fixing her eagle gaze on him. - The young man with a broken voice replied: - Yes, my General.
• The emperor looked at him deeply and said;
• But you are trembling, are you afraid?
• Yes my general, but I am in my position and this is what matters.
We as this young man are often afraid: of not knowing how to make decisions. Not knowing what to do in certain situations. To ourselves. To so many things.

HOWEVER, THIS SHOULD NOT AFFIX US!

We cannot fail, we have a much greater general than Napoleon and we must entrust ourselves to him, put ourselves in his hands without losing faith, no matter if we are scared, distressed and afraid. The important thing is to be at our post, ready to fight, firm and at your command, LORD.

 

BEFORE THE STORM

 

It started to drizzle and soon the lightning bolts illuminated the entire city making it seem like dawn. Later the thunderclaps began to be heard far away and finally the whole city shook with a loud noise, it seemed that the zigzagging lightning would fall on us. What a beautiful spectacle! What utter powerlessness is felt when contemplating nature! It dawned with a radiant sun and the sky was so blue that it seemed that the storm had carefully washed the sky; It was a calm, bright day. That beautiful morning everyone commented: “It's been a long time since I've seen as many people pray as last night. It was an impressive thing to see how all the people prayed. How sad that we always need in the life of storms to speak to the Father! I believe that the storms of the soul must also make us elevate the soul to God. How many times are we victims of emotional depressions because we do not give our soul the food of prayer! What tremendous storms break out in the soul! Those are worse than those that we live in atmospheric phenomena. Within ourselves we have the storms of hatred, of envy, of jealousy, they are the flashes that destroy the joy of living. The storm that night led me to deep meditation and motivated me to say: it is the lightning that destroys the joy of living. The storm that night led me to deep meditation and motivated me to say: it is the lightning that destroys the joy of living. The storm that night led me to deep meditation and motivated me to say:

“Lord, may I not need my existence of storms to love you, may I not need flashes to frighten me to fearfully turn to You. May darkness not be necessary to tremble trembling for your loving hand. May I realize that only with You can I find peace, joy and enthusiasm… And that when the inner storms shake my soul, I take refuge in the peace of your love. ”

 

JUST FOR TODAY

 

Just for today, I will be happy. Happiness is something inside, it is not a matter of outside.
Just for today I will try to adjust to what is and I will not try to adjust all things to my own desires. I will accept my family, my business and chance as they are and I will try to harmonize with all of this.
Just for today I will take care of my body. I will exercise it, I will take care of it, I will feed it, I will not abuse it or abandon it, trying to make it a perfect machine for my things.
Just for today, I will try to invigorate my spirit, I will learn something useful, I will not be a mental lazy, I will read something that requires effort, meditation and concentration.
Just for today, I will exercise my soul in three ways: I will do someone some good without discovering it, and I will do two things that I don't like doing, just because I exercise.
Just for today I will be nice, I will have the best appearance possible, I will dress with the best correction within my reach, I will speak in a low voice, I will be polite, I will be generous in praise, I will not criticize anyone, nor will I find fault with anything and not I will try to direct or amend my neighbor's plans.
Just for today I will try to live only this day without addressing the whole problem of my life at the same time. I can do in twelve hours things that would scare me if I had to continue doing them all my life.
Just for today I will have a program. I will write down what I hope to do every hour. I may not exactly follow the program, but I will.

I will eliminate two plagues: haste and indecision. Just for today I will have a quiet half hour of solitude and rest. In that half hour I will sometimes think about the Divine in order to get a greater perspective for my life.

Just for today I will not be afraid and especially I will not be afraid of being happy, of enjoying the beautiful, of loving and believing that those I love, love me

 

Dr. Frank Crane

 

There are those who set their minds on wealth, others put the wealth of their mind.

 

Sor Juana Ines De La Cruz

 

A fool has his way straight. The wise man is always attentive to advice.

And always remember this: Being in agreement with what we are, will motivate us to develop more what we can be. There are two things in life.
Pretexts and Results
And the pretexts are not valid

 

The beauty of your soul.

 

If someone showed you a dark and ugly seed, and told you that a scented flower is hidden inside, you would simply believe it, because you know that the plant that produces the flower is born from the seed. Well, I also believed, That in you, For many imperfections that you have It will grow, Purified and beautiful, Your immortal soul That will achieve happiness. Have faith in yourself and try to perfect yourself

 

AT Pastorin

 
 
Hello how are you doing?

I'm just sending you this letter to tell you how much I love you ... And I think of you. I saw you yesterday while you were talking to your friends and I waited all day, wishing you would also talk to me. When sunset came, I offered you a sunset to close your day and a gentle breeze for you to rest and wait ... You never came, yes, it hurt but I still love you. I saw you sleep and I wanted to touch your temples and pour the moonlight on your face, and on your pillow, wait again, looking forward to the day quickly so we could chat. I have so many gifts for you, you woke up late and quickly went to work, to the study. My tears were in the rain that fell today you look very sad ... If you only listened to me ... I love you. I try to tell you in the blue sky and in the calm of the green grass, in the rustles of the leaves of the trees, in the mountain streams and I express them in the songs of the birds. I shelter you in the warm sun and perfume the air with natural essences. My love is deeper than the seas, and greater than the desires that nest in your mind. If you knew how much I long to walk and talk to you. We can live together forever, here on earth and throughout the universe if you want it. I know you have been told that life is difficult, but if you know how to be my friend you will never have a difficulty. Call me, find me and count on me, I have thousands of wonders to offer you. I want you to see this life as it is, a game that remains and full of beautiful adventures. Besides, my father, who is yours too, loves you very much and has asked me to protect you. I love you as the One, as the one who only waited and asked me to accompany you and guide you.

He always loves you:

 

Your brother Jesus Christ

 

 

Let's take care of what we think

 

Let's listen to our own affirmations, both the ones we make out loud and the ones we make to ourselves.

One thing to keep in mind: The thoughts of unhappy, distressed, or depressed people contain distortions.

Unhappy people lie to themselves about their lives, their opportunities and failures, about their friends and family, their luck and mistakes, their advantages and disadvantages; he lies to himself regarding the talent, happiness and resources of others and then elaborates a hardly conscious philosophy, which, since he does not agree with reality, causes him problems ... AND MORE UNHAPPINESS It is as if he saw the world through a dark prism, which distorts your view of reality.

 

Nelson Boswell

 

 

Speaking of anecdotes

 

There is an anecdote that, whether true or legend, paints Thomas Alba Edison very well. One time the inventor was working on perfecting his first incandescent lamp, he handed over a finished light bulb to a young assistant, who became very nervous and took it step by step up the stairs, but dropped it on the bottom rung. All of Edison's collaborators had to work another 24 hours to make a new light bulb. After all, the illustrious scientist gave it to the same boy. That gesture probably changed the young man's life. Edison knew more than focus was at stake.

James Newton

One of the most enduring pleasures that can be experienced is the feeling that invades us when we forgive an enemy from the heart. Whether he knows it or not.

 

OA Battista

 

When everything starts to go well, it is often because we have given up going against the grain.

ATS

 

 

Hold on to the positive

Discover Yourself Among the wise men of India there is a legend according to which, when God prepared man for his journey through earthly existence, the angel who helped him was about to add the gift of full satisfaction, but the Spirit infinite said to him: No. If you give him that, you will take away the joy of discovering himself. Of giving and receiving ... In exchange for any gift or sacrifice there are two kinds of gratitude: The sudden, for what we receive, and, more valuable, the one we feel for what we give.

EAR

. The world is made up of those who give and those who receive. The latter may eat better, but the former sleep better.

BT

 

HAPPINESS

Happiness is like gold, which must be extracted from the mineral of daily work.

MS

When our illusions put on work clothes, we call them motivation. Pp Happiness is like good weather: We cannot have dominion over it, but when it arrives, it suddenly appears, like the sun on a spring day. It is not enough to affirm: ”I earn enough to support my family. I do my job well. I am a good father and a good husband, and I do not miss my religious duties. ” All that is highly commendable, but something else needs to be done. You always have to try to do some good, somewhere. Every man must seek in his own way how to realize his true potential. We must give part of our time to our fellow men. Even if it is little, something must be done for those who need help, something for which we do not obtain any benefit, except the privilege of doing it. Remember that we do not live in a world only ours. Our brothers are also here.

Albert Schweitzer

 

Differences

The main difference between optimism and pessimism lies in the concept of memory. The pessimist clearly remembers the damages and failures of yesterday, but cannot evoke the abundant possibilities of a new tomorrow. Instead, the optimist already has a future full of hope etched in his memory.

Charles Jinks

 

Footprints

Man leaves all kinds of traces as he passes through life. Some, like your children and your home, can be seen. Others do not, such as the marks that he leaves in the lives of others, the help he lavishes on them and what he tells them: jokes, hurtful gossip, words of encouragement. The human being never reflects on this, but wherever he goes he leaves some mark. The sum of all its tracks is what gives humanity meaning.

Margaret Lee R.

Thank you, Lord, for everything you gave me this year: Thank you for the sunny days and the sad cloudy days. Thank you for the quiet nights and for the restless dark hours. Thank you for health and disease. Thanks for the sorrows and the joys. Thank you for what you lent and then you asked me. Thank you Lord, for the kind smile and the helping hand, for love and everything beautiful and sweet. Thank you for the flowers and the stars And the existence of children and good souls. Thank you for the solitude, for the work, for the difficulties and the tears, For everything that I approach you more intimately. Thank you for your presence in the tabernacle AND the grace of your sacraments. Thank you for letting me live, thank you Lord.

If a little bird

... If a fallen bird, With love I put in its nest; If an act or word of mine brought joy to a sad person; If I have wiped a tear; If a pain I have consoled; If you implore the poor man I help, I once held out my hand; If someone dies when I die, I will not have lived in vain!

PESSIMISM OR OPTIMISM

The main difference between optimism and pessimism lies in the concept of memory. The pessimist clearly remembers the damages and failures of yesterday, but cannot evoke the abundant possibilities of a new tomorrow. Instead, the optimist already has a future full of hope etched in his memory.

Charles Jinks

 

Project the difficult

Starting from where it is still easy, Realize big Starting from where it is still small. Everything difficult always starts easy, everything big always starts small. That is why the sage never does anything great and does great, however, the tree with a wide trunk is already in the small bud, A great building It is based on a layer of earth. The journey to the eternal begins at your feet.

Lao Tse

 

The importance of being

The world would be very empty if we only thought of mountains, rivers and cities. But, if we know someone who thinks and feels like us and who, although distant, is close to us in spirit, then the earth will become an inhabited garden.

Goethe

 

We are what we think

. All that we are comes from our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world. Speak and act with an impure mind and you will have problems, Like the wheel that goes after the ox that pulls the car. We are what we think. All that we are comes from our thoughts. With our thoughts we make the world. Speak and act with a pure mind and happiness will accompany you As your shadow, constantly.

Dhammapda

 

Values

Once a man unearthed a marble statue of great beauty. He took it to a collector who loved all beautiful things and offered it for sale. The collector bought it at a high price. And they parted. And when the man went home with his money he thought and said to himself: - "How much life does this money mean!" How can anyone give all this for a dead stone, sculpted, buried in the earth for a thousand years? And the collector looked at the statue and said to himself: -How beautiful! How much life! The dream of a great soul! And fresh with the sweet dream of a thousand years! How can someone give everything in exchange for sordid and dead money?

Gibrán Jalil Gibrán

 

I found a friend

I had an enemy that my steps followed, And although it seems strange I did not know him. My plans and my goals, everything thwarted, My best wishes for him failed; One day I was able to find him and I claimed his cynicism, I uncovered his face and found myself. From that day everything was transformed, because that enemy my friend turned; My former subconscious that previously interfered, later helped me and my wishes were fulfilled. Once I entrusted my plans to him, Almost without realizing it he only accomplished them. And now that there is no conflict between the two, I can reach everything, including God. Believe it, yes you can

Alex Day

 

TEN THINGS EXCELLENT
• DO GOOD THAT MAY ALL
• not speak ill of anyone
• THINK BEFORE YOU TAKE ANY RESOLUTIONS
• SILENT when you feel irritable
• NOT REFUSE TO MAKE A FAVOR WHEN goodly CAN
• succor HOMELESS
• Confessing OWN MISTAKES WHEN COMMITTED
• BE PATIENT WITH EVERYONE
• AVOID OR FLEE FROM DISCUSSIONS
• DO NOT EASILY BELIEVE WHAT MURMURATORS COUNT
I know love

I know poor people Who distribute smiles I know people who suffer Who communicate joy. I know misunderstood people who know how to understand. I know pure people who conquer with looking. I know peaceful people who walk bringing peace. I know kind people who have something to give to everyone. I know persecuted people who know how to forgive. I know those people whose secret is to love

Lives

If to recover what was recovered I should first lose what was lost If to get what I had I had to bear what I endured, If to be in love now It was necessary to have been hurt, I have suffered well suffered, I have mourned well wept. Because after all I have verified that he does not enjoy what he enjoyed well but after having suffered it. Because after all I have understood That what the tree has in flower lives on what it has buried.

Francisco Luis Bernárdez

 
 

 
If it takes over

... If overconfidence takes hold of me, I will remember my failures. If I am inclined to give myself to the good life, I will remember past hungers. If I feel complacent, I will remember my competitors. If I enjoy moments of greatness, I will remember moments of shame. If I feel almighty, I will try to stop the wind. If I attain great wealth, I remember a hungry mouth. If I am too proud, I will remember a moment of weakness. If I think my ability has no equal, I will gaze at the stars

Og Mandino

 

Fable

In a meadow a sheep and a lamb grazed; and a hungry eagle watched them from above. And as he was about to grab his prey, another eagle appeared, hovering with the same voracious attempt. Then the two rivals began to fight, filling the space with their screeches. The sheep looked up and was amazed. And turning to the lamb, he said: “My son, how strange that these noble birds attack each other. Does the vast space not reach both? Pray, my little one, pray in your heart, that God may make peace between your winged sisters ”. And the lamb prayed in his heart.

Gibrán Jalil Gibrán

 

It's been said….

It has been said that a human being at forty is responsible for his face. Virtue or vice transform His meanders and wrinkles; They soften, brighten or harden the eyes. Beauty or physical ugliness end up being mirrors of the soul that inhabits them.

Anonymous

PRAY: It is the greatest power on earth LOVE: It is a privilege that God has given us THINK: It is the source of power DAR: It is the way to receive REIR: It is the music of the soul WORK: It is the price of success

Anonymous

 

Search

Looking for a homeland: The neighbor. Looking for a trade: Love. Looking for a company: The hearts of others. Mistress, And I assure you that you will find Meaning in your life.

Og Mandino

 

OMG:

Grant me the serenity To accept the things I cannot change, The enthusiasm to change The things I can, And the wisdom To understand the difference.

Marco Aurelio

 

What is a child

Do you know what it means to be a child? It means believing in love, In beauty, in beliefs; It means being so small that the goblins can come close to whispering to your ear; It means transforming the pumpkins into carriages, the mice into steeds, the mean in the sublime, the nothing in everything, because each child carries his own fairy godmother.

Francis Thompson

 

Being and not being

When man knows what is beautiful, he also knows what is not beautiful. When man knows what is good, he also knows what is not good. Because the heavy and the light, The long and the short, The high and the low, The silence and the sound, The before and after, The being and the non-being, They generate each other.

Lao Tse

 

Life

Life is an opportunity, take it. Life is beauty, admire it. Life is bliss, taste it. Life is a dream, realize it. Life is a challenge, meet it. Life is a duty, do it. Life is a game, play it. The life is preasure, take it care. Life is love, enjoy it. Life is a mystery, take it back. Life is promise, keep it. Life is sorrow, overcome it. Life is a hymn, sing it. Life is a fight, accept it. Life is a tragedy, master it. Life is adventure, enjoy it. Life is happiness, merécela. Life is life, defend it.

Mother Teresa of Calcutta

 

The trust

One of the most important ways to demonstrate integrity. It consists of being loyal to those who are not present. In this way we build the trust of those who are.

STEPHEN R. COVEY

 

Here is a list of the true seven deadly sins.

Wealth without work. Pleasure without conscience. Knowledge without character. Business without morals. Science without love of humanity. Religiosity without sacrifice. Politics without principles.

Mohandas Gandhi

 

Grant me Lord

. Grant me, Lord, that I do not seek so much to be consoled as to console; Being understood, how to understand; Being loved, like loving. Because when we give, we receive.

Optimistic or pessimistic

Some young people despite being twins thought totally differently; one was too pessimistic and the other optimistic. Parents concerned about this situation decided to take their children to a psychologist. The psychologist suggested to the parents that on the twins' next birthday, they take each one to a different room to open their gifts. Give the pessimist something extraordinary and the optimist a box of manure. The parents followed the instructions, observing the behavior of the children. When they approached the pessimist's room, they heard him complain.
• It is not possible, how dare they give me this bike; They want me to kill myself, or have an accident. Also I don't know how to drive, I don't have a license and I don't even like it.
As they approached the optimist's room, he received them jubilant with open arms, happily throwing the manure into the room, saying to his parents:
• Thank you, I adore you, I detail where is the horse?
Anonymous

 

What the world needs is love!

A very poor old man was engaged in planting mango trees. Someone said to him:
• How is it that at your age you plant mangoes?
Rest assured that you will not live long enough to consume its fruits! The old man replied placidly: All my life I have eaten mangoes from trees planted by others. May mine bear fruit for those who survive me! We live in a universe where everything and everyone has something to offer. Trees give, rivers give, earth and sun and moon and stars give. From where, then, that anxiety to take, receive, knead, gather, accumulate without giving anything in return? We can all give something, however poor we are. We can offer pleasant thoughts, sweet words, beaming smiles, heartwarming songs, a steady hand, and so many other things to soothe a hurting heart. More than money, what the world needs is love and sympathy.

JP Vaswan

San Francisco de Asis

About himself

An illuminating hobby is making a list of things that pleasantly impress the senses. This exercise serves not only to cultivate the mind and memory, but to increase the appreciation of those pleasant moments. Here is, as an example, the list of a person's ten favorite sounds: - The distant whistle of a train; - A mother talking to her newborn child, - The crunch of leaves when one steps on them on a bright autumn day; - The absolute silence of a mountain lake in the late afternoon; - The claim of the seagulls; - The howling of a hound in the woods at night; - A roaring fire on a cold day; - A crowd in the stadium singing the national anthem; - The screeching of an airplane's wheels when touching the ground; - His wife's voice in the morning. Now make a list of your sounds, favorite smells and images. He is likely to learn something about himself.

Frank Mann

 

THE MATURITY

What you learn at maturity are not simple things, like acquiring skills and information. You learn not to engage in self-destructive behavior; Not to squander energy due to anxiety. It is discovered how to overcome tensions, and that resentment and self-pity are among the most toxic drugs. You learn that the world loves talent, but it rewards character. It is understood that most people are neither for nor against us, but are absorbed in themselves. In short, we learn that no matter how great our efforts are to please others, there will always be people who do not like us; This is a hard lesson at first, but ultimately very reassuring.

John Gardner

 

The big differences

The longer I live, the more deeply I am convinced that what makes the difference between one man and another, between the weak and the powerful, the great and the insignificant is energy, invincible determination and a well-formed purpose.

Elbert Hubbart

 

True wealth

If there was a bank that credited 86,400 to your account each morning, that didn't transfer the available balance overnight, and didn't allow you to keep cash; and at the end of the day you will cancel the part of that amount that you would not have used. What would I do? Of course, take every day to the last penny and take advantage of all the money. Well, such a bank exists: It is called time. Each day credits him with 86,400 seconds, and each night he gives for definitely lost how many he has profitably stopped using. It never transfers balances, nor does it allow you to overdraw. When you don't use what is available that day, the only one who loses is you. There is no recovery of funds. It is also not possible to write checks on tomorrow. It is up to each person to invest this precious flow of hours,

Anonymous

 

Ask what you want

If at this moment a miraculous Being, dressed in white, resplendent with magnificent light appears before you and says to you: "Ask for what you want! It will be granted to you", you would certainly rush to ask for the best things. Well, that miraculous Being exists within you and has the power to give you whatever you ask. Only, before, you should know what you want ... knowledge apparently easy, more than is done in very few men. And after you know it, you must ask the inner God, with such assurance, as if you were asking the miraculous man dressed in white, to seduce your faith with the prestige of his external presence. You think you are miserable because you ignore what you can. Everything is yours and you are dying of longings ... The stars belong to you and you have no light in your home ... The whole nature wants to give itself as its owner and lord! And you cry disdainfully for a woman! Ask for what you want, that everything will be granted to you.

Anonymous

 

PESSIMISM OR OPTIMISM

The main difference between optimism and pessimism lies in the concept of memory. The pessimist clearly remembers the damages and failures of yesterday, but cannot evoke the abundant possibilities of a new tomorrow. Instead, the optimist already has a future full of hope etched in his memory.

Charles Jinks

 

FILL IT WITH LOVE

Whenever there is a gap in your life ... ... FILL IT WITH LOVE. Adolescent, young, old: Whenever there is a gap in your life ... ... FILL IT WITH LOVE As soon as you know that you have a waste time in front of you ... ... GO LOOK FOR LOVE. Do not think: "I will suffer" Do not think: "They will deceive me" Do not think: "I will doubt" See, simply, openly, rejoicing,

 
 
SEARCHING FOR LOVE.

What kind of love? Never mind. All love is full of excellence and nobility. Love how you can, love who you can, love everything you can ... ... But love always. Don't worry about the purpose of love. He carries within himself his purpose. Do not judge yourself incomplete because they do not respond to your tenderness, love carries within itself its own fullness. Whenever there is a gap in your life,

FILL IT WITH LOVE

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LOVED NERVE

 

FRIENDSHIP

If you have a friend, you have deserved a divine gift. Loyal, sincere, disinterested friendship is the true communion of souls. It is stronger than love, because it is often jealous, selfish and vulnerable. True friendship endures and strengthens over time and distance. It is not necessary to see the friend frequently for the friendship to last, it is enough to know that the friend will respond when necessary, with an act of affection, understanding and even sacrifice. Friendship is not conquered, it is not imposed, it is cultivated from a flower, it is paid with small details of courtesy, tenderness and loyalty, it is watered with the living waters of disinterest and silent affection. No matter the distances, social levels, years or cultures. Friendship erases everything. The memory of the distant friend, the friend of childhood or youth, produces the intimate joy of having met them. Our life was enriched by your contact, however brief it may have been. Friend's happiness gives us happiness. Their sorrows become ours because there is a wonderful invisible bond that unites friends. Friendship is beautiful above all consideration. For those who have a friend, there is no loneliness.

ANONYMOUS

 

WHAT IS A FRIEND ?

What is a friend ? I'll tell you. He is a person with whom you dare to be yourself, he does not want you to be better or worse. When you are with him you feel like you are a prisoner who has just been declared innocent. You don't have to be tense, you can say what you think, as long as it really is you. He understands those contradictions in your nature, which leads others to misjudge you. With it you breathe freely. You can let go of small vanities and envies, hatreds and malicious sparks, meannesses and absurdities, which by showing them to him are lost by dissolving in the white ocean of his loyalty. He understands. You don't have to be careful, you can abuse it, forget it and tolerate it. Best of all, you can be quiet with him, it doesn't matter, he loves you. He is like fire that burns bones, he understands. You can cry with him, laugh with him, pray with him. Through it all, he sees you, knows you, and loves you. A friend ? What is a friend ? Only one, I repeat, with him you dare to be yourself.

Juan Antonio Razo

 

Yesterday Today and Tomorrow

There are two days in each week that should not worry us, two days that should not cause us neither torment nor fear, one is: YESTERDAY, with its errors and concerns, with its weaknesses and deviations, with its sorrows and tribulations. YESTERDAY is gone forever and is already out of our reach. Not even the power of all the gold in the world could return YESTERDAY. We cannot undo any of the things we did yesterday; we cannot erase a single word from those we said yesterday. Yesterday he left never to return. The other day that should not worry us is TOMORROW with its possible adversities, difficulties and vicissitudes, with its flattering promises and dismal disappointments. TOMORROW the sun will rise, whether to shine in a clear sky or to hide behind thick clouds, but it will rise. Until it doesn't come out we can't have TOMORROW, because tomorrow is still to be born. We only have one day left, TODAY, anyone can confront the problems of a single day and stay in peace. When to TODAY we add the burdens of those two eternities, YESTERDAY and TOMORROW, it is when we fall into the struggle and become restless.

ANONYMOUS

 

START AGAIN

Even if you feel the fatigue, Even if the triumph leaves you, Even if the mistake hurts you, Even though your business breaks, Even if a betrayal hurts you, Even if the pain burns your eyes, Even if an illusion is extinguished, Even if they ignore your efforts, Even if ingratitude is the pay, Even if incomprehension cuts your laughter, Even if everything seems like nothing ... ... START AGAIN!

ANONYMOUS

 

TEN THINGS THAT COST NOTHING

1.- A happy face in the routine of daily work. 2.- A comprehensive silence on the faults and defects of others. 3.- A word of recognition and encouragement to others for a job well done, the effort made, the triumph obtained, the kindness shown. 4.- A service provided to a colleague. 5.- A smiling face when arriving home. 6.- A favor done, especially to those who cannot pay us. 7.- A discomfort accepted in good pleasure, to provide someone with a taste or avoid discomfort. 8.- The sincere recognition of a mistake made, especially if they are charging it to someone else. 9.- A warm and friendly handshake to those who are sad and discouraged. 10.- A patient and interested conversation with those who are not very funny or very nice.

ANONYMOUS

 

I KNOW LOVE

I know poor people who distribute smiles. I know people who suffer who communicate joy. I know misunderstood people who know how to understand. I know pure people who conquer with looking. I know peaceful people who walk bringing peace. I know kind people who all have something to give. I know persecuted people who know how to forgive. I know those people whose secret is to love.

ANONYMOUS

 

THREE THINGS…

... WHAT TO DEFEND: Honor, home and country. ... WHAT TO CONTROL: Character, language and behavior ... WHAT TO MEDITATE: Life, death and eternity. ... WHAT TO ESTIMATE: Courage, rectitude and appreciation. ... WHAT TO DETEST: Sin, ignorance and ingratitude. ... TO AVOID: Laziness, barbarism and buffoonery. … THAT SAFEGUARD: Sincerity, freedom and boldness. WHAT TO WISH: Holiness, peace and joy. WHAT TO ADMIRE: Will, dignity and grace. WHAT TO CULTIVATE: Reason, submission and science.

ANONYMOUS

 

THE WIN
◦When selfishness does not limit your ability to love ...
◦When you trust yourself even if everyone doubts you, and stop worrying about what they will say ...
◦When your actions are as concise in duration as in results.
◦When you can give up the routine without altering the metabolism of your life.
◦ When you know how to distinguish the smile from the mockery, and you prefer the eternal fight that the purchase of the false victory.
◦When being spontaneous frees you from the method.
◦When you act out of conviction and not flattery.
◦ When you can be poor without losing your wealth and rich without losing your humility.
◦When you know how to forgive as easily as you apologize now.
◦ When you can walk with the poor without forgetting that he is a man and with the rich without thinking that he is a God.
◦ When you know how to face your mistakes as easily and positively as your successes.
◦When you find satisfaction sharing your wealth.
◦ When you know how to manage your freedom to think, speak, read, write and even listen without falling into excesses.
◦When you no longer have to suffer to know happiness and you are no longer able to change your feelings or your goals, for pleasure.
◦When you do not try to find answers in the things around you, but in your own person.
◦When you accept mistakes and don't lose your cool.
THEN, AND ONLY THEN; YOU WILL BE A SUCCESSFUL!

HOW TO GET GOOD WITH PEOPLE
• Put a brake on your tongue, say less than you think. Take care of the tone of voice; The impression of what is said depends on the tone of how it is said.
• Make few promises, and keep them faithfully at any cost. The principle of always speaking the truth is fundamental.
• Do not miss any opportunity to say a kind and encouraging word to someone or something. Praise the job well done, no matter who did it.
• Place an interest in the longings, well-being, homes and families of others; rejoice with those who are happy and accompany those who cry; make those you deal with feel important people, regardless of how humble they are.
• Always have the smile on your lips and behind it hide the sorrows, worries and disappointments. Laugh at good jokes and learn to tell them.
• Maintain open judgment on all problems; arguing but not overheated; be formal in any agreement or deal that is made.
• If they have any qualities, let them speak for themselves, and refuse to speak about the vices of others. Discourage gossip, and don't say anything about anyone unless it's a good thing.
• Do not play with the feelings of others. Jokes and good humor at the expense of others are rarely worth it and you can hurt yourself where you least expect it.
• Be responsible for what you say or do; have a high sense of responsibility at work, with the family and in other places where they live.
• Talk with love and give it without limit to others. Through love you can overcome any feeling of animosity.
ANONYMOUS

LOVE ME LOVE…… because I try to touch life within the framework of uncertainty. LOVE ME ... ... in the shadow of my indecisions, as I try to acquire wisdom. LOVE ME ... ... in the silence of my sorrows and in the noise of my confusions. LOVE ME…… for the feeling of my heart, not for the fears of my mind. LOVE ME ... ... in my search for the truth, even though I may be deceived. LOVE ME ... ... as I chase my dreams, sometimes delayed by illusions. LOVE ME…… as I get to know myself, even during hard times. LOVE ME ... ... because I seek the harmony of God, not the discord of man. LOVE ME…… because our time together will be spent growing the world in kindness and understanding. LOVE ME…… not with expectation but with hope, and I will love you just the same.

ANONYMOUS

 

EVERYTHING AND NOTHING

I asked God for strength for great achievements ... He made me weak to humbly learn to obey. I asked for health to do great things ... it gave me illness to be able to do good things. I asked for riches to be happy ... it gave me poverty to be wise. I asked for everything to enjoy life ... He gave me life to enjoy everything. I did not receive anything I asked for but I did receive everything I needed. Despite myself, requests I did not make were granted. I, among men, am the luckiest.

PRAYER OF AN ANONYMOUS SOLDIER THAT YOUR LIFE IS FULL OF:
• ENTHUSIASM, to see ahead.
• HAPPINESS, to keep you happy.
• PROBLEMS, to stay strong.
• PENAS, to stay human.
• HOPE, to keep you happy.
• FAILURES, to keep you humble.
• SUCCESSFUL, to keep you longing.
• WEALTH, to satisfy your needs.
• FAITH, to banish depression.
• DECISION, to make each day better than yesterday.
ANONYMOUS

 

THE MONEY'S VALUE
 

 
WITH MONEY WE CAN BUY ... ... a bed, but not sleep. ... Books, but not intelligence. ... Food, but not appetite. ... decorations, but not sympathy. …A house, but not a home. ... Medicines, but not health. ... Luxuries, but not joy. ... Fun, but not happiness. ... A crucifix, but not a Savior. ... A church, but not heaven.

ANONYMOUS

 

WHY DO YOU COMPLAIN?

If you have the sails collected, why do you complain about not having a good wind to propel you? If you have your flag rolled up. Why do you complain that others do not catch your truth? If you sit on the first stone. Why do you complain about always being halfway there? If at the time of the storm you give up taking the helm. Why are you complaining about tumbling and drifting? If at the moment of pain you poison and you deepen the wound. Why are you complaining about not being able to heal it? If what you transmit is restlessness and unease. Why do you complain about being lonely every day? If at the time of cooperation you lock yourself in your shell. Why do you complain when he releases your hand? If at the time of making a count you are unhappy. Why do you complain if you have not known how to live? Do not open furrows, and long for sowing. Do not open your eyes to life, and you want light. Why do you ask ?, if you don't know how to give. Why do you complain? If nothing works for you. Why, if you close your eyes to the pain that passes by your side and close your will to the commitments of your time, are you so afraid of your own emptiness? Why, if you act selfishly, live dazedly, and pray nonchalantly, are you afraid of your own abyss? Why, if you reject the light of God and live by putting out the stars, are you afraid of your own darkness? are you afraid of your own abyss? Why, if you reject the light of God and live by putting out the stars, are you afraid of your own darkness? are you afraid of your own abyss? Why, if you reject the light of God and live by putting out the stars, are you afraid of your own darkness?

The importance of sport

Sport is life at full volume. In sports, friendships are more strongly forged than in almost all other activities. The laughter is louder, the funniest jokes, the deepest pains, the evenings at later hours, and the depression, less. Sport teaches us that life, while unpredictable, is something we can control, a baseball team nods when winning and shrugs when losing, and wakes up each morning for a new, different game.

Mark Whicker

 

About the bad words

Profanity demeans language and culture, for if one uses those words without further ado, what will he say when he is truly disturbed? What do you say when you are furious? This is the occasion to use this type of language. And privately, if you use it. But doing it in public seems to me in very bad taste. In my opinion it is only a crutch. Why not elevate the people who listen to you? Why not elevate yourself? Sid Caesar

Read and live even more

Those who affirm that we only have one life, are wrong in the middle. For those who read, there is no limit to the number of lives they can live, because novels, biographies and historical accounts are an inexhaustible collection of lives in many parts of the world and at all times. Read and live even more.

Louis Lámour

 

Flowers

Flowers are the best proof of the goodness of providence. Everything else, including our talents, our desires, and our food, we need to exist. But a rose is something additional. Its aroma and color decorate life; they are not conditions for there to be. Like everything that is added, it comes from goodness. The flowers are proof that God loves us.

Arthur Conan

 

The more difficult ...

The more difficult the fight, the more glorious the triumph. We do not hold in high esteem things that come the easy way; only what is very dear to us gains value. I love the man capable of smiling in adversity, drawing strength from weakness and becoming courageous thanks to reflection. It is characteristic of small spirits to be daunted; However, those who are endowed with a firm heart and whose conscience approves of their conduct, are faithful to their principles until death.

Thomas paine

 

Strive to improve

Look at your life. evaluate yourself in light of who you are today and what you can be tomorrow. Separate the good from the bad. When you're done, decide to improve the bad and make the most of the good in your life. When you don't like someone, consider that that is their problem. Some people will not like you regardless of what you do or who you are. An unfortunate fact of life is that not everyone will like you. If you can honestly admit that you have flaws and that you are making an effort to improve, then you should not worry about what people may think or say about you. It is their problem if they still do not like you.

Dexter Yager

 

Someone to be with

That nobody likes to travel alone on the roller coaster, should not surprise them.

Teacher

To you I direct my prayer, you, who have to polish my soul and shape my heart. Don't look at me with a frown if you don't understand me yet, be patient. Do not always suppress your gesture my impulses, do not stuff my weak intelligence with superfluous notions. Teach me what is useful, what is true, what is beautiful, that my eyes learn to see and my soul to feel. Teach me with love, because if you don't love me I will never be able to understand you. Teacher, intellectual father that you must give light to my eyes, encourage my brain, kindness to my soul, truth to my words, rectitude to my actions, Blessed are you!

Elisa Mellosery

 

About the human being

Man himself is a precarious balance between love and hate, generosity and selfishness, mildness and aggressiveness. It is not perfectible, but it can be improved, and nothing in its history or its nature compels us to stop believing in it. Man may indeed be "caught between earth and a fleeting vision of heaven, but he will cling to that vision, as it should be."

Eric Sevareid

 

The happiness

In my opinion, most people have an unrealistic concept of happiness, as they invariably use the fatal conditional conjunction "yes". We heard them say: I would be happy if I were rich; or: if that woman loved me; or: if I had talent, or (the most popular "yes") if I had good health. Often such people reach their goal, but then discover other conditioning circumstances. For my part, I love life, for better or for worse, unconditionally.

Arthur Rubinstein

 

On the convenience of saving

We cannot save life as we can save money. The person who tries to be greedy with their health, usually feels unhappy. Talents that are buried and not used tend to deteriorate. Whoever tries to save their memory will end up losing it. We waste love and compassion, not by lavishing them, but by misusing them. In this way, trying to avoid consuming ourselves we lose ourselves.

Ralph Sockman

 

Willpower

The great difference between dreamers and achievers is that the latter take action; instead dreamers postpone and postpone again. We can all have control of our destiny, learning to control our thoughts, which become actions, actions form habits and habits form our destiny. If we understand that the human being was designed to succeed, but programmed to fail, we will understand that only with motivation, reflection and experimentation, can he produce a permanent change in his life. If you have the willpower, learn to self-motivate, and change permanently, you will succeed. It is the will power, which allows an ordinary person to become an extraordinary being without limits.

Alex Dey

 

The art of being unhappy

. Una persona infeliz no concibe una forma de vivir que no implique sufrimiento. Escucha los relatos de sus amigos quienes le cuentan bellas experiencias y aún cuando le gustaría vivirlas, está convencido que no son para él. Piensa que su destino es sufrir. Muchas veces poseen cualidades o bienes materiales con los que otros serían felices, pero ellos no lo son. Y no es que no sean ambiciosos sino que les gusta ser víctimas. Tal vez un niño inconforme ya vaya “pintando” para ser un hombre infeliz. ¡Es tan bonito saber vivir con alegría, disfrutar de todo lo bueno que la vida nos ofrece y a lo malo ponerle buena cara y olvidarlo pronto” . Así como desde pequeños adquirimos buenos hábitos, así debemos fomentar el hábito de ser felices y gozar de nuestro corto paso por la tierra.

Mario González U.

 

Tengas tú…

tengas tú sesenta años o dieciséis, en todo corazón humano existe el Amor a lo maravilloso, el asombro por las estrellas del cielo, el impávido desafío a los eventos, el apetito infalible de la niñez por lo que viene; después del goce de vivir. Tú eres tan joven como tú fe, tan viejo como tu duda, tan joven como tú confianza en ti mismo, tan viejo como tus temores, tan joven como tu esperanza, tan viejo como tú desesperación.

Douglas Mcarthur

 

El Sol y el viento

Hace años, cuando yo era un niño que caminaba descalzo por los bosques hasta una escuela campestre, leí una fábula acerca del Sol y del viento. Discutieron ambos acerca de cuál era más fuerte, y el viento dijo:” Te demostrare que soy el más fuerte ¿Ves aquel anciano envuelto en una capa? Te apuesto que le haré quitar la capa más rápido que tú”. Se ocultó el sol tras una nube y comenzó a soplar el viento, cada vez con más fuerza, hasta ser casi un ciclón, pero cuanto más soplaba tanto más se envolvía el hombre en la capa. Por fin el viento se calmó y se declaró vencido. Y entonces salió el sol y sonrío benignamente sobre el anciano. No pasó mucho tiempo hasta que el anciano, acalorado por la tibieza del Sol, se quitó la capa. El Sol demostró entonces al viento que la suavidad y la amistad son siempre más poderosas que La furia y la fuerza.

Dale Carnegie

 

El logro de un sueño…

El logro de un sueño llega por medio del establecimiento de objetivos elevados, pero realistas; para tener éxito y alcanzar nuestros sueños hay que establecer metas. Primero hay que definir metas de largo plazo. Un individuo necesita decidir cuáles van a ser estas metas y entonces establecer otras a corto plazo. Estas metas de corto plazo proporcionan el medio hacia el fin.

Dexter Yager

 

Nos engrandecemos…

Nos engrandecemos por los sueños. Todos los grandes hombres son soñadores. Ellos ven las cosas en la delicada bruma de un día de primavera o en el rojo fuego de una larga noche de invierno. Algunos de nosotros dejamos morir estos grandes sueños, pero otros los alimentan y los protegen; los nutren durante los días adversos hasta que pueden sacarlos al sol y a la luz que siempre llegan a aquellos que sinceramente confían en que sus sueños se harán realidad.

Woodrow Wilson

 

Quien recurre…

Quien recurre sólo a la palabra hablada para fundamentar sus ideas se asemeja a alguien que pretende clavar susurros en una pared. La palabra escrita congela el pensamiento y lo conserva intacto para el análisis

Jack Rosenthal

 

Ser uno mismo

Ser uno mismo no consiste en seguir siendo lo que se era, ni en estar satisfecho con lo que se es. Constituye el punto de partida.

Sidney Harris

Cuando tu trabajo hable por sí mismo, no interrumpas. Zachary Fisher

Cuanto más tiempo vivo…

Cuanto más tiempo vivo, Más profundamente me convenzo De que lo que hace la diferencia Entre un hombre y otro, Entre el débil y el poderoso, El grandioso y el insignificante Es la energía, La determinación invencible Y un propósito bien conformado.

ELBERT HUBBART

 

Para que sonrías un poco

- Prometo que, si votan por mí, les construiré escuelas, hospitales, carreteras y hasta un puente – afirmó el candidato durante su discurso de campaña en un pueblecito. -¿Para que queremos un puente – protestó un ciudadano – si ni siquiera tenemos río? – no se preocupen. También les construiré uno.

L.R.D.

Map reading was the subject of our college geography class. The professor explained various terms, such as latitude, longitude, degrees and minutes, and then he posed a problem to us:
• Suppose I quote you to eat at 23 degrees, four minutes north latitude, and 45 degrees, 15 minutes longitude. this ...
• After a silence full of confusion, someone dared to say:
• I'm afraid you would eat alone ...
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The force must will cite the great difference between the dreamed crisis and the winners is that the latter take action; instead the dreamed postpone them and they postpone again. We can all have control of our destiny, learning to control our thoughts, which become actions, actions form habits and habits form our destiny. If we understand that he is human he was designed to succeed, but programmed for failure, we will understand that only with motivation, reflection and experimentation can he produce a permanent change in his life. If you have the willpower, I learned to freelancers deprive themselves and change permanently, you will succeed. It is the will power, which allows an ordinary person to become an extraordinary and unlimited insurance. These are excerpts from the magnificent book Die Alegrías del "Created, if you can", published by Editorial Diana. Art must be unhappy. An unhappy person does not conceive of a way of life that does not involve suffering. He listens to the stories of his friends who tell him beautiful experiences and even though he would like to divide them, he is convinced that they are not him now. Think remove your sign is to suffer. Many times I gave them qualities or material goods common light others would be happy, but they are not. And it is not and they will be ambitious but they like to be victims. Such destinies a child to join me is "painting", he will be an unhappy man. It is so nice to know how to live with joy, to enjoy all the good things that life has to offer and to the bad, to put on a good face and educate him as soon as possible. As well as deducing little ones to acquire good habits, so we must encourage the habit should be happy and enjoy our short time on earth. Author Mario González usury. you are sixty years old or you are leaving 6, and every human heart exists I amurrio to the wonderful thing, the astonishment for the stars of the sky, the impact defiance to the events, and infallible appetite says you come for what is coming; after 121222. You are as young as you know, as old as your doubt, as young as you, self-confidence, as old as you are in fear, as young as your hope, as old as your despair. Author teasing brand tubes. Years ago, when I was reading a boy who walked barefoot through the woods to a country school and the clouds from the scalpel, he read a fable about the South and the wind. They both argued about which was stronger, and the wind said: "Showing him that his strongest. After that old man wrapped in a letter? I bet you I read makes you remove the layer more dejected I wanted you ”. The south continues to hide all a cloud and began to blow 300, each Friday with more force, until it is almost a place, but the more it blew the more the man wrapped himself painted the letter. At last the wind fell and he declared himself defeated. And then the south came out and gloomy benign lies on the old man. It was not long until the old man, heated by the warmth of the Sun, despite took the letter. The South then demonstrated to the wind that softness and friendship are always more powerful in the street Fury and strength. Quoted from the card. The achievement of a dream comes through setting high, but realistic goals; To succeed and achieve our dreams, you must set goals. You have to define long-term goals first. An individual will need to decide what these goals are going to be and then establish others in the short term. These short term goals provide the middle Asia and the end. Author banish Galician. Tell us what we want. Dreams. All great men are founders. 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You can

Don't complain about your luck. Don't give up on life. Do not embitter existence Do not cry, Ask mercy to anyone Because in you providence Put that which makes triumph. You can do what you want Take the test and you will see it. Smash into everything that obstructs your path and you will see that there is always a way to get out of the mud and change your destiny. The world belongs to you It is yours, fight for it; And if it seems difficult Remember that he who deserves more of the gall makes honey.

Adolfo Martínez R.

 

The will to be

The will to be is in us, as well as the will to be better. It is up to the leaders to make it easier for our people to achieve these aspirations.

Axayacatl.

 
 

 
Think ...

Think about not what you have done wrong but what you are not doing well. Do you usually bring gifts to your loved ones simply because you love them? Do you often passionately kiss and hug your spouse? Lately have you played with your children without haste and without masks? How long have you not been accompanying your parents and talking to them as if they were your friends? How long has it been since you did something disinterested, not for money but simply for being part of your people and she of you, because you love and want to see her grow, despite all the problems? You have experienced many pleasures ... Experience the pleasure of serving and you will see how the world begins to claim you as an essential being ...

Listen to god

En una gran tormenta, un hombre le rezaba a Dios para que lo cuidara y manifestaba ” ayúdame, Señor ” en eso pasó a su lado un granjero con dos caballos y le dijo al hombre:
•Vamos súbete a uno de mis caballos y refugiémonos en el monte, ahí no nos podrá alcanzar esta inundación.
•A lo que el hombre contestó:
•No importa, huye tú, Dios me está cuidando.
Dos días después, la lluvia no cesaba y pasó una mujer junto al hombre y le dijo: – Pobre hombre la lluvia ya te llega a la mitaddel cuerpo, súbete a mi carreta y huyamos de aquí. A lo que el hombre contestó:
•No importa, huye tú, Dios me está cuidando.
Cinco días después, dos campesinos en una lancha le dijeron al hombre: -Súbase a nuestra lancha y huyamos de aquí, qué no ve que el agua ya le llega al rostro y casi se ahoga. A lo que el hombre contesró:
•No importa huyan ustedes, Dios me está cuidando.
Después de aquella inundación el hombre muere y se va al cielo y le dice a Dios:
•Señor, yo siempre he sido fiel discípulo tuyo ¿por qué me abandonaste y permitiste
Que me ahogara? A lo que contestó Dios: – Hijo mío, nunca te abandoné yo te mandé al granjero y no lo escuchaste, yo te mandé a la señora y no la escuchaste, yo te mande a los campesinos y no los escuchaste y te mande varios mensajes para que te salvaras, pero fuiste tú el que no los quiso escuchar.

Anónimo

 

Dónde ocultar a Dios

Tres sabios recibieron el encargo de ocultar a Dios para que nadie pudiera hallarlo jamás. Decidieron reunirse para discutir la manera de hacerlo. Cada nuevo amanecer Considera que has nacido Ese día de nueva cuenta A la vida, a la lucha y al trabajo; Que tienes el tesoro De otra oportunidad Para avanzar, para gozar La dicha incomparable De estar vivo. Saluda al sol, Al mundo, A la existencia, Y da gracias a Dios Por el regalo de una nueva jornada Para alcanzar el triunfo. Aprovecha tu tiempo, Es recurso no renovable Que una vez que se va, No vuelve nunca. Saber utilizar cada minuto Te dará buenos frutos Y contento, fortalezarás Tu dignidad humana. Lo que más te fatiga No es lo que haces Sino lo que dejas de hacer Y por lo mismo te da remordimiento. Aprovecha tu tiempo, Has que trabaje a favor de tu triunfo. triunfarás ¡

DE NUESTRAS OPCIONES.

En esta era moderna, se dice: las mujeres tienen muchas opciones. Pueden tener un empleo o no tenerlo; Pueden casarse o quedarse solteras; Casarse y tener hijos; Casarse, tener hijos y un empleo; Tener hijos y empleo sin estar casadas; Tener hijos sin estar casadas y sin tener empleo; No estar casadas pero tener hijos que trabajan; Trabajar y tener una empleada doméstica con hijos… “Los hombres, desgraciadamente, tenemos las mismas opciones de siempre: trabajar o trabajar”.

HYPERION

 

¿EN CUAL DE ESTAS OPCIONES TE ENCUENTRAS?

PARA ESTAR DE BUEN HUMOR ¿Quieres vivir más contenta?
◦Sal a dar una caminata de media hora a paso vivo.
◦Lanza piedras al agua de modo que reboten.
◦Juega a las damas con un niño y déjelo ganar.
◦Escribe una nota de agradecimiento a alguno de tus antiguos maestros y dile lo buena que fue su influencia sobre ti.
◦Cuenta las bendiciones que has recibido.
◦Pega en un mueble de la cocina las diez fotos que más te gusten.
◦Prepárate una rebanada de pan tostado con canela.
◦Dile a tus padres que te vuelvan a contar cómo se conocieron.
◦Dile a tu cónyuge al oído: “Que suerte tuve de haberte conocido”.
◦Entrega un donativo anónimo a la Institución de beneficencia que prefieras.
◦Da un masaje de espalda.
◦Has que te den su masaje de espalda.
H. Jackson Brown

Pon en práctica los que más te gusten y si son todos mejor.

Caminar, caminar, caminar

… Muchas veces he salido a caminar presa de un estado de alteración: por un disgusto, por el tedio o por la confusión. Me he ido triste, indiferente, incluso descorazonado, pero nunca he regresado igual. No conozco a nadie cuyo estado de ánimo no mejore después de una caminata. Caminar es el remedio supremo para el mal humor y la depresión.

DONALD CULROSS P.

Solo es cuestión de ponerlo en práctica y ver los resultados. Te aseguro que te agradaran

Del amor y del enamoramiento

Cuando los hombres y las mujeres están enamorados, comparten la equivocada creencia de que viven en un mismo mundo cuando se “aman” mutuamente, llegan a reconocer que viven en mundos diferentes, pero están dispuestos a cruzar de vez en cuando el abismo que los separa.

Thómas Szasz

 

Y tú, ¿amas a tu pareja o solo vives enamorada

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¡Conviértete en un derrochador de amor!

El amor es un tesoro que se multiplica mediante la división; es un don que crece más cuando más se toma de él. Es un negocio en el que reditúa ser un completo despilfarrador; bríndelo, tírelo, regálelo, vacíe sus bolsillos, agite la canasta, voltee la copa… . y mañana tendrá más que nunca.

Anónimo.

Solo toma en cuenta que no gastas nada y si recibes mucho a cambio

Una emocionante aventura

Las personas no se casan con personas; por lo menos con individuos reales. Cada cual acepta ir al altar con quien se imagina que es la otra persona; es decir, con una ilusión o con una imagen. La emocionante aventura del matrimonio consiste en descubrir la verdadera identidad del compañero.

James Framo

Y en esa aventura encontrarás más sorpresas agradables, si así tú lo decides.

MENSAJE PERFECTO

Mis alumnos de 4º año de Primaria estaban preparando las tarjetas del día del Padre que iban a acompañar los regalos que habían hecho para festejar la ocasión; les propuse que les pusieran dibujos alusivos a la actividad favorita de su Padre, o algo que les gustara mucho. De pronto Gus levantó la mano: -¿Puedo dibujar a mi mamá? -Preguntó con una candidez encantadora -. A mi papá le gusta muchísimo.

V.C.

Pídele lo mismo a tu hijo y encontrarás muchas sorpresas.

EL TRIUNFO DEL ESPIRITU

Un joven que iba en silla de ruedas entró a la biblioteca, acompañado de su maestra. Esta me preguntó si yo podría recomendarle al muchacho algún libro acerca de personas que hubieran superado un impedimento físico. – él sufrió un accidente automovilístico y los médicos opinan que tal vez no vuelva a caminar – me explicó. Elegí “La historia de mi vida” de Helen Keller. Juan -el joven de la silla de ruedas- se mostró casi indiferente cuando le explique que la autora del libro había nacido ciega y sorda, se había ingeniado para vencer esta doble discapacidad y se había convertido en vocera de personas con graves impedimentos físicos. Me olvidé del asunto hasta que semanas después, Juan volvió!. – Leí el libro – me dijo en tono de triunfo, y quiero darle las gracias. Si Helen Keller pudo vencer tantos obstáculos, también yo puedo hacerlo. Esta vez iba apoyado en muletas.

J.B.L.

Una prueba más de que cuando se quiere se pueden hacer las cosas.

Lo que aprendemos en la madurez

Lo que se aprende en la madurez no son cosas sencillas, como adquirir habilidades e información. Se aprende a no incurrir en conductas auto destructivas; a no dilapidar energía por causa de la ansiedad; Se descubre como dominar las tensiones y que el resentimiento y la auto compasión se encuentren entre las drogas más tóxicas; Se aprende que el mundo adora el talento, pero recompensa el carácter; Se comprende que la mayoría de la gente no esta ni a favor ni en contra nuestra, sino está absorta en sí misma; Se aprende, en fin, que por grande que sea nuestro empeño en agradar a los demás siempre habrá personas que no nos quieran. Esto es una dura lección al principio, pero finalmente muy tranquilizadora.

John Gardner

El ser maduro no es cosa fácil, pero trae como consecuencia muchos beneficios

Ser feliz es tan sencillo

. Si deseáramos tan sólo ser felices, lo conseguiríamos fácilmente. Pero deseamos ser más felíces que los demás, y eso es difícil, pues los imaginamos más dichosos de lo que en realidad son.

Montesquieu

Disfruta de tu propia felicidad y encontrarás que a tu alrededor todos son felices a su manera.

La vejez.

La vejez se asemeja a la conquista de una montaña. Cuando más asciende uno más cansado y falto de aliento se siente; pero al mismo tiempo se le va haciendo más amplio el panorama.

Ingman Bergman

Disfruta de tu vejes, amplía tu panorama y goza de las maravillas de la vida.

Un lugar a solas

El mejor remedio para quienes sienten miedo, soledad o desconsuelo, es salir a algún sitio donde puedan estar a solas con el firmamento, con la naturaleza y con Dios. Porque sólo entonces siente uno que todo es como debe ser, y que Dios desea ver a la gente feliz, rodeada de la sencilla belleza de la naturaleza. Mientras esto exista, y seguramente existirá siempre, yo se que habrá consuelo para todas las penas, cualesquiera que sean las circunstancias y estoy firmemente convencida que la naturaleza brinda alivio a todos los pesares.

Ana Frank

 

DECISIONES CORRECTAS

El juicio de un hombre es óptimo cuando ese hombre se olvida de sí mismo y de cualquier fama que haya adquirido, para concentrarse en tomar decisiones correctas.

Raymond Spwance

 

HOY POR TI, MAñANA POR MI

En 1951 me encontraba en un barco hospital, en el puerto de Fusón, convaleciendo de una herida que recibí en la guerra de Corea. Cuando me dieron de alta, un soldado estadounidense que sabía que estaba yo sin un centavo, me ofreció 4 dólares, e insistió hasta que los acepté. Yo le dije que si volvía a verlo le restituiría el dinero. -No, mejor haga lo mismo que yo, me aconsejó-. Una vez, en Amberes, no tenía con que pagar el taxi para regresar al barco. Un belga me dio el dinero que necesitaba y me dijo: “cuando tenga oportunidad de ayudar a alguien que se encuentre en apuros, hágalo. Así saldará usted su deuda conmigo”.

A.B.

 

Acerca de las normas

Hay una norma de la náutica en virtud de la cual los barcos más fáciles de maniobrar ceden el paso a los más difíciles. Quizá valiera la pena aplicar esa norma en las relaciones humanas.

Joyce Brothers

 

EMOTIVIDAD SELECTIVA

Las cosas buenas que la gente dice de nuestro trabajo se dan por supuestas, o se recuerdan y se aprecian posteriormente. En cambio, los juicios hirientes, severos o despreciativos calan hasta los huesos, y siguen escociendo mucho después de que el placer del elogio se ha asimilado y guardado en la memoria. El problema estriba en que la crítica y el escarnio endurecen la sensibilidad; la vuelven impenetrable a lo que debería acoger. El secreto esta en cultivar una facultad de autocrítica que nos permita distinguir entre aquello que debemos tomar en cuenta y aquello que debemos desechar.

Ane Reynolds

 

El camino.

No se puede caminar en dos direcciones distintas, pero la gracia de la vida es poder ir a donde tiene que irse, por diferentes caminos. Y por la ciencia, como por el arte se va al mismo sitio, a la verdad. Además, lo que importa es el camino. El camino es el que hace entretenidos los días y gratas las noches. El fin es siempre un sueño. Y quizá el verdadero fin es nunca llegar.

Gregorio Magañon

 

HUMORISMO Y SATIRA

El humorismo relaja; la sátira divide y aleja. El humorismo provoca encanto, benevolencia y magnanimidad, la sátira, desafío, malevolencia y desprecio. El humorismo desarma la mente; la sátira la pone en guardia. El humorismo persigue la intimidad; la sátira la indiscreción. El humorismo inspira humildad; la sátira, insolencia. El humorismo predispone a la tolerancia; la sátira, a la impaciencia y a la impertinencia; El humorismo mueve a la amabilidad; la sátira casi siempre ofende.

Branko Boken

 

Al despertar en las mañanas

Siempre he creído que el momento en que uno se despierta en las mañanas es el más maravilloso de todo el día. Por fatigados que nos sintamos, tenemos siempre la certeza de que ese día puede cambiar cualquier cosa. Poco importa que nunca ocurra. La posibilidad esta allí.

Mónica Baldwin

I recommend repeating daily "Today is the best day of my life"

Good things are the simplest

The things of this world are the better the simpler. We lose the obsession with pretending that we are important, and we twist everything believing that with it we stand out. It is the opposite, the mediocre are the cherubs; the sterile is the convoluted. People are less happy the more they put happiness in difficult things. Instead, the simple, seeing things as they are, enjoying the small, preferring to be kind to being illustrious, loving others without asking too much if they deserve it or not, all that is what is filling our soul of happiness.

JL Martín Delgado

 

The censorship

All censorship is a waste of time. No matter what mistake you find in another or how much you blame it, that will not change you, the only thing that reproaches you is to take your focus away when you look for external reasons to explain your misery or frustration. You may succeed in making someone else feel guilty about something, but you will not succeed in trying to change anything that makes you unhappy.

Wayne Dyer

 

Enlarge your life

Neither steam nor gasoline drives anything as long as they are not properly enclosed. Similarly, the life of a human being is never enlarged if he is not concentrated, dedicated and disciplined.

Harry emerson

 

From protection to our children

A child protected from all controversial ideas is as vulnerable as a child isolated from all germs. When an infection occurs (and it will undoubtedly occur), this will devastate your system, be it the immune or the early one.

Jane Smiley

 

COMIC FACE

There is a type of laughter that I have always recommended; first it peeks into the eye with a happy wink, then it drips down and plays around the mouth, like a beautiful moth around the flame of a candle; immediately it slips to the dimples in the cheeks and for a while it rides in those tiny eddies; then it illuminates the whole face like the soft freshness of a Damascus rose; then he swims through the air with a sound as clear and happy as the bell ringing for lunch; finally she comes back on tiptoe, in her golden slippers like an angel that looks for fresh air and lies down in her cradle of violets, in the heart where I live.

JB

 

It takes years

It may take a round-the-world message in a fraction of a second, but it may take years for it to get from outside to inside a man's head.

Charles Kettering

 

Compassion and pity

Compassion and pity are not exactly the same. While the former reflects the heart's longing to merge with the other and take on some of the suffering, the latter is a limited set of thoughts designed to ensure a state of separation. Compassion is the spontaneous response of love; pity the involuntary reflection of fear.

Paul Roud

 
 

 
About the insult

The only worthy way to respond to an insult is to ignore it. If you can't ignore it, get over it. If you can't get over it, laugh at it. If you can't laugh at him, maybe you deserve it.

Russell Lynes

 

THE MAN WHO LONGS TO BE A PROFESSIONAL

The most beautiful thing you can achieve as a human being at each stage of life is to do with love what you like and want. Professional delivery is a pure and spontaneous expression, without internal blocks, without a doubt, without hesitation. It manifests when your commitment has matured. A profession is not just one more job, it is not investing or selling time, but the source from which the torrent of creativity, love, dedication and fulfillment flows. When you have accepted your professional commitment, activity and mission make them the arena where you fight, enjoy, play, compete and learn to grow, achieve and give. Decide without a doubt to realize yourself and be transcendent, despite the external circumstances and your internal weaknesses.

Adolfo Lara Castilla

 

HAPPINESS

To be happy it is essential to believe in happiness, that state of mind that each human being forges personally. One is as happy as one decides to be, for happiness is made, not found; it springs from within, does not come from without; we carry it inside and we just need to bring it to the surface, fully enjoying what we have, without ambition or envy what others have. It is not up to you to be rich and powerful, but to be happy, and if you insist on sharing that pleasant state of mind with others, you will be even happier, because the positive energy that we spread around us is reverted to us. Happiness does not lie in possessing, but in enjoying what you have and that you can be as happy or as unhappy as you decide to be.

Octavio Colmenares V.

 

ACT, WORK AND REALIZE

Hay quienes se pasan la vida ideando proyectos que jamás realizan: imaginan grandes negocios, planean construir una casa, sueñan conquistar una mujer. Transcurridos los días, los meses y los años, no hicieron ni el negocio, ni la casa, ni el hogar; todo se les fue en soñar. Dejan transcurrir su vida en forma inactiva, sin darse cuenta de que vivir es actuar y el no hacer, equivale a permanecer en un estado letárgico, muy parecido a la muerte. Debes llevar a cabo lo que te propongas, sin temor al fracaso, pues si este llega a sobrevenir, te fortalecerá. Quien aspira a algo y trabaja para conseguirlo pone sus cinco sentidos y su total esfuerzo, verá que nada es imposible para los hombres que actúan a condición de que su meta sea factible. Los sueños desproporcionados, irreales, claro que son inalcansables; pero las metas reales siempre se logran si nos lo proponemos.

Octavio Colmenares V.

 

"WE CANNOT GIVE YOU THAT"

"We can't give you that" are four magic words that should be part of each child's education. A child who has never heard them (and who has not been required to respect their meaning) has surely been deceived by his parents. Just as bodily exercise strengthens the body, frugality invigorates the spirit. Without this occasional discipline character suffers.

Morris Mondel.

 

A BUTTON IS ENOUGH TO REMEMBER

One day I was looking at my grandmother's things, after her death, and I found a box full of buttons. Since we are not sentimental, my husband and I thought it was funny that someone had been able to put loose buttons in a box. Then my husband ran into a brown one. -I remember this one! I exclaimed - It was from the sweater of my first school uniform! My husband laughed at my enthusiasm for a button, but I was remembering the smell of the desks, the chalk dust, how clumsy I was in sports, and how self-conscious when I was chosen as prefect. Another button, that one came from the dress my mother was wearing when she was admitted to the hospital. I had watched by her bed, had prayed and had hoped, until I understood that she would never be a healthy and happy woman again. My husband was no longer laughing at me, nor at the button box. He touched my shoulder and said he would wait for me in the car. Pull out more buttons, and each one brought me joy, sadness, and past disappointments: from my first date, from my first job, from my wedding. I lived again: they were 28 years old put in a box. That box now has a special place in my home. Now I keep buttons from the clothes of my own family. Occasionally I choose one and let it take me down the river of memory. Now I keep buttons from the clothes of my own family. Occasionally I choose one and let it take me down the river of memory. Now I keep buttons from the clothes of my own family. Occasionally I choose one and let it take me down the river of memory.

PO

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MESSAGES DEDICATED TO OUR FRIENDS.

Dear Friend, it gives me great pleasure to greet you again, but above all to congratulate you for the great desire to excel that you have shown since we met; It is good that you continue along this line and along this path of personal improvement and knowledge. This time we are going to talk about one of the most important issues that exist in the life of the human being, but especially in the lives of women. ; and it is that mainly the women concentrate so much on caring for their husbands, or their children that they forget themselves and above all never think about their goals and objectives; and the truth is many women in adulthood or middle age after they raise their children, or when they are alone; or simply because the husband did improve himself and they supported him but at the same time they did absolutely nothing for themselves, but always for others; Then they wonder what was the reason for their life, that it has been worth so much effort, and all this because they did not think of themselves, they never defined their own objectives, their own goals, their own longings, and that is why in these messages we will deal with this topic of your life, this that can help you understand the reasons why you are here. I hope that these messages help you to improve your life, but above all to be happier, since you do not forget that the improvement is not for once, nor for a single day, but for all the days of your life; I also hope that you share these messages with your family, your children, your husband, your friends and with all the people who wish to improve themselves. Your friend Lic. María Teresa Bringas And all this because they did not think of themselves, they never defined their own objectives, their own goals, their own desires, and that is why in these messages we are going to deal with this topic of your life, this that can help you understand the reasons why you're here. I hope that these messages help you to improve your life, but above all to be happier, since you do not forget that the improvement is not for once, nor for a single day, but for all the days of your life; I also hope that you share these messages with your family, your children, your husband, your friends and with all the people who wish to improve themselves. Your friend Lic. María Teresa Bringas And all this because they did not think of themselves, they never defined their own objectives, their own goals, their own desires, and that is why in these messages we are going to deal with this topic of your life, this that can help you understand the reasons why you're here. I wish that these messages help you to improve your life, but above all to be happier, since you do not forget that the improvement is not for a single time, nor for a single day, but for all the days of your life; I also hope that you share these messages with your family, your children, your husband, your friends and with all the people who wish to improve themselves. Your friend Lic. María Teresa Bringas This can help you understand the reasons why you are here. I wish that these messages help you to improve your life, but above all to be happier, since you do not forget that the improvement is not for a single time, nor for a single day, but for all the days of your life; I also hope that you share these messages with your family, your children, your husband, your friends and with all the people who wish to improve themselves. Your friend Lic. María Teresa Bringas This can help you understand the reasons why you are here. I hope that these messages help you to improve your life, but above all to be happier, since you do not forget that the improvement is not for once, nor for a single day, but for all the days of your life; I also hope that you share these messages with your family, your children, your husband, your friends and with all the people who wish to improve themselves. Your friend Lic. María Teresa Bringas

Create dreams in your mind.

Women are often the product of their dreams because they shape their personality, guide their work, form their family, and even trace their destiny. Create dreams in your mind and give meaning to your life. AND YOU WILL BE THE WOMAN YOU REALLY WANT TO BE. Looking for solutions ... If you feel fear or fear, Remember that every day the SUN rises to fill you with energy and love. If you feel alone or empty, remember that there is water to fill your concerns and be in harmony. If you feel helpless, remember that the earth exists and that among the millions of people who inhabit it, there is at least one waiting for you.

Tere Bringas

 

Always remember…

For the year that begins, remember that you have everything to start. That you are a complete human being. That you have a body to make yourself physically present. That you have a mind that can be creative. That you have eyes to see the wonders of the earth. That you have a mouth to say words of encouragement. That you have a nose to marvel at the existing delicacies. That you count on some hands to extend them and give thanks. THAT YOU COUNT WITH YOURSELF TO MAKE YOUR STAY IN THIS LIFE THE BEST OF THE BEST.

Tere Bringas

Bases that serve to determine inner harmony.

"KNOW YOURSELF"

Phrase that the ancients considered as the synthesis of wisdom, the key to happiness and success. To "Know yourself" you must accept that life is a continuous struggle between two fundamental forces. We all know the life force, the self-preservation instinct that inspires almost everything we think we do and do. But the opposite force, that of the own destruction, is also in the most intimate part of our being. ”There is not one person in a hundred who (even if unconsciously) does not harm themselves and make themselves fail in one way or another.

Dorothea Brande

You must recognize these two forces and decide which one you use the most in the journey of your life.

BE A BALANCED MINDED WOMAN

The balanced-minded woman accepts temporary defeats as inevitable experiences on the road to success. He does not believe that the person is an impotent puppet moved by subconscious and instinctive forces and desires. She knows that conscience governs and guides the unconscious, that each one of us chooses her own destiny and that nobody, (to put it in words) "March with vain steps" The importance of celebrations In most families, they celebrate every birthday. They celebrate Easter, Christmas, New Year, Day of the Dead, and Valentine's Day, as well as some other dates of their invention. Home rituals, like vacations in the company of the whole family, are very important events. They give a feeling of community; That is what gives people peace of mind and security.

Pierre morton

 

WITH THE WATER UP TO THE NECK

A certain woman with the last name Sánchez was on the roof of her house during a flood, and the water rose and rose, until it reached her feet. A short time later a man passed by, paddling a canoe and shouted at her:
“Madam! Would you like me to take you to a higher place?
•No thanks. I have faith in the Lord and He will save me.
Time passed, and the water reached Madam Sánchez up to her waist. At that, a motorboat stopped there, and from inside a voice shouted:
• Madam, do you want me to take you to higher ground?
•No thanks. I have faith in the Lord and He will save me.
Shortly afterwards a helicopter approached Mrs. Sánchez, when the water level was already reaching her neck.
• Get hold of the rope, and I'll climb it! - Shouted the pilot.
•No thanks. I have faith in the Lord and He will save me.
Puzzled, the pilot left Señora Sánchez on the roof, almost covered by the waters. After two hours of staying in that place, the poor woman, exhausted, could not resist any longer. He drowned and went to heaven. While waiting at the gates of heaven, he found himself facing God and complained about what had happened.
• Lord, I had total faith that you would save me, but you abandoned me; Why?
• Daughter, what else did you want?… I sent you two boats and a helicopter!
FRIEND…… surely many boats and helicopters that you have not seen or that you have not wanted to see have already passed through your life; because it is easier to wait for the solution to your problems to fall from the sky and to wait for a miracle; without understanding that the miracle is in yourself, and that from heaven it will hardly reach you. I hope you take advantage of this opportunity to improve yourself in your life and to solve all your problems; But above all, take advantage of all the opportunities to learn and improve that come your way. "... And it came to pass that on the sixth day God met with the angels of heaven, and created man and woman in his own image and likeness, and gave them his blessing ..." They would have to fulfill a mission of which we are already part. At this moment of creation, one of the Angels asked God: Master, Which of the two beings that you have created will carry the most transcendental part of creation? God was thoughtful, Woman ! - he answered firmly -; Because she? - inquired the Angel - and God explained: Because I have given her a sensitivity different from that of man, I have given her more capacity for sacrifice and an inner power so great that it will make her fight hard to defend her children, because I have given enough spiritual wealth not to feel poor, enough dignity to keep your forehead upright despite the strong hurricanes that will hit your being, sometimes caused by the same man, and because I have given you such a great way of loving that his love will have no limits for the product of his being. Another Angel, listening to the voice of the Lord, asked: But, Master, how will you distinguish her from other women? Will you give her a name? Yes - answered God - I will name him MOTHER! With just five letters will you designate such a wonderful work, Lord? - asked the Angel, quite surprised -; God observed his work on the sixth day and said: Yes, it is only five letters, but together they will form the sweetest and most tender word that human lips will be able to pronounce, and it will mean everything. Another Angel who had been listening to the talk asked: And why, Master, have you chosen precisely these letters? God sat among them and explained: She will wear the M because she will be a WOMAN; A because his self-denial will be great and ADMISSIBLE; D because his work and the essence of his being will have something of DIVINE; the R because his love will be REVOLUTIONARY, he will fight for the well-being of his children; and the E because EXEMPLARY will be their work and their conduct, even in spite of everything. MOTHER! It will be the first word that your children learn to pronounce, with so much sweetness they will say it and with so much pleasure she will receive it. But, - said the first Angel - with some very special name you will call her; God thought about it, thought it over and answered: Yes, you are right, because even though many women will be able to have children, not all of them will be able to really call themselves Mothers, only those that I will choose to enjoy so tender pleasure, and I have already chosen their name. ? - Asked all the Angels at the same time eager to know such a special revelation - and God answered: That so special being that I have described and that will be a wonder of human nature, strong, firm, kind, hardworking, that will have LOVE as a flag of struggle, who will resemble flowers for their beauty and who will love their children above all things, with a love that they will not manipulate but will allow to be, his name will be ... the Angels interrupted again impatiently - As a Master? - God paused and with a firm voice said: Her name will be TERESA, so God finished her sublime act of creation.

A WOMAN IN THE SEA OF LIFE

The Woman without goals ... ... It is like a ship without a rudder, That dragged by the winds to distant seas, will finally sink in failure and suffering. On the other hand, The woman with clear and precise goals is in control of her destiny and sails, confident and successful helmsman, through turbulent or serene waters without ever losing her way. Always set goals, be a tenacious seeker of excellence.

COMMITMENT TO MYSELF

I ... 1.- I can be the best in my activity, because I was created with all the necessary attributes to be GREAT. 2.- I will fight to maintain a worthy purpose and a positive mental attitude at all times, because I know that it is the only way to achieve A WORTHY LIFE. 3.- I will live intensely the day of TODAY, which is the most important and I will forget about the bitterness of yesterday and the uncertainty of tomorrow. 4.- I will adopt in my mind forever the phrase: I CAN! and I will try the impossible, which is the privilege of the Gods. 5.- I will be willing to pay the price to see my most desired dreams come true. 6.- In summary, today I commit myself with all the strength of my being to proclaim this philosophy with myself, with my family, with my friends and with the whole community. IT IS A CHALLENGE TO MY GREATNESS AND I KNOW I WILL WIN. I CAN BE THE BEST!

HECTOR TASSINARI

 

SIMPLY BE

A woman in agony suddenly had the feeling of being taken up to heaven and brought before the court. "Who are you?" Said the voice. "I am the mayor's wife," she replied. - I asked you who you are, not who you are married to. -I'm the mother of four children. -I asked you who you are, not how many children you have. -I'm a school teacher. -I asked you who you are, not what your profession is. -I'm a Christian. -I asked you who you are, not what is your religion. -I am a person who went to church every day and helped the poor and needy. -I asked you who you are, not what you were doing.

YOUR OBLIGATION IS TO BE. NOT A CHARACTER NOR BE A GIFT NOBODY. BUT SIMPLY BE.

 

Anonymous

 

IF I COULD LIVE MY LIFE AGAIN

Me gustaría cometer más errores lo próxima vez. Me relajaría más, sería menos perfecta. Sería más tonta de lo que he sido en este viaje. Tomaría muy pocas cosas en serio. Tomaría más riesgos. Subiría más montañas y nadaría más ríos. Comería más helados y menos frijoles. Quizá tendría más problemas reales y menos imaginarios. Mira, yo soy una de esas personas que vive sensata y sanamente hora tras hora, día tras día. He tenido mis momentos y si lo tuviera que hacer nuevamente, tendría más de éstos. De hecho, trataría de tener solamente momentos. Sólo momentos, uno tras otro, en vez de vivir pensando en los años venideros. Yo he sido una de esas personas que nunca van a ningún lugar sin un termómetro, una botella de agua caliente, un impermeable y un paracaídas. Si pudiera vivir otra vez, viajaría más ligero de lo que lo he hecho. Si pudiera vivir nuevamente, comenzaría a andar descalza al principio de la primavera y seguiría así hasta finales del otoño. Iría a más bailes. Subiría más al carrusel. Recogería más margaritas. Nadine Stair

MUJER

Dios, que estaba ocupado en crear a las madres, llevaba ya seis días trabajando extraordinariamente cuando un ángel se le presentó y le dijo :
•Te afanas demasiado, Señor.
Y el Señor le repuso :
•¿ Acaso no has leído las especificaciones que debe llenar este pedido ? :
” Esta criatura tiene que ser lavable de pies a cabeza, pero sin ser de plástico llevar 180 piezas movibles, todas reemplazables funcionar a base de café negro y de las sobras de la comida. Poseer un regazo que desaparezca cuando se ponga de pie un beso capaz de curarlo todo, desde una pierna rota hasta un amor frustrado… y seis pares de manos”. Y el ángel confundido observó :
•¿ Seis pares de manos ? – ¡ Eso no es posible !
•No son las manos el problema -, agregó el Señor, – sino los tres pares de ojos.
•¿ Y eso para el modelo normal ?-, inquirió el ángel.
El Señor insistió :
•Uno para ver a través de la puerta siempre que pregunte :¿ Niños que andan haciendo ?, aunque ya lo sepa muy bien. Otro, detrás de la cabeza para ver lo que más le valiera ignorar pero precisa saber. Y, desde luego, los de adelante para mirar a un niño en apuros y decirle, sin pronunciar siquiera una palabra : ” Ya entiendo hijo y te quiero mucho “.
El ángel tiró de la manga y advirtió mansamente :
•Vale más que te vayas a la cama, Señor, mañana será otro día…
•- No puedo, y además me falta poco. Ya hice una que se cura por sí sola cuando enferma, que es capaz de alimentar a una familia de seis con medio kilo de carne molida y de persuadir a un chiquillo de nueve años que se esté quieto bajo la ducha.
Lentamente el ángel dio la vuelta en torno de uno de los modelos maternales.
•Me parece demasiado delicado -, comentó con un suspiro.
•Pero es muy resistente -, aseguró Dios emocionado,- no tienes idea de lo que es capaz de hacer y sobrellevar.
•¿ Podrá pensar ?
•¡ Claro ! Y razonar y transigir.
Por último el ángel se inclinó y pasó una mano por la mejilla del modelo.
•¡ Tiene una fuga !
•No es una fuga, es una lágrima.
•¿ Y para que sirve ?
•Para expresar gozo, aflicción, desengaño, pesadumbre, soledad y orgullo.
•Eres un genio, Señor -, dijo el ángel.
Y Dios con un perfil de tristeza, observó : – ¡ Yo no se la puse ! Anónimo

 
 
UNA MUJER

Mi búsqueda no es algo fácil. En mi paso por este mundo he conocido toda clase de personas, de todas las condiciones sociales pero a fin de cuentas sólo se ha tratado de gente, y lo que yo busco es :¡ UNA MUJER ! Pero UNA MUJER que no sea una muñequita de aparador, ni la rosa candorosa e ingenua. Tampoco que sea la hermosura mercenaria, ni la madre sumisa y abnegada o la esclava del hogar. Busco UNA MUJER que se atreva a ser ella misma con todas sus potencialidades. UNA MUJER que no tema ser fuerte, segura e independiente, porque con ello no pierde su feminidad, y en cambio, toma el lugar que le corresponde en la evolución de la pareja humana. UNA MUJER dispuesta a descubrir y a desarrollar todos sus valores y potencial, porque los hombres no maduramos emocionalmente jamás si tenemos compañeras, madres o hermanas que han dado poca importancia al crecimiento como personas. La evolución supone un crecimiento compartido. UNA MUJER preparada y decidida, que no sólo sepa qué hacer, sino cómo y cuándo hacerlo, porque así será un respaldo para mí, como yo con gusto lo seré para ella. UNA MUJER que me descargue de todo el peso de un amor no entregado, porque nunca antes alguien lo había recibido por completo. UNA MUJER que me ayude a verme como soy, no como creo que soy. Que tenga tacto al decirme mis defectos en el momento en que soy más receptivo, para que digiera la crítica constructiva y pueda así florecer como persona. UNA MUJER que sea tierna, sin que pierda firmeza seria sin llegar a ser solemne deseosa de superarse sin sentirse superior dulce, sin ser melosa, y con la frescura de una chamaca, sin caer en lo pueril. UNA MUJER que sea mi compañera en todo : desde tender la cama juntos, hasta adentrarnos en una aventura intelectual, pasando por la experiencia de trabajar hombro a hombro y recorrer un parque en bicicleta. UNA MUJER que no se alarme si alguna vez me ve llorar ( quiero recuperar esa capacidad de expresión reprimida por el machismo ) y que me aliente a “darme permiso” de ser débil y a pedir ayuda a pesar de ser el hombre fuerte. UNA MUJER que descubra lo que le gusta en la vida, y que se esfuerce por averiguar lo que quiere realmente de la misma, teniendo el valor de pagar el precio de sus más grandes anhelos. UNA MUJER que no se deje utilizar y que nunca manipule a otro ser humano, incluyendo a su pareja, pues no tiene objeto caer en una simbiosis destructiva, cuando existe la alternativa luminosa de un crecimiento recíproco. UNA MUJER que sepa que el hombre está llamado a ser el más elevado de los seres vivientes pero que ella, como mujer, fue concebida como la más sublime de las creaciones del Universo. Cuando la encuentre, la amaré intensamente. Y me pregunto : ¿ Acaso esa MUJER eres tú ?

RAFAEL MARTIN DEL CAMPO

 

MUJER,

CREACION MARAVILLOSA DE AMOR CAPAZ DE DARLE VIDA A UN NUEVO SER DENTRO DE TI FORJADORA DEL FUTURO DE TUS HIJOS FUERZA DEL CARáCTER DE TU ESPOSO PILAR DE UNION DE TU FAMILIA QUE NI ANTE LOS PROBLEMAS MAS DIFICILES TE DOBLEGAS PUES GRACIAS A TI, TU ALIENTO, Y TU SER EL MUNDO ES TAN HERMOSO

Gustavo Villegas

 

Y QUIEN SINO TU

 

Y QUIEN SINO TU, MUJER QUE ERES EL IMPULSO DE LAS CONQUISTAS DEL HOMBRE Y QUIEN SINO TU PARA ALENTARLO CUANDO SE SIENTE DERROTADO Y QUIEN SINO TU PARA A TUS HIJOS GUIARLOS Y DARLES EL CONSUELO CUANDO ESTAN DESESPERADOS. Y QUIEN SINO TU MUJER QUE ERES LA LUZ, LA ALEGRIA Y LO MAS BELLO DE ESTA VIDA.

 

GUSTAVO VILLEGAS

 

MUJERCITA

SE AMABLE… …Pero no fácil. SE DIGNA… …Pero no orgullosa. RIE… …Pero no a carcajadas. MIRA… …Pero con recato. SE TIERNA… …Pero no flexible. SE ALEGRE… …Pero no frívola. CONVERSA… …Pero con mesura. SE DULCE… …Pero no empalagues. AMA… …Pero con cautela. OYE… …Pero no siempre creas. SE MUJER… …Pero no muñeca.

ANONIMO

 

 

REGRESAR AL INICIO
CUIDA TU MATRIMONIO

Asomaba a sus ojos una lágrima Y a mi labio una frase de perdón; Habló el orgullo y enjugo su llanto Y la frase en mis labios expiró. Yo voy por un camino, ella por otro; Pero al pensar en nuestro mutuo amor, Yo digo aún: “¿Porqué callé aquél día?” Y ella dirá “¿Porqué no lloré yo?” G.A. BECQUER Cuando se deteriora una relación amorosa, podemos preocuparnos en el dilema de afianzar el vínculo, o dejar que se rompa. Si prevalece la indecisión, el conflicto interior acaso nos deprima hasta el punto de enfermarnos. Hemos de elegir con prontitud entre aferrarnos y luchar por seguir juntos, o desistir y retirarnos. Aferrarnos infructuosamente a un amor marchito es como apretar el puño con mayor fuerza, hasta hacer que los nudillos de los dedos palidezcan. Abandonar la lid es como abrir los puños de nuevo; nos sentiremos mejor… pero con las manos vacias. Paul Lawney

La importancia del matrimonio

Una de las cosas más importantes del matrimonio es sentirse aceptado. El amor es la base del matrimonio, pero hay muchas personas casadas que nunca han sentido aceptación por parte de su pareja. El matrimonio no es un reformatorio; los cónyuges necesitan apoyarse mutuamente, sin críticas ni reservas. Vivir con una esposa o un marido que no lo acepta a uno es como atravesar el valle de las sombras. Charles Allen

En un matrimonio…

Hasta en un matrimonio bien avenido se tiene que vivir con cierta dosis de soledad. No existen dos personas perfectamente compatibles, y hay algunas partes de nuestro ser que tal vez jamás sean entendidas por la persona que esperábamos que fuera nuestra alma gemela. No hay nada que pueda hacer mi marido que me haga compartir su fanatismo por el fútbol Tampoco hay nada que yo pueda hacer para que le gusten los poemas. No dudo de que el destino de los esposos este unido hasta la muerte; no obstante, siempre habrá momentos en la vida conyugal en que el uno se vuelva al otro buscando desesperadamente un reconfortante < te entiendo>, y reciba en vez de ello una mirada de incomprensión. La gente congenia sólo en parte… aún con sus seres más cercanos y más entrañables. Judith Viorst

Cuando una pareja

… Cuando una pareja de casados está más preocupada por conseguir los beneficios, Que por preservar la relación que los hace posibles, suelen volverse insensibles y desconsiderados. Descuidando las pequeñas amabilidades y cortesías tan importantes para una relación profunda. Empiezan a utilizar técnicas de control para manipularse mutuamente, para centrarse en sus propias necesidades, para justificar sus respectivas posiciones y encontrar pruebas de que el otro está equivocado. El amor, la plenitud, la delicadeza y la espontaneidad comienzan a deteriorarse día a día, Stephen r. Covey

Acerca del matrimonio

El matrimonio se parece a un automóvil de tres velocidades. Las velocidades son: afecto, amistad y amor. No conviene forzar la transmisión y pasar directamente de primera a tercera; es preciso avanzar poco a poco. El fundamento del amor es el respeto, y éste se adquiere a través del afecto y la amistad. Peter Ustinov

La responsabilidad en el matrimonio

El matrimonio es una relación basada en gran parte en virtudes. Entre éstas, la más elemental es la responsabilidad, pues la vida de casados es un acuerdo cimentado sobre la dependencia mutua y las obligaciones recíprocas. Pero los buenos matrimonios tienen otras dimensiones, Además del cumplimiento de las condiciones de un contrato. En un matrimonio sólido, ambos cónyuges tratan de superarse el uno por el otro. Dan y reciben fuerza moral compartiendo comprensión, valor, honestidad, disciplina y mil virtudes más. Marido y mujer se complementan uno al otro, y la unión se vuelve más fuerte y maravillosa que la suma de las dos partes. William Bennrtt Como el matrimonio, el recorrido que ofrece la montaña rusa requiere de un fuerte compañero de viaje, alguien a quien asirnos, a quien abrazarnos desesperadamente al comienzo del largo y peligroso descenso, y con quien reírnos cuando el carrito vuelve a subir. Este sube y baja, baja y sube, sin que sepamos lo que hay al doblar el siguiente recodo. H. Van Slyke

Acerca de la envidia

Ya es bastante no helarse a la intemperie, que el hambre y la sed no nos atenacen las entrañas. Si no tenemos rota la espalda, si podemos mover los pies, si nos es posible flexionar ambos brazos, si podemos ver con ambos ojos y oír con los dos oídos, ¿A quién habría que envidiar? ¿Y por qué razón? La envidia es lo que más nos carcome. Límpiate los ojos y purifica tu corazón y estima más que nada en el mundo a quienes te quieren y te desean bien. Después de todo, esta podría ser tu última acción. Solyenitsin

Vale la pena

… If we meet a man worth talking to and don't talk to him, we will have wasted it. When we meet a man who is not worth talking to and talk to him, we will have wasted our words. The wise man does not waste the person of merit nor does he waste his words. Confucius

good wishes

“If they love us, it is in good time; to those who do not love us, may God change the feelings of their hearts; and if not, to twist their ankles, so that we recognize them when we see them limping ”. Cit. Alex Thie

The best gift

I think the best gift I can receive from someone is to see me, listen to me, understand me and touch me. The best gift I can give is to see, hear, understand, and touch another person. When this has been done, I feel like contact has been made. Virginia Satir

Love and do what you want

Living is wanting more, always more; desire, not out of appetite, but out of illusion. The illusion is the sign of life; love, this is life. Loving to the point of being able to give oneself for what is loved. To be able to forget oneself, this is to be oneself; to be able to die for something, this is to live. He who thinks only of himself is nobody; it is empty. Only the one who can forget himself, the one who can give himself, the one who loves, in a word, is alive. And then you just have to get going. "love and do what you want". Joan Maragal

About love

Love is at the same time, a moment and a lifetime. It is seeing the other person in the back of the room and feeling that if we did not spend the rest of our lives with them, we will not have lived. Loving is working together, laughing together, growing together. It is respecting each other and respecting the loved ones of the other, although sometimes it is difficult to get along with the relatives and friends of the loved one. It is wanting to loudly proclaim the successes, big or small, of the other. To love is to want to wipe away the tears that cause failure to spill. To love is to like mutual company. It is wanting to father children together because children are the admiration signs of love. Loving is knowing how to laugh, especially in the middle of an argument. Liz Carpenter

A life of harmony

A life of total harmony is not natural. It is normal for human beings who share mutual interests to argue from time to time. It is a lie that in healthy society there must always be brotherhood and peace. The reality is different: In healthy society there must be rules to fight! The same thing happens in marriage. To have a true conjugal integration you cannot be idealistic. Perfect relationships, without controversy or dispute, only exist in fairy tales. In every lucid family members must know that they are not without problems and should therefore prepare with hundreds of rules to follow when disagreements arise!

Friendship in marriage

Friendship means respect. Respect for the friend's differences, dreams, dignity, and vulnerability. You can deeply love your partner and yet not be your best friend; because, in reality, love is not enough. There must be love, but friendship perfects it until it becomes a vital companionship, and that is what makes a marriage extraordinary. CATHERINE JOHNSON

Let's be friends with our partner

In general, women have a best friend, while a man's closest friend is usually his wife. This means that in marriage, friendship can be much more important for men than for women. The more friendly a woman is to her husband, the happier he and she will be. DORIS WILD HELMERING

Let's talk about happiness

La felicidad es una actitud, no un estado. Es limpiar las persianas mientras escuchamos una melodía, o pasar una hora agradable poniendo en orden la casa. Es ver reunida a la familia a la hora de la cena. Se encuentra en el presente, no en la lejana promesa de algún día, cuando… Que afortunados y felices seríamos si nos enamoráramos de la vida que vivimos. La felicidad es algo que escogemos. Atrapémosla en el momento en que pase como un globo impulsado por el viento hacia un cielo azul y luminoso. ADAIR LARA

Lo maravilloso de la vida

Pocas veces en la vida suceden cosas maravillosas. Si no disfruta usted de levantarse cada mañana, trabajar y terminar la labor del día y sentarse a comer en compañía de su familia o de sus amigos, probablemente no será muy feliz. Si alguien basa su felicidad o su infelicidad en que haya en su vida grandes acontecimientos, como conseguir un empleo estupendo, tener mucho dinero, disfrutar de un matrimonio todo miel sobre hojuelas, o viajar a algún lado, esa persona no será feliz gran parte del tiempo. Sí, por el contrario, hacemos depender nuestra felicidad de un buen desayuno, de que haya flores en el jardín, de tomarnos una copa o de dormir la siesta, entonces tendremos más oportunidades de vivir con una buena tajada de felicidad. ANDY ROONEY

Solo dile que la amas

Se me ocurre que un hombre sólo necesita saber dos frases para sobrevivir. La primera, para pedir de comer. La segunda, para decirle a una mujer que la ama. Si ese hombre debe prescindir de una u otra de estas dos frases, que sea la primera; porque, con toda seguridad, si le dice a una mujer que la ama, ella le dará de comer. LOUIS L`AMOUR

 
 
Acerca del amor

Solo los ingenuos creen que el amor es de cemento y que basta con tenerlo para que dure siempre. El amor es frágil, como un jarrón de china. Y necesita mimos y cuidados. Y la menor grieta tiende dolorosamente a crecer. Vivirlo confiadamente para después llorar sobre su tumba es la mejor manera de destrozar la vida. J. L. MARTIN DESCALZO

Te debe de importar

A cada uno de nosotros deben de importarle los hijos de los demás. Es preciso considerar que el bienestar de nuestros hijos y nietos está íntimamente ligado Al bienestar de los hijos de otras personas. Viéndolo bien, cuando uno de los nuestros necesite una intervención quirúrgica, será El hijo de alguien más quien la lleve a cabo. Si un vástago nuestro sufre alguna agresión, el responsable será descendiente de otras personas. Para que nuestros hijos tengan una buena vida, los hijos de los demás deben gozar del mismo privilegio. LILIAN KATZ

Tiempo de amistad

Podría decirse que nadie ve realmente una flor. Es demasiado pequeña y, además, no tenemos tiempo. Y hace falta tiempo para ver, así como hace falta tiempo para cultivar una amistad. GEORGIA O KEEFFE.

MI BUSQUEDA NO ES SENCILLA

He encontrado en mi vida amigos, enemigos, conocidos, científicos, intelectuales, pacifistas y aún continúo mi pesquisa porque lo que yo deseo es :

¡ UN HOMBRE !

UN HOMBRE que no tema a la ternura; que se atreva a ser débil cuando necesite detenerse a recobrar fuerzas para la lucha diaria que no piense que al amarme lo derroto, o que al amarlo me aniquila. UN HOMBRE que me proteja de los demás y de mí misma, que conociendo mis errores, los acepte y me ayude a corregirlos. UN HOMBRE que quiera y sepa reconocer mis valores espirituales y sobre ellos pueda construir todo un mundo que nunca me rebaje con su trato. UN HOMBRE que con cada amanecer me ofrezca una ilusión, que aliente nuestro amor con toda delicadeza para que una flor entregada con un beso tenga más valor que una joya. UN HOMBRE con el que se pueda hablar, que jamás corte el puente de comunicación y ante quien me atreva a decir cuanto pienso, sin temor de que me juzgue y se ofenda, y que sea capaz de decírmelo todo, incluso que no me ama. UN HOMBRE que tenga siempre los brazos abiertos para que yo me refugie en ellos cuando me sienta amenazada e insegura, que conozca su fortaleza y mi debilidad, pero jamás se aproveche de ello. UN HOMBRE que tenga los ojos abiertos a la belleza, a quien domine el entusiasmo y ame intensamente la vida para quien cada día sea un regalo inapreciable que hay que vivir plenamente, aceptando el dolor y la alegría con igual serenidad. UN HOMBRE que sepa ser siempre más fuerte que los obstáculos, que jamás se amilane ante la derrota y para quien los contratiempos sean más estímulos que adversidad, pero que esté tan seguro de su poder que no se sienta en la necesidad de demostrarlo a cada minuto en empresas absurdas sólo para probarlo. UN HOMBRE que no sea egoísta, que no pida lo que no se ha ganado, pero que siempre haga esfuerzos para tener lo mejor porque lo ha ganado. UN HOMBRE que goce dando y que sepa recibir. UN HOMBRE que se respete a sí mismo, porque así sabrá respetar a los demás que no recurra jamás a la burla ni a la ofensa, que más rebajan a quien las hace que a quien las recibe. UN HOMBRE que no tenga miedo de amar, ni que se envanezca porque es amado; que goce el minuto como si fuera el último, que no viva esperando el mañana porque tal vez nunca llegue. … cuando lo encuentre, lo amaré intensamente. Anónimo

MIS RELACIONES CON LOS DEMáS

Tu y yo vivimos en una relación que valoro y quiero conservar. Sin embargo, cada uno de nosotros es una persona diferente, con sus propias necesidades y el derecho de satisfacerlas. Cuando tu tengas dificultades para resolver tus problemas, trataré de escucharte cordialmente y ayudarte, con el objeto de que encuentres tus propias soluciones en lugar de depender de las mías. De la misma manera, trataré de respetar tu derecho a escoger tus propias ideas y a desarrollar tus propios valores, aunque sean diferentes a los míos. Cuando tu actividad interfiera con lo que debo hacer para la satisfacción de mis necesidades, te comunicaré abierta y honestamente cómo me afecta tu conducta, confiando en que tú me comprenderás y ayudarás en lo que puedas. De la misma manera, cuando alguno de mis actos te sea inaceptable, espero que me comuniques con sinceridad tus sentimientos. Te escucharé y trataré de cambiar. En las ocasiones que descubramos que ninguno de los dos puede cambiar su conducta para satisfacer las necesidades del otro, reconozcamos que tenemos un conflicto que requiere solución. Comprometámonos, entonces, a resolver cada uno de estos conflictos, sin recurrir al uso del poder o de la autoridad, para tratar de vencer a expensas de la derrota del otro. Respeto tus necesidades pero también quiero que respetes las mías. Esforcémonos siempre para encontrar una solución que sea aceptable para ambos. Tus necesidades serán satisfechas y también las mías. Ambos venceremos y ninguno será derrotado. De esta forma, tú podrás continuar tu desarrollo como persona mediante la satisfacción de tus necesidades y yo también podré hacerlo nuestra relación podrá ser lo suficientemente positiva para que, en ella, cada uno de nosotros pueda esforzarse para llegar a ser lo que es capaz de ser. Así podremos continuar relacionándonos el uno y el otro con respeto, amor y paz mutuos. THOMAS GORDON

EL HOMBRE Y LA MUJER

El hombre es la más elevada de las criaturas, la mujer el más sublime de los ideales. El hombre es el cerebro, la mujer el corazón el cerebro fabrica la luz, el corazón el amor, la luz fecunda, el amor resucita. El hombre es fuerte por la razón la mujer es invencible por las lágrimas la razón convence, las lágrimas conmueven. El hombre es capaz de todos los heroísmos la mujer de todos los martirios el heroísmo ennoblece, el martirio sublima. El hombre es un código la mujer es un sagrario el código corrige, el evangelio perfecciona. El hombre es un templo la mujer es un santuario ante el templo nos descubrimos, ante el santuario nos arrodillamos. El hombre piensa la mujer sueña pensar es tener en el cráneo una larva, soñar es tener en la frente una aureola. El hombre es un océano la mujer es un lago el océano tiene la perla que adorna, el lago la poesía que deslumbra. El hombre es el águila que vuela la mujer el ruiseñor que canta volar es dominar el espacio, cantar es conquistar el alma. En fin el hombre está donde termina la tierra, la mujer donde comienza el cielo. Anónimo

EN LA MUJER EL HOMBRE APRECIA

El buen humor y el optimismo. La naturalidad y el tacto. La inteligencia sin ostentación. La cultura sin pedantería. La conversación atractiva y amena. La feminidad en todos los momentos. Que sepa escucharle con atención, sin interrumpirlo a cada instante. Que le adule discreta y oportunamente. Que le muestre su admiración y confianza. Que se interese en sus problemas y actividades. Que le deje sentirse un poco protector y sepa cuando mirarlo. Que sepa cuando dejarlo solo con sus pensamientos. Que sepa ser discreta con su pasado. Que sea buena compañera y se divierta con lo que él se divierte. Que ella se comporte como una dama, esto es con dignidad y decoro. Anónimo

EN EL HOMBRE LA MUJER APRECIA

El deseo constante de superación. El buen humor y el optimismo. La caballerosidad en todos sus actos. La cultura y las ideas creadoras. La honradez y el cumplimiento de su trabajo. La energía pero sin rudeza. La firmeza y lealtad en el amor. La cortesía y galantería en todo momento. Que le pregunte de su opinión sobre algunos de sus asuntos. Que combine el amor con la poesía. Que sea cariñoso y comprensivo. Que sea limpio en su persona y en sus pensamientos. Que siempre la respalde ante los demás. Que sepa responder dignamente y en forma justa de todos sus actos. Que sea atento con la familia de ella. Que sea cuidadoso en su lenguaje. Que se fije cuando ella ha esmerado sus arreglos para él. Que no tenga vicios. Anónimo.

EL ARTE DEL MATRIMONIO

Un buen matrimonio debe crearse. Dentro de este, las cosas pequeñas son las más importantes… Es nunca ser demasiado viejo para tomarse de las manos. Es recordar decir ” te quiero ” por lo menos una vez al día. Es nunca ir a dormir estando enojados. Es estar de acuerdo en los valores y tener objetivos comunes. Es estar juntos frente al mundo. Es formar un círculo de amor que una a toda la familia. Es decir palabras de estímulo y siempre demostrar gratitud con detalles y cariño. Es tener capacidad de perdonar y olvidar. Es dar uno al otro una atmósfera en la que cada uno se pueda desarrollar. Es realizar una búsqueda en común de lo bueno y de lo hermoso. No es solamente casarse con la persona adecuada… Es ser el socio ideal. Wilferd A. Peterson

LA ORACION DE LOS ESPOSOS

SEñOR : Haz de nuestro hogar un sitio de amor. Que no haya injuria, porque tú nos comprendes. Que no haya amargura, porque tú nos bendices. Que no haya egoísmo, porque tú nos alientas. Que no haya rencor, porque tú nos perdonas. Que no haya soledad, porque tú estas con nosotros. Que cada mañana amanezca con un día más de entrega. Que cada noche nos encuentre con más amor de esposos. Haz, Señor, de nuestros hijos lo que tú anhelas. Ayúdanos a educarlos por tu camino. Que nos esforcemos en el consuelo mutuo. Que hagamos del amor un motivo para amarte más. Y cuando amanezca el gran día de ir a tu encuentro. Nos concedas hallarnos unidos para siempre en TI. Anónimo.

RECETA PARA UN HOGAR FELIZ

INGREDIENTS: 4 CUPS OF LOVE 2 CUPS OF FAITHFULNESS 3 CUPS OF UNDERSTANDING 1 CUP OF FRIENDSHIP 5 SPOONS OF HOPE 2 SPOONS OF TENDERNESS 4 PARTS OF FAITH I COSTAL OF JOY PREPARATION METHOD: Take LOVE and HAPPINESS and mix them well with FAITH . Add the TENDERNESS and the UNDERSTANDING. Season with FRIENDSHIP and HOPE. Season abundantly with JOY. Bake with SUN RAYS. Serve generously every day. ANONYMOUS

DECALOGUE OF HAPPY MARRIAGE

FOCUS ON YOUR COUPLE'S GOOD ASPECTS: Couples are advised to exchange compliments for several minutes each night. DON'T MAKE YOUR ANGUES ROUTINE: Many people always like to play the role of victims, but remember that your partner should not be indefinitely harassed. FREE YOURSELF FROM THE GHOSTS OF THE PAST: Past experiences creep into even the most superficial aspects of our relationships. The only way to solve this is to ask yourself: Why are we acting like this? ESTABLISH RULES TO DISSIPATE ANGER: Fighting, as long as there is no violence, is not necessarily bad. What is important is what one does afterwards, that is, one must talk about what happened and its causes, and how to avoid repeating the situation. NEGOTIATE WITH YOUR COUPLE TO GET WHAT YOU WANT: A good attempt is to ask your partner what you want in exchange for an exchange of simple favors that make you both feel loved. LOOK FOR THE MAIN PROBLEM BEHIND THE APPARENT PROBLEM: In some cases couples are sure they know exactly what is wrong, but often those are just symptoms. WRITE AND ANALYZE THE SCRIPT FOR DIFFICULT SITUATIONS: Take a positive approach, look for alternatives to solutions. Once the answer is found, almost any difficulty can be overcome. DO NOT ALLOW LITTLE GIRLS TO GET VERY IMPORTANT: To improve your marriage, couples have to wonder why they allow petty things to become very irritating. You have to focus on the issues that really matter. WISH TIME FOR SOLO DIALOGUE: The biggest enemy in the couple is the lack of time, it is recommended to allocate a period of each week only for both of them. This time should be used to resolve any concerns regarding your partner's behavior. GO TO THE SPECIALIST OR ASK FOR HELP: When one spouse shuns advice, the other can improve the marriage relationship by examining their own behavior and changing what is necessary, so their partner can and should change as well. DIANNE HALES In this way, your partner can and should change. DIANNE HALES In this way, your partner can and should change. DIANNE HALES

THE REASONS OF THE WOMAN MAN, IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY THE FOLLOWING RULES YOU MUST UNDERSTAND:

For your man to be a KING, a princess you must be. If you want your partner to climb a mountain, you must be on top. If you are looking for his love and loyalty, your beauty must be taken care of. If you want to see him succeed in his work, you must give him your love and understanding. And if a good father wants your husband to be, good sense, balance and maturity you must show. If you want your man to conquer wealth, your assets and money you have to manage. And if you want to keep him away, or that he is unfaithful to you, you must be jealous, be and your person neglect. If you are looking for him to speak, and share his time with you, you must cultivate, and to do so prepare. If you want a HAPPY AND HAPPY HOME, hard-working, demure and beautiful you must look. AND IF A TRUE MAN YOU LOOK FOR, AS A TRUE WOMAN YOU MUST ACT.

GUSTAVO VILLEGAS

 

THE REASONS FOR THE WOMAN MAN IF A GOOD MARRIAGE WANTS THE FOLLOWING RULES YOU MUST UNDERSTAND.

If you are looking for a princess, a dragon you must kill, and an empire to conquer. If your queen is in the clouds, Alas you must make for yourself. And if the lady you already have is sad, feel guilty because she is crying for you. Look him straight in the eye, and deep down like a sea discover his motives and get to work for them. If your wife wants a palace, work hard, suffer, and fight even though this hurts you. If you are looking for pure and clean love, character, firmness and will you must show. And if you don't want the butterfly to escape from your hands, never squeeze too much that you could hurt it. Well if you offend attacks and hurts, like a dagger in your soul you leave a wound. Remember that she does not want a King of the world but a king for her. He knows that he is not looking for a Slave of society, but a slave at his service. And your man, you were born and you were conceived by a woman, Now your WOMAN you must CARE, PROTECT AND LOVE. And to her, your life and your time you must CONSECRATE,

GUSTAVO VILLEGAS

 

LA FUERZA DE UNO

El Hombre y la Mujer, la Mujer y el Hombre, dos mitades, UNO SOLO, Jamás podrían existir el uno sin el otro, la Noche y el Día, el Sol y la Luna, la Tierra y el Cielo, el Aire y el Mar, el Agua y el Fuego. Diferentes, distintos, complementarios, el uno para el otro, el otro para el uno La Fuerza y el Amor, la Guerra y la Paz. Jamás creados para ser iguales, nunca pensados para ser idénticos, creados, para conquistar el mundo, hechos para ser uno, formados para complementarse, pensados para fundirse. UNA sola creación pensada en dos cuerpos, Una fruta partida a la mitad, Sólo la armonía del mundo se alcanza cuando se funden la Mujer y el Hombre, sólo el Señor se regocija al ver a un Hombre y una Mujer AMARSE, y cuando esto ocurre el cielo se despeja, sale el sol, y ningún obstáculo podría detener la fuerza de una Mujer y un Hombre sólo ellos, son capaces de vencer, de lograr, de conquistar, de ser felices. Jamás un Hombre podría ser feliz sin una mujer Una Mujer se marchitaría sin un hombre. Un hogar, es el reflejo de la armonía y el amor de el Hombre y la Mujer, Un hijo, es el fruto de este amor, el resultado de fundir a dos seres, la suma de uno mas uno es uno, Uno con Dios, uno con el universo, uno con el mundo, uno con la naturaleza, uno solo mezclados en la sustancia suprema del amor, perdidos en el polvo de la vida, plasmados en un espacio en el tiempo, soñados por el Creador Supremo para amarse y deleitarse el uno con el otro. Pues en el tiempo la única huella y trascendencia que tendrán es la del amor que se darán. En la vida nada vale, nada importa, como el amor de los dos, como el amor que forma UNO, como entregar la vida el uno al otro.

GUSTAVO VILLEGAS

* REGRESAR AL INICIO
Tu lugar en la familia.

Todo ser humano aprende a valorarse en el lugar donde crece, Ayudado de las personas con quienes convive. En la familia nacen las expectativas del individuo, su moral, Su forma de sentir; su personalidad en sí. Y ten presente querida amiga, que eres tú la directora de esa familia. Y que es a ti a quien corresponde poner esas directrices.

REGRESAR AL INICIO
MENSAJES DEDICADOS A NUESTROS HIJOS

 

POR FAVOR, DIOS MIO… ¡ SOLO TENGO 17 AñOS !

The day of my death was as common as any day of my school studies. It would have been better if I had returned as usual on the bus, but the time it took to get home bothered me. I remember the lie that I told my mother to lend me her car among the many requests and pleas, I said that all my friends drove and that I would consider it a special favor if they lent it to me. When the bell struck at 2:30 in the afternoon to leave class, I threw the books at the desk because I would be free until the other day at 8:40 in the morning, I ran euphorically to the parking lot to pick up the car, thinking only that I was going to handle it as I pleased. How the accident happened ? This does not matter. I was running with excessive speed, I felt free and joyful, enjoying the running of the car. The last thing I remember is that I passed an old woman, because her slow way of driving despaired. I heard the deafening crash noise and felt a tremendous jolt… Irons and pieces of glass flew everywhere, I felt my body turn upside down and I heard my own scream. Suddenly I woke up. Everything was very still and a policeman was standing next to me. I also saw a doctor. My body was shattered and bloody, with pieces of glass wedged everywhere. Strange thing, he felt no pain. Hey! Don't cover my head with that sheet. I'm not dead, I'm only 17 years old! I also have a date at night, I still have to grow up and enjoy a lovely life… I can't be dead! Then they put me in a drawer. My parents had to identify me. What distressed me the most is that they saw me like this, shattered. I was impressed by Mom's eyes, when she had to face the most terrible experience of her life, Dad suddenly grew old when he said to the manager of the amphitheater: "Yes ... this is my son". The funeral was a macabre experience. I saw all my relatives and friends approach the mortuary box. One by one they passed with saddened eyes, some of my friends cried, others touched my hands and sobbed as they left. Please someone wake me up! Get me out of here, I can't stand to see Mom and Dad inconsolable. My grandparents' affliction barely allows them to walk ... my sisters and brothers look like rag dolls. It seems that everyone was in a trance. No one wants to believe it, not even myself. Please don't put me in the pit! I promise you my God that if you give me another chance I will be the most careful in the world when driving. I just want one more chance. Please, my God… I'm only 17 years old Anonymous

YOUTH

Youth is not a matter of time, but a state of mind. It is not a matter of the will, a quality of the imagination, a vigor of emotions is the freshness of the deep springs of life. Youth means the predominance of courage over shyness, of adventure over what is easy. This often exists in a person in his sixties, rather than in a young man of twenty. No one grows old by deserting their ideals. years can wrinkle our skin, but lack of enthusiasm wrinkles our soul. The worry, the doubt, the mistrust, the fear, the despair, these bend the heart and turn the spirit into dust. Whether you are sixty or sixteen, in every human heart there is the love of the wonderful, the wonder of the stars in the sky, the fearless defiance of events, the infallible appetite of childhood for what comes after the joy of living. You are as young as your faith, as old as your doubt, as young as your self-confidence, as old as your fears, as young as your hope, as old as your despair. Douglas McArthur

 
 
BE YOUNG

Youth is more than just a stage of life, it is a mental attitude towards it. To be young is to have temper in the will, quality and height in the imagination, vigor in the emotions. We will only be old when we have lost our ideals. We will be young in the measure of our faith, of the confidence in ourselves, and while hope encourages our spirit. As long as our hearts are capable of receiving messages of beauty of joy and enthusiasm, we will continue to be young. We will only grow old if the heart is covered by the snows of skepticism and the ice of defeat. Rudyard kipling

BEING A MAN

To my son Michel when he turns 15: To be a man, my son, is to step on the fathoms of fear, and keep walking: to endure the pain of the flesh in silence and the aridity in the eyes, plus let the tears flow, yes the brokenness is of the soul. It is to encircle the value of prudence and the ardor of caution, without twisting the purpose, without denting the decision forged in the tenacity, patience, reason, experience and meditation. It is to pass - with your arms tight to your body, your lips motionless, holding your breath - next to the sandcastle (which is the happiness that another man built) if with your word or by extending your arm, you could knock him down. Because ruining your neighbor's happiness is more serious, worse, than putting your hand in your pocket to rob him! My son, do not despise gold, but do not let gold rule your life. Accumulate enough to never have to extend your hand to the mercy of another, and to be able to put something in the hand that extends towards you. And whoever asks you for bread, do not give advice. Don't judge yourself wiser than the one who seeks help. Give him support and encouragement and share his burden, give him your gold and your effort, and then give the advice. Do not put fear in the guise of forgiveness, courage, my son, is the highest virtue, and confess guilt, the supreme value. So do not put the burden on your brother's shoulders, or dress the others in the clothes of your mistake. It is your duty, if you fall, despite the fall, your ideal and your desire to always stay upright and not look for the excuse, nor find the excuse: the heroes, my son, never use pretexts. The lie is soot, do not stain your lips. And don't you boast being rich, being happy or being wise, in front of the one who exhibits the wound of failure. Do not revolt envy, admiration, jealousy, and look for the smile, do not seek applause. And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my son, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my son: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness not be reduced by abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías admiration, jealousy, and look for the smile, don't look for applause. And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my son, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my son: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness not be reduced by abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías admiration, jealousy, and look for the smile, don't look for applause. And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my son, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my son: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness not be reduced by abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my son, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my son: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness not be reduced by abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my son, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my son: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness not be reduced by abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías nor may your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías nor may your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my son: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My son, this is what that short phrase, TO BE A MAN, means. Elías M. Zacarías

DIARY OF A GIRL WHO WAS NOT BORN

October 5 .- Today my life has started Dad and Mom do not know yet, I am smaller than the head of a pin, however I am already an independent being. For example, I will have Papa's eyes and Mama's black hair. And it has also been established: I WILL BE A GIRL. October 19 .- My first blood and my first veins will appear and my organs are not yet fully formed, Mom must feed me with her blood and her vital energies. But when I am born it will be enough for me only that she give me her milk for some time. October 23.- My mouth opens to the outside. In a year I will be able to laugh when my parents lean over my bed, my first word will be: MOM. October 25.- My heart has begun to beat. It works without ever stopping, without resting until the end of my life. THIS IS A MIRACLE! November 2. - My arms and legs start to grow and will grow until they are fully formed and suitable for use, this will last for some time, even after my birth. November 12.- Now my fingers are sticking out of my hands. With them I will take over the world and participate in the fatigue of men. November 20.- All my organs are fully formed, I am very grown. December 10.- My hair and eyebrows are growing. Who knows how happy she will be with her daughter? December 13.- Soon I will be able to see light, colors, flowers ... it must be magnificent, above all it fills me with happiness to think that I will be able to see my Mom. December 24.- My heart is already perfect. There must be children who come into the world with a sick heart. In these cases, you have to face fearsome penalties to save them with an operation. Thank God my heart is healthy. I will be a girl full of strength and life. Everyone will be happy on the day of my birth. December 28.- TODAY MY MOM HAS KILLED ME!

Bring a child to the world

Bold is to bring a child to the world, feed it, dress it and protect it, worry about it, instill discipline, educate it, strive to prepare it as much as possible to face the life it will lead ... and then let it live its own life. DL STWA

A nice break

When I entered a naval hospital to give birth to my tenth son, I gave a nurse my personal data and she wrote them down in the admission book. After having questioned me long and in detail about the previous births, she asked me: -What is the classification or grade of your husband?
• Lieutenant Colonel in the Marine Corps, retired.
Looking at me over the glasses, the nurse said seriously: "Don't you think it's time for you to retire, too?" JFC

Prayer of a son

And the lord said: I will lend you a son of mine for a time so that you will love him while he lives. It could be six, seven years, ten or fifteen until I call him. CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF IT? I want him to learn to live: I have looked for a teacher and I have chosen you. WILL YOU TEACH HIM? I do not offer to stay with you, I only lend it to you. Because what goes to earth returns to me. He will have the tenderness, the joy and the full understanding of his youth. And the day I call him, you will not cry, nor will you hate me for returning him with me. His bodily absence will be compensated by many and pleasant memories. And with it your mourning will be easier and you will have to say with grateful humility Lord, your will be done. I am the way, the truth and the life ... John 14.6 How to spoil your child - Starting from childhood, give the child everything he wants. In this way he will believe that everyone has an obligation to give him things without him making the slightest effort. - When he learns to say rude words, laugh at him, so he will think that these things are funny and he will want to continue doing others more funny. - Never give him any spiritual education. He always lets him "decide for himself." - Don't use the word BAD. It can make your child develop a guilt complex. - Do absolutely everything for him, so that he gets used to putting all the responsibility on others. - Let him read any magazine or book he finds. - Discuss with your husband in the presence of your children. In this way, they will not be surprised if their home falls apart later. - Give your child ALL THE MONEY YOU WANT. (Never let him win his own effort.) Why must he go through the same difficulties as his father? - Satisfies every whim and whim he has, for your comfort and pleasure. - Please every sensual desire, if you can not be frustrated .. - Despite the evidence, ALWAYS defend your child against neighbors, teachers and police. They are all biased against your son. - When your son is in trouble, apologize saying: "I could never do anything with him" - Prepare yourself for an unhappy and sad life. This is most likely what you and your child are going to have. These words were not prepared by any preacher, or by any religious organization, but by the City of Houston Texas Police Department. Translated by Tina Torres THANK YOU LORD Dad, how much do you earn per hour? Daddy, how much do you make an hour? With a shy voice and admiring eyes, a little boy thus received his father at the end of his work. The father made a severe gesture to the boy and replied: - Look son, Those reports are not even known to your mother. Don't bother me, I'm tired.
• But Dad - the little boy insisted - please tell me how much you earn per hour.
• The reaction was less severe, the father only replied:
• Eight hundred pesos per hour.
• Daddy, could you lend me four hundred pesos? - asked the little one.
• The father, very angry and abruptly treating the son, said:
• So that is the reason for knowing how much I earn. Go to sleep and don't bother me, exploited boy!
Night had fallen. The father had thought about what had happened and felt guilty: maybe his son needed something! Anyway, since he wanted to unload his hurt conscience, he went to the child's room. In a low voice he asked:
• Are you sleeping son?
• Tell me dad, answered the boy.
Here's the money you asked me for, replied the father
• Thank you, Dad, the little boy answered and tucking his little hand under his pillow, he took out some bills and said:
• Now I have completed, daddy, I have eight hundred pesos!
• Could you sell me an hour of your time?
Anonymous

The child and the world

A 6-year-old boy was pestering his father to come and play with him, repeating to him at every moment: - Let's play, Dad, please let's play. The father, somewhat annoyed by this situation, began to think of something to get rid of the child, as he leafed through his newspaper and realized that there was a figure of a world on it, cut out the page of the world and thought "I'm going to cut out the world into pieces and then I will put the child to assemble it, as he does not yet know the geographical situation of the planet, surely he will not be able to assemble it and while I will continue reading my newspaper. ” According to his plan, he called his son and said to him:
• Well son, I cut this world for you, I am going to tear it to pieces and you are going to put it together, when you finish we play.
And the boy smiled and went to put the world together. The father was happy believing that his son would take a long time if he did what he was told to do; What was his surprise when the boy, about three minutes later, approaches him and says:
• The world is already armed.
• And how did you make him a son? - Dad asks
• It was easy, behind the world there was a man, I put the man in his place and the world was fixed.
Anonymous

The echo

Dad and son were walking through a grotto, together they observed the beauty of the wonders of nature, suddenly it was heard that someone shouted and in response the echo music was given. The curious boy asked his dad, what is that? And the dad answered is the echo. And the child questioned again, and what is the echo? The father, somewhat thoughtful to teach his son a lesson, replied:
• The echo is the answer of life.
• Look son screams ugly. And the boy screamed. Ugly. And the echo replied:
Ugly, eo eo ooo until the sound was lost.
• Now, wrong. And the boy screamed, wrong. And the echo replied: bad, al al al lll until the sound was lost.
• Now, pretty. And the boy screamed, pretty. And the echo replied: nice, ito ito ito to to ooo, until the sound was lost.
• Now say well. And the boy screamed, okay. And the echo replied: well, ien en en n.
The father interrupted the sound and said to his son: See son ?, the echo is the response of life, as you speak to it, it responds to you. Anonymous

Help message

A father who was already desperate because his two young children were always fighting and never helped each other, decided to call them to make the following comment:
• Children, come on, see this? There are four pencils each representing dad, mom to you daughter and you son. Please everyone break your pencil.
• And indeed each one was breaking his pencil; first the boy, then the girl, the mother and the father.
• When he finished he said to them again: Now take other pencils, and your daughter give your pencil to your brother.
Put the two together and try to break them son. And the boy with the greatest difficulty was able to break them. And the father said again: Now, son, take three pencils. And the boy with even more difficulty was able to break them. Now, son, take four pencils, he pointed out. And the boy, no matter how hard he tried, could not break them. And the father concluded by saying:
• Do you have children? We are like pencils. Alone, we are vulnerable, but when we help each other and are together, no one can harm us.
The union makes the strength Aesop

IN YOUR HANDS IS

One day, the members of a town decided to play a prank on the wise man of the entity to know how far his wisdom went; but it did not occur to them to do, until a young man thought of an idea. And he shouted: I have it, I have it! I have two questions that the wise man cannot answer. All the members of the town approached to listen with curiosity. I will place a dove in my hands and then I will put it behind my back to hide it, and thus the sage will not realize what I have; Then I will ask you two questions: First I will ask you. Lord, what am I holding? And if you guess it is a dove, then I will ask you: is it alive or dead? If you tell me that it is dead, I will show it to you alive, and if you tell me it is alive, I will kill with my hands, and I will give it to him dead. And everyone was happy with that idea. The next day, they all went with the wise man of the town, and the young man asked him: - Lord, what am I holding? The sage replied with a calm temper:
•A dove.
Surprised, the young man asked again:
• Is the pigeon alive or dead?
The sage stared at him, radiating wisdom and replied:
• The dove represents your dreams, your longings, your desire to grow and be better in life, your fulfillment, the peace, the harmony that you have always wanted; in short, it represents your future.
The future of the dove IS IN YOUR HANDS. Anonymous

The advices

A man had two children and sent for them to call; To the first he said:
• Son, please, can you go to the vineyards for some grapes and bring them here?
To which he replied that he did not. But then he repented, went for the grapes, and took her away. To the second he asked the same thing and answered yes, but it was not for the grapes and therefore he did not take them. Which of the two obeyed his father's word? The first said no, but obeyed. The second heard his father's word, but did not obey it. The same thing happens with the advice and the word of God; Like the second son, many of us listen to his word and advice, but do not obey it. S. Bible.

Prayer of a son

OMG! ... turn me into a television, so that my parents listen to me with the same interest as they listen to it. So that they attend to my needs with the same urgency with which they call the technician when the television breaks down, and so that my mother worries that I get to school, with the same punctuality with which she turns it on daily to see her favorite soap opera. I wish there was more presence of God in my home. Hopefully everyone in my home becomes aware of not allowing the television to become a disassociator of the family. Anonymous.

GERALDINE

To my daughter Geraldine when she turns 15: TO BE A WOMAN, my daughter, is to step on the fathoms of fear, and keep walking: to endure the pain of the flesh in silence and the aridity in the eyes, plus let the tears flow, yes the brokenness is of the soul. It is to encircle the value of prudence and the ardor of caution, without twisting the purpose, without denting the decision forged in the tenacity, patience, reason, experience and meditation. It is to pass - with your arms tight to your body, your lips motionless, holding your breath - next to the sandcastle (which is the happiness that another man built) if with your word or by extending your arm, you could knock him down. Because ruining your neighbor's happiness is more serious, worse, than putting your hand in your pocket to rob him! My daughter, do not despise gold, but do not let gold rule your life. Accumulate enough to never have to extend your hand to the mercy of another, and to be able to put something in the hand that extends towards you. And whoever asks you for bread, do not give advice. Don't judge yourself smarter than the one who seeks help. Give him support, share his burden, give him your gold and your effort, and then give advice. Do not put fear in the guise of forgiveness, courage, my daughter, is the highest virtue, and confess guilt, the supreme value. So do not put the burden on your brother's shoulders, or dress the others in the clothes of your mistake. It is your duty, if you fall, despite the fall, your ideal and your desire to always stay upright and not look for the excuse, nor find the excuse: the heroes, my daughter, never use pretexts. The lie is soot, do not stain your lips. And don't you boast being rich, or being happy, in front of the one who exhibits the wound of failure. Do not revolt envy and jealousy, and look for the smile, do not seek applause. And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my daughter, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my daughter: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness does not diminish the abrasive spite, nor that your audacity falters in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my daughter: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My daughter, is this what that short phrase, BE A WOMAN, means And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my daughter, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my daughter: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness does not diminish the abrasive spite, nor that your audacity falters in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my daughter: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My daughter, is this what that short phrase, BE A WOMAN, means And forgive the world for its mistake if it does not value your merits for what you think they are worth (it is probable, my daughter, that the fairest appraisal is what the world does). And finally, my daughter: let your restless conscience not disturb your sleep, that your happiness does not diminish the abrasive spite, nor that your audacity falters in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my daughter: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My daughter, is this what that short phrase, BE A WOMAN, means that your restless conscience does not disturb your sleep that your bliss does not diminish the abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my daughter: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My daughter, is this what that short phrase, BE A WOMAN, means that your restless conscience does not disturb your sleep that your bliss does not diminish the abrasive spite, nor your audacity falter in the face of adversity. Never deform your face hypocrisy and do not touch your hand treason or disloyalty. And there is even more, my daughter: that when you look back on the road, there is no mud on your feet, nor is there a spike, a harvest, or a trampled flower in your footprint. My daughter, is this what that short phrase, BE A WOMAN, means

Daughter:

When you feel the need for a friend I will be the best confidant you have ever had. When you need to talk to someone I will always be willing to listen. When you want to cry, we will cry together And so your crying will be less. When you are sad, take refuge in me And you will feel that heat that you need so much. When you feel in love, I want to be the one with whom you share all that love you feel. When I fail let me know, so I can correct my failures. When you feel that the world is ending for you And everything goes wrong, come and take refuge in me and you will feel relief. And when I feel so much happiness in your heart, come and share it with me. Angélica Samperio Paz Dedicated to her daughters Tania and Brenda

SON

When I was your age I wondered why my father is so far away, why doesn't he listen to me? Why don't you talk to me? Why don't you explain to me about life, about sex? Why don't you share with me your experiences of love, money and work? and I thought when I have a SON I am going to talk to him, I am going to be his friend, and I am going to teach him everything about life everything that I would have wanted my father to have for me and today, today that you are, today that you who are my son to whom I gave life and who saw form in the womb of the woman to whom I have given my life; I who saw you as a child with a happy and sparkling gaze, I who bought your first ball, and taught you how to kick it, who saw you change from boy to adolescent and saw your body transform to become a young man, who was sure that we were going to be great friends and to whom I was going to give everything that I had not had, and who was going to be a great man today, we are so far, so distant; Because I have not known how to approach, I have not been able to break that barrier that has formed between us. You do not tell me about your friends, your girlfriend, your interests, your concerns, your longings, and I, I behave like a caveman, I can't get close, but not because I don't love you, or I don't want you, but because I don't know how because I love you, because you're my blood, because you're my greatest treasure, and that's why my son, that even when do not believe it, I want to be your friend, your guide, your confidant, your father, in whom you can trust in any situation, the one who loves you, I do not expect you to achieve wealth to obtain some reward from you, but to see you happy and satisfied , I do not expect your recognition or gratitude, but your love, because even though I have not been perfect, I have endeavored to lead by example, to educate you, lead you and guide you on the path of good, to train you as a full, honest, clean man principled and strong in character, studious, hardworking and profitable man and if you judge me as a father, perhaps I will have failed but never malicious because I have given the best of myself for your growth and development; but it is very important that you understand that today that you are becoming a man, and that society demands of you your service, your work, your contribution and that very soon you will form your own home and have your children now as a FATHER and as A MAN you will have to behave and then my son you will understand me,

GUSTAVO VILLEGAS

 

YOUR CHILDREN ARE NOT YOUR CHILDREN

Your children are not your children. They are the children of life desirous of itself. They do not come from you but through you, and although they are with you they do not belong to you. You can give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You must shelter their bodies but not their souls, because their souls live in tomorrow's house, which you cannot visit even in your dreams. You can strive to be like them, but don't try to make them like you. Because life does not recede or stop in yesterday. You are the bows from which your children are launched like live arrows. The archer sees the mark on the path of infinity, and directs you with his power so that His arrows go fast and far. Let the bow in His archer's hand be for happiness because just as he loves the flying arrow, love also the bow that is firm. Gibran Jalil Gibrán

TO MY SON

My son: If you want to love me well you can do it, your love is gold that I never disdain. I want you to know that you owe me nothing, I am now the father, I have my homework. Never in the joy of seeing you happy, I have traced signs of percent. More now, my child, I would like to warn you, my traveling agent will charge you. He will present a check for a hundred thousand cares, he will be a drop of your blood. And then my child, as an honest man, in your own son you must pay me. Anonymous

WHAT IS A GIRL?

Girls are the most pleasant things that happen to people. They are born with a little angelic shine and although sometimes it wears out, there is always enough to captivate your heart, even when they sit in the mud or cry temperamentally or stroll down the street in Mom's best clothes. A girl can be sweeter (and meaner), more often than anyone else in the world. It can scurry and stumble and make noises that unnerve you however, just when you open your mouth, it stands still with that special look. A girl is innocence playing with the mud, beauty holding onto her head and motherhood pulling a doll by the foot. Girls come in five colors - black, white, red, yellow, or brown - however Mother Nature always manages to select your favorite color when you order. They disapprove the law of supply and demand - there are millions of girls - but each one is as valuable as rubies. God borrows from various creatures to make a girl. Use the song of a bird, the screech of a pig, the stubbornness of a mule, the gestures of a monkey, the agility of a grasshopper, the curiosity of a cat, the speed of a gazelle, the cunning of a fox, the sweetness of a kitten and to complete it he adds the mysterious mind of a woman. A girl likes new shoes, party dresses, animals, the first year, noisemakers, the girl in front, dolls, make believe, dance classes, ice cream, kitchens, coloring books , the makeup, the cans with water, visiting, the little parties and a child. She dislikes visits, children in general, large dogs, used clothes, straight chairs, vegetables, snowsuits, or hanging out on the patio. She is the loudest when you are thinking, the prettiest when it has provoked you, the busiest at bedtime, the quietest when you want to show it off and the most flirtatious when she should definitely not get the best of you again. Who can cause you more grief, joy, irritation, satisfaction, shame and genuine charm than this combination of Eva, Salomé and Florence Nightingale? She can mess up your home, your hair, and your dignity - spend your money, your time, and your patience - and just when you're ready to explode, her charming shine appears and you lose again. Yes, she is a nuisance that unnerves you, just a noisy handful of calamities. But when your dreams falter and the world is in disarray - when it seems like you're a fool after all - she can make you a king the moment she crawls up on your knee and mumbles, I LOVE YOU! Alan Beck

WHAT IS A CHILD?

Between the innocence of childhood and the dignity of maturity, we find a charming creature called a boy. Children come in different sizes, weights and colors, but they all have the same creed to enjoy every second, every minute, every hour, every day and to protest loudly (their only weapon) when the last minute is up and the parents they put them to bed. Children are found anywhere: above, below, inside, climbing, hanging, running or jumping. Moms adore them, girls hate them, older siblings tolerate them, adults ignore them, and heaven protects them. A child is the truth with a dirty face, beauty with a cut on his finger, wisdom with chewing gum in his hair and hope for the future with a frog in his pocket. When you're busy a child is a carnival of inconsiderate, annoying and intrusive noise. When you want him to make a good impression, his brain turns to jelly or transforms into a wild, sadistic creature aimed at destroying the world and himself. A child is a combination - he has the appetite of a horse, the digestion of a swallow - swords, the energy of an atomic bomb, the curiosity of a cat, the lungs of a dictator, the imagination of Jules Verne, the shame of a violet, the audacity of an iron trap, the enthusiasm of a chinampina and when she does something she has five fingers on each hand. He loves ice cream, razors, saws, Christmas, comic books, the boy across the street, water (but not in the shower), big animals, dad, trains, Saturday mornings and fire trucks. He dislikes doctrine classes, being accompanied, schools, books without illustrations, music classes, ties, hairdressers, girls, coats, adults and bedtime. No one else gets up so early, nor sits down to eat so late. No one else has as much fun with the trees, dogs, and the breeze. No one else can carry in his pocket a rusty penknife, half an apple, a meter of string, an empty sack, two chewing gum tablets, six coins, a sling, a piece of unknown substance and a real supersonic ring with a secret compartment. A boy is a magical creature. You can close the door to your office, but you cannot close the door to your heart. You can get it out of your study but you can't get it out of your mind. Better give up - it's your master, your jailer, your boss and your teacher - a dirty little face, cat runners, a little noise bucket. But when you come home at night with your dreams and hopes shattered, he can remedy them and leave them looking like new with two magical words: HELLO DADDY! Alan Beck

LOS NIñOS APRENDEN LO QUE VIVEN

Si un niño vive criticado, aprende a condenar. Si un niño vive en un ambiente hostil, aprende a pelear. Si un niño vive ridiculizado, aprende a ser tímido. Si un niño vive avergonzado, aprende a sentirse culpable. Si un niño vive con tolerancia, aprende a ser paciente. Si un niño vive con aliento, aprende a tener confianza. Si un niño vive estimulado, aprende a apreciar. Si un niño vive con honradez, aprende a ser justo. Si un niño vive con seguridad, aprende a tener fe. Si un niño vive con aprobación, aprende a valorarse. Si un niño vive con aceptación y amistad, aprende a encontrar el amor en el mundo Dorothy L. Nolte

CUANDO TU HIJO

TE BUSQUE CON SU MIRADA … MIRALO TE TIENDA SUS BRAZOS… ABRAZALO TE QUIERA HABLAR… ESCUCHALO SE SIENTA DESAMPARADO… PROTEGELO SE SIENTA SOLO… ACOMPAñALO TE PIDA QUE LO DEJES … DEJALO SE SIENTA TRISTE… CONSUELALO FALLE EN SUS PROPOSITOS… ALIENTALO PIERDA TODA ESPERANZA… ACONSEJALO TOME UNA DECISION… APOYALO INTENTE TRIUNFAR… ANIMALO

HOY QUE TU HIJO

Hoy que tu hijo te ha “fallado” te quisieras morir de descontento. No entiendes las razones que al error o al mal lo han empujado. Detén por un minuto el pensamiento que nubla tu razón y tu criterio, y deja que el amor hacia tu hijo te calme el corazón con su consejo. Si tu hijo te ha “fallado”, requiere más que nunca de tu ayuda.

EL NIñO Y EL VIEJO

Los niños son el mañana, los viejos son el ayer, sin mañana no habría vida ni vida sin el ayer. Los niños son esperanza, los viejos son añoranza, el futuro es un enigma el pasado realidad. A los niños se les carga por que no saben andar, los viejos son una carga cuando no pueden andar. El niño puede y no sabe, el viejo sabe y no puede, tan merece el que no sabe como el que sabe merece. Los niños apenas van, los viejos ya todos fueron. Uno es fuego, el otro hoguera, uno es alfa, el otro omega. El niño indefenso es, el viejo indefenso está. No es lo mismo ser que estar ni estar sin poder ya ser. ELSA PARRAO DE HOYOS

Un riesgo que existe…

Un riesgo que existe hoy en los jóvenes estudiantes: que sean sólo personas instruidas, sin llegar a ser personas cultas. Se puede ser muy culto sin ser muy instruido e igualmente, se puede ser muy instruido sin ser muy culto. Naturalmente, toda cultura implica necesariamente un mínimo de instrucción, pero no es así a la inversa: puede existir instrucción sin cultura. G. Thibon

Lo importante es sonreír

Mi nuera iba conduciendo su coche y llevaba a su hijita, de 15 meses, en una silla para bebes. Se detuvo frente a un semáforo, y otro vehículo se situó a su lado. Entonces, su hijita le gritó al joven conductor de aquel auto:
•¡ Papi ! ¡ Papi !
El aludido le dirigió una mirada de admiración a mi nuera que es muy hermosa, y dijo: – No linda, no soy tu papi. ¡ Ojalá lo fuera ! F.W. Nuestro hijo de siete años trajo a casa una boleta de calificaciones que dejaba mucho que desear. Después de la cena, mi esposo se sentó al chico en las rodillas y le dijo:
•hijo, vamos a tener que cambiar estas calificaciones.
•No podemos papá – replicó el niño -. Están escritas con tinta
M.D.H

Manten siempre una sonrisa

Cuando mi hijo de tres años abrió el regalo de cumpleaños que le acababa de dar su abuela, descubrió una pistola de agua. Con exclamaciones de júbilo, se dirigió al lavabo más próximo. Yo, que no me sentía tan complacida, me volví hacia mi madre y le reclamé: – ¿Qué no recuerdas como te fastidiábamos nosotros con las pistolas de agua? Mamá sonrió y repuso:
•¡Claro que lo recuerdo!
J.F. Después de casarse con una mujer mucho más joven que él, un hombre de 93 años visita a su médico y le anuncia muy contento que su esposa está embarazada. – Mire, le voy a contar un cuento – dice el médico – un cazador muy distraído se fue a la selva, pero en lugar de escopeta se llevó un paraguas. De pronto se le echó encima un león. El hombre le apunto con el paraguas, disparó y lo mató en el acto.
•¡ Imposible ! – exclama el anciano – ¡alguien tuvo que disparar de otro lado! – Usted, lo ha dicho – replica el médico.
EL CONOCIMIENTO O LA HABILIDAD ARTISTICA

Hay que cuidarse de inculcar a los jóvenes la idea de que éxito constituye la meta de la vida, por que un hombre que triunfa, recibe de sus semejantes, por lo general, una parte mucho mayor que la que corresponde a los servicios por él prestados. el mérito más importante del trabajo en la escuela, en la Universidad, en la vida se halla en el placer de Trabajar y de obtener, comitantemente resultados que Beneficiarán a la comunidad, despertar y multiplicar estas fuerzas Psicológicas en los jóvenes, es la tarea más importante para los Educadores: Sólo éste fundamento conduce a la dicha de poseer Uno de los bienes más preciados del mundo: “El conocimiento o la habilidad artística” Einstein

CONSEJO A MI HIJO

Hijo, cualquier profesión que elijas Requiere vocación y el deseo de dar Lo mejor que poseas, para ti y para tus semejantes, A cada momento… En cada situación… Tu lucha permitirá qué en el camino No pierdas los valores, La libertad… Y el respeto… Hacia ti mismo Y hacia los demás. Lara

FORMANDO A NUESTROS HIJOS

La educación que proporciona La vida del hogar Es la base de la felicidad De nuestros hijos. Pon toda la atención Que puedas en la formación Del carácter de tus hijos, Principalmente, Con los ejemplos de tu vida. Nunca grites con tu esposo No des pasos en falso. Vive de tal modo Que tu hijo se sienta orgulloso de ti, Al ver, En tus ejemplos, El modelo que le sirve a su vida Para llegar a ser Hombre perfecto.

UNA BELLA HISTORIA

It refers to an ancient legend that a child, about to be born, told God. * You will send me to earth. But how can I live there, being so small and so weak?
• Among the many angels I chose one that awaits you- God answered -
* But here in heaven I do nothing but sing and smile and that is enough for my happiness. Will I be able to do it there? - That angel will sing to you and smile at you every day and you will feel very happy with his songs and smiles. * And how will I understand when they speak to me, if I do not know the strange language of men?
• That angel will speak to you and teach you the sweetest and most tender words that humans hear.
* What will I do when I want to talk to you? - That angel will defend you even if it costs your life. * But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore Lord. Without seeing you I will feel very alone. - That angel will tell you about me and show you the way to return to my presence - God told him - At that moment, an immense peace reigned in heaven. No terrestrial voices were heard. The boy said softly: * Tell me his name Lord - and God answered him -
• That angel is called MOM
Advice for our children

I have found that the best way to counsel our children is to find out what they want, and then advise them to do so. HARRY TRUMAN.

BAD BREEDING.

Men who have had a difficult life usually try to make things easier for their children as much as possible, thus depriving them of the discipline of struggle and the search for their own place in the world, which gave such good results in your case. Such parents remind me of a kind-hearted individual whose hobby was raising butterflies. He was so moved by the hardships that passed to get out of the cocoon that on one occasion, moved by a misunderstood kindness, he opened one with his thumbnail so that his tiny tenant could escape without having to fight The butterfly could never use its wings. CHARLES KETTERING.

A MAGIC MOUSE.

The girl spent several weeks with a loose tooth; but, when he finally dropped it, his parents had not yet decided how much money the mouse should give him. They argued for a long time. The 25 cents they had received for each baby tooth was worth much less at this time, and they would risk their daughter being disappointed to see what was under her pillow. However, the gift of a dollar received by some of his classmates seemed too much and implied false values. So in the name of tradition, they opted for the 25-cent coin that the mother exchanged for the tooth that night, without being discovered by her daughter. "He came, he came!" Cried the little girl the next morning, as she showed the coin. "The mouse came! I saw him! He had yellow pants, ”His parents had forgotten that the mouse does not represent money, but magic. The NEW YORK times BACK TO HOME
LOVING MOM

 

Maternal power

One Saturday, late at night, I was awakened by the ringing of the phone; My grumpy reply caused the person at the other end of the line to hesitate for a moment before launching, almost without breathing, into a long explanation:
• Mama speaks Susana, and I am sorry I woke you up, but I had to tell you that today I am going to come home a little late. Turns out Dad's car has a flat tire, but it's not my fault. Really! I don't know what happened the tire just went down while we were inside the theater. Please do not get mad!
Since I have no daughter, I deduced that the young woman had made a mistake when dialing.
• Sorry, honey - I replied - but you have dialed the wrong number. I don't have a daughter named Susana.
• Gee, mom!
the girl said, all scared. I didn't think you would take it so seriously! MR. D

THE PLEASURE OF BEING A MOTHER

If she had not had children, she probably would have had more money and more material things. Maybe I would have traveled a lot and slept freely, and I would have liked more. My life would have been much more boring and predictable. As a result of my motherhood, I have laughed incessantly and cried more frequently. I have worried more and run more. I have slept less, but in one way or another I have had more fun, I have learned more and I have matured more. My heart has experienced greater pain, and I have loved to a degree that transcends everything I could have imagined. I have given much more of myself and I have found more meaning in life.

Marianne Neifert

 

SUPPLICA OF A MOTHER

Hijo, no te estanques jamás, quiero que triunfes, supérate a ti mismo día tras día, instrúyete, trabaja, nunca digas mañana, en el momento, nunca digas después, puede ser tarde, cada día se aprende algo nuevo. Deja huella al morir, nunca te apagues, quiero que siempre brilles, que destaques, que cumplas tu misión en ésta vida, que no vivas en vano, te lo ruego, es muy triste el que acaba siendo nadie. Lucha hasta el final, no te conformes con ya tengo bastante, es suficiente. Dios te dio inteligencia, úsala. Dios te dio corazón, pues ama. Cada esfuerzo es un triunfo, y un triunfo satisface. Sé hombre de verdad, no simple hombre, aprende a hacer el bien que te respeten, que seas a los demás siempre agradable, que te quiera la gente, no te crezcas, el orgullo envilece y hasta ciega. Señálate una meta : el cielo, que el camino a seguir Dios te lo dice, y así podrás reír y contagiar a otros, y así podrás amar y ser amado, y cualquier carga sentirás ligera si te enseñas a dar sin recibir siquiera. Así te quiero ver, hecho, crecido, en plena madurez, hombre de veras. Para verte entonces con orgullo y exclamar : ES MI HIJO…, SATISFECHA.

ELSA PARRAO DE HOYOS

BE A MOTHER

Being a mother is joyful pain.

It is giving because we choose to give.

It is being twice being.

It is beating of a double heart.

It is seeing without having to look.

It is to love before knowing.

It is feeling the presence of God.

 

MOTHER

How to explain what you mean to me?…… I would gather the perfume of all the flowers and the lullaby of all the waves the firmness of all the mountains and the restlessness of all the rivers the freshness of all the seas and the gaze of all the stars the caress of all the breezes and the kiss of all the lips ... all this kept by God. In a woman's heart. To me, you are a mother.

 

DEAR MAMA

May this humble witness of love, printed in block letters, be imprinted on your heart.

Because your benevolent shadow always covers me with pity and I never lack your presence

For this and for the sincerity of my love, God give you inner peace, joy in your life and recognition of your work.

For everything you are worthy not only to this testimony of love, but to my devotion to all life.

 

PARENTAL LAW

Son, if you want to love me well you can do it, your love is gold that I never disdain.

I want you to understand that you owe me nothing, I am now the father and I have my homework.

Never in the anguish to see you happy have I traced signs of percent.

Now, little one, I would like to guide you, my Travel Agent will charge you.

Your child will be a drop of your blood, he will present a check for a hundred thousand cares.

He will charge you and then, my child, as an honest father to your own son you must pay him.

RUDYARD KIPLING

 

MOTHER'S LOVE

Mother's love, made of sacrifices and kindness. Mother's love that has been given since before birth, in the bowels. Mother's love that when it arises is care and fervor, full surrender, and then it is calmed and enlarged with the growing children. Mother's love, made of selflessness and kindness ANONYMOUS.

 

The maternal advice

- Come here, my mother said sweetly to me one day. I still seem to hear the sweet melody in his voice.
• Come and tell me what strange causes will tear that tear from you, my son, that hangs from your trembling eyelashes like a drop of dew.
•You have a pity and you hide it from me:
Don't you know that the simplest mother knows how to read in the soul of her children like you on the primer? -Do you want me to guess what you feel ?, Come here, urchin, that with a couple of kisses on the forehead I will dispel the clouds of your sky. Always call your mother when you suffer, who will come, dead or alive, if she is in the world, to share your sorrows, and if not to console you from above. And I do it this way when rough luck, like today, disturbs the calm of my home, I invoke the name of my beloved mother, and then I feel my soul widen. Olegario V. Andrade

I had the baddest mother.

I had the baddest mother in the whole world. While other boys ate sweets for breakfast, I had to eat cereal, milk, and toast. When others had sodas and goodies for lunch, I had to have soup. As you may have guessed, my dinner was also different from other boys. At least I was not alone in my sufferings ... my sister and my two brothers had the same bad mother as me. My mother insisted on knowing where we were at all times ... anyone would think we were in a gang of chain-linkers. She had to know who our friends were and what we were doing. He insisted that if we said we were going to be absent for an hour, we would be absent for an hour or less, not an hour and a minute. I'm almost ashamed to admit it, but he even punished us, not once, but every time we did what we wanted. Can you imagine someone berating a child just because he disobeyed? ... Now, can you begin to understand how bad it really was? ... The worst is still missing! ... We had to go to bed at nine every night and be up early. the next morning ... we couldn't sleep until noon like our friends ... so, while they slept, she even had the courage to break the child labor laws. It made us work! We had to do dishes, make beds, learn to cook, and all sorts of cruel things ... I think she spent the nights awake thinking about bad things to do to us. He always insisted that we tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth, even when he killed us, which he almost succeeded in doing. By the time we reach adolescence, she was much wiser, and our life almost became unbearable ... nothing like a car coming to the door honking horns for us to run away. He humiliated us to infinity by making our friends, and those with whom we had an appointment, come to the door to look for us ... I forgot to mention that, while my friends already had appointments at the (mature) age of twelve or thirteen, my old-fashioned mother refused that I I had them until fifteen or sixteen ... that is, if the appointment was to attend school functions, and that was, perhaps, twice a year ... my mother was a complete failure as a mother ... none of us has ever been Arrested, have not been divorced, or have beaten your spouse. Each one of my brothers has militarily complied with his country ... and, Who are we to blame for this terrible way we turn out? ... They are right: our cruel mother! Look at all the things we've lost:… we were never able to participate in a protest march, riot, or shirk obligations, and a million things that our friends did… she forced us to grow up and become God-fearing adults , educated and honest ... using all this as a background, I am trying to raise my three children. I stand a little straighter and I am filled with pride when my children call me "bad" ... because, as you can see, I thank God ... He gave me the worst mother in the world! and a million things that our friends did ... she forced us to grow up to become God-fearing, educated and honest adults ... using all of this as a background, I am trying to raise my three children. I stand a little straighter and I am filled with pride when my children call me "bad" ... because, as you can see, I thank God ... He gave me the worst mother in the world! and a million things that our friends did ... she forced us to grow up to become God-fearing, educated and honest adults ... using all of this as a background, I am trying to raise my three children. I stand a little straighter and I am filled with pride when my children call me "bad" ... because, as you can see, I thank God ... He gave me the worst mother in the world!

The Angel

A little boy who was not yet born told God They tell me that you are going to send me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there, so small and weak that I am? Among the many angels I chose one who awaits you, he will protect you, the Lord replied, But tell me; here in heaven there is only to sing and smile, that is enough for my happiness, can I do it there? The angel that waits for you there will sing for you Every day and you will feel happy With his songs and smiles. And how will I understand when you speak to me if I don't know the strange language with which men communicate? The angel will speak to you with the sweetest and most tender words heard by human ears ... he will teach you. But ... What will I do when I want to talk to you? The angel will join your little hands and teach you a prayer. I heard that there are bad men on earth, Who will defend me? The angel I told you about will defend you, even if it costs your life. But I will be sad because I will not see you anymore, Lord, without seeing you I will feel very alone. The angel will always tell you about me, and will show you the way to return to my presence. God answered him sweetly. At that moment everything was silent. Nothing was heard but the songs of Heaven and the voice of the little one who asked fearfully: Tell me who is the angel, Lord? That angel, my son, is your MOTHER At that moment everything was silent. Nothing was heard but the songs of Heaven and the voice of the little one who asked fearfully: Tell me who is the angel, Lord? That angel, my son, is your MOTHER At that moment everything was silent. Nothing was heard but the songs of Heaven and the voice of the little one who asked fearfully: Tell me who is the angel, Lord? That angel, my son, is your MOTHER

THE EXAMPLE OF A MOTHER

You, who are a mother, remember that your example is the most convincing school for your child. Don't argue with your husband in front of the children. Don't criticize the father In front of the children. Do not speak ill of him, Do not humiliate him with contempt. The example of a well established home is the greatest happiness that you can inherit from your children. For their love, learn to suffer, when necessary, because they are the fruits of your womb. RETURN TO START
WITH LOVE FOR DAD

 

THE FATHER'S PRAYER

Give me Lord, a son who is strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to drag himself as he fears that he is proud and inflexible in defeat and honest, humble and benign in victory. Give me a son whose desires do not take the place of his works, a son who knows you and who knows himself. This is the cornerstone of knowledge. Drive it, I beg you, not by way of leisure and comfort, but under the spur and weight of difficulties and opposition. Teach him to stand firm in the storm and to have compassion for those who fail. Give me a son whose heart is clear, whose sights are high, a son who knows how to govern himself before trying to govern others who knows how to advance towards the future without ever forgetting the past. And when you've given him all that, he adds, I beg you, enough sense of humor so that he can always be serious, without ever taking himself too seriously, give him humility, so that he always remembers the simplicity of true wisdom and the meekness of true strength. Then I, your father, will dare to murmur: I have not lived in vain

DOUGLAS Mc ARTHUR

FATHER'S LOVE

Father's love, big and quiet. Father's love that hides behind the stout face and figure.

Father's love that when sprouting impetuous on rare occasions, overflows without limits and floods the heart with its tenderness and that the other times is grim and sincere. Father's love, big, quiet and true.

Remember, Dad ...

That if you do not play with me now, When you want I will have grown.

That the harmony between you and mom will give me security before life and will make me a successful man.

That your capacity depends on your love To love when I am an adult.

That I am very happy when you take me asleep to my bed.

That if we pray together, I learn to communicate with God.

That the love and respect you show With our fellow men, It will be the love and respect that I have for them When I am an adult.

That I have personal interests as well.

I like to take part in family decisions.

That I need you as my best friend.

To imitating parents

Parents who imitate their children - those who copy, for example, their way of eating, dressing, and even venting their love impulses - should not be allowed to educate them, and perhaps not even wander about. If we cannot distinguish adults from children, if all members of society want to live a perpetual childhood, the motivation to grow will cease to exist, which comes from the desire of young people to enjoy the privileges of adults. JUDITH MARTIN BACK TO HOME
DON'T GET DOWN, SELL MORE

INTRODUCTION

Hello, I will be your Guide in what I hope will be one of the most exciting, pleasant and profitable trips you have ever made. Before delving further into those concepts, you may want to know first why you are undertaking this adventure. Well, the best way to explain it to yourself is to introduce yourself to one of the concepts and that psychologists say:

ALMOST ALL PEOPLE WISH TO BE BETTER PEOPLE, AFFIRM THAT WHATEVER OUR ACTIVITY IN LIFE IS, WE ALWAYS HAVE THE PURPOSE OF PERFORMING IT BETTER

. In other words: Psychologists consider that people have an internal need to improve and maximize their possibilities. Here is one of the reasons why you undertake this adventure. And one of the best ways to maximize your possibilities is precisely personal knowledge, that is, self-knowledge. We will not treat any of the topics in our guide lightly, we will study them thoroughly, both in length and depth, and it is clear that we will not speak of these concepts as mere fantasies destined to be forgotten. As we study them we will experience them one by one. Improving does not simply mean knowing more, but knowing what to do with what is known and how to apply it. PERSONAL KNOWLEDGE Because if today's women have so much knowledge, do they not fully achieve happiness? In fact, this is where all the problems of modern ways of living reside. And it is that the woman of today does not know herself even if she believes the opposite, and that is why the current problem of women arises facing feelings of inner annoyance, frustration and suffering, which we all try in vain to disguise or ignore, giving ourselves to the amusements, ambitions and searches of daily existence. However, they all coincide in the depths of their being, as long as they are honest enough, to face the fact that life as it is lived now; It lacks something that almost nobody is able to discover. We can affirm that the only answer to the problem should be sought in the simple phrase that we have quoted: PERSONAL KNOWLEDGE Those who are aware of this type of teaching for the first time can consider themselves lucky. These teachings provide the sole purpose of living in a world where such a purpose is absent, and which makes women dissatisfied with life. Life without purpose is mere theft and leads to annoyance; Life with an authentic and deep purpose is the only kind of life worth living. However, it is not an easy task, in fact it is necessary to make a maximum of effort and tenacity: Once one has taken the path of knowledge and inner fulfillment, one begins to experience, the perception that we are all part of a wonderful World. Since the problem facing women today is not having personal knowledge, and we will explain why. This is because the woman considers that her person is all there is of her. and women are MUCH MORE COMPLEX THAN THEY HAVE BEEN MADE TO BELIEVE, and we may begin to realize why the concept of herself is unsatisfactory and prevents her from getting to know her true reality. In short, although the woman makes obtaining pleasure and happiness her goal in life, she is unable to achieve that goal, and the only thing she manages to achieve is the opposite. Living a true life of satisfaction and happiness is beyond your means. At some point you consider that you can obtain happiness through money and the fulfillment of ambitions, other times you feel that you can achieve it by working for the community, or in realizing your efforts for the children and the husband; but, she will always be condemned to disappointment. You must aspire to see beyond. The Mujer She seeks happiness in the wrong direction and improperly through the wrong medium and thus inevitably finds herself frustrated, no matter what her trajectory in life may be or her gifts and potentials. From the beginning it is doomed to failure because it is going to do things the wrong way and for the wrong reasons. In the following messages we will try to point out in a simple way the ways in which this realization can be achieved, but naturally the most we can do is point the way. And this is intended for women who are interested in applying the ideas presented in their lives, rigorously studying the concepts mentioned. This path is a reality, the only one towards PERSONAL KNOWLEDGE, knowledge that can transform the life of every woman who takes on the task. It can lead them to a state of peace and happiness that goes beyond all understanding, and that puts them in communion with the divine part of themselves, since it is immersed in the same CREATIVE ESSENCE that gave rise to the Universe in which we live and where our being lives. … BELOW, THE MAGIC WORD

LA PALABRA MÁGICA

The first thing I want you to understand is that there is a way to live to be happy every day of your life. Happiness does not come to both by fate or luck. If you have had this idea in the past, it is a good time to discard it; happiness can be predicted with certainty. You can have all the things you want, ALL, and you will have them if you make this message your way of thinking, a part of your way of living. This is the construction plan of HAPPINESS, if you follow it, the results will be automatic. The magic word is ATTITUDE. ATTITUDE is defined as the position or talent that indicates action, feeling, or humor. Everything works according to the Law of cause and effect. We are in charge of producing causes. The effects, or rewards, of our actions will take care of themselves. Good attitude ... good results. Medium attitude ... medium results. Bad attitude ... bad results. ATTITUDE of failure and we are defeated before we start. ATTITUDE is the reflection of a person, what happens inside is shown outside. Let's talk about the people who are happy and who have happiness, this 5% who are above other people and who navigate in life from one happiness to another. No matter what they do ... women and men, professionals, wives, and mothers, students ... wherever you find happy people, there you will find people who have the right attitude, have a healthy attitude towards themselves ... and as a natural result ... towards life and the things they want to achieve. It would not be possible to calculate the number of jobs that have been lost, the number of promotions that have escaped, the number of marriages that have been spoiled. But the marriages that are tolerated but unhappy, the neglected and dirty homes can be calculated by the millions, all because of the women who are waiting for their husband, children and others to change towards them, instead of being enough. big and smart to change them and solve problems. The studies that have been made of the lives of thousands of happy women have shown that these women radiate confidence, security, they expected happiness and they got it! and they can be distinguished by the way they walk, by the way they look and act. They can be felt when they enter a place. They may be chubby and short, or tall and thin, or of all the intermediate combinations but all of them carried with them the attitude that attracts happiness. But; How does a person have this kind of attitude? The easiest and most effective means to form a good attitude as a habit is to start acting as if you have a good, positive, expectant attitude towards life. That's right! Now start walking, acting and looking like you belong to that group. Life is boring, only for boring people. It could have been said: life is happiness only for happy people. What I am trying to tell you is that you must first become ... from the point of view of the attitude that you want to achieve ... Feel happy and be happy before the happiness you seek comes. This has already been scientifically studied and if you practice it, You will find yourself joining this happy little group and you will find yourself as a lucky person, and your problems will solve themselves. So for 30 days, act towards others and the world in general in exactly the same way that you want the world and others to act towards you. Treat your husband as the person he really is: THE MOST IMPORTANT, and the same with your children. Take to the world every morning for 30 days the kind of attitude you would have if you were the happiest and happiest person on earth; the change will be noticed immediately. When someone annoys you on the street or acts in some other rude way that shows their ignorance and lack of courtesy; do not lower yourself to his level, feel sorry for him ... because this is the only thing he deserves, and if you act like that person ... then you belong to that group.

1.- The attitude towards life determines the attitude of life towards us.

2.- Before a person can achieve the kind of life they want, they must become that kind of person ... they must THINK, ACT, TALK, WALK AND DRIVE in every way ... how the person they want to become would behave.

3.- Since nothing is gained by having negative thoughts, only have positive thoughts.

4.- Do not waste your time proclaiming your personal problems. That won't help you ... and you don't help others either.

5.- It only talks about your health when it is good.

6.- Radiates the well-being attitude of the person who knows where he is going.

7.- Finally, during the next thirty days treat all the people with whom you have contact as if they were the most important in the world.

Please read this message as many times as you can. In closing, let's remember these words: HAPPINESS OR UNHAPPINESS IS CAUSED BY MENTAL ATTITUDE MORE THAN THROUGH MENTAL CAPACITY OR INTELLIGENCE.

YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF EVERYTHING

Never complain about anything or anyone, because you, and only you, are the cause of everything that happens to you ...

Never say that the situation is difficult, it will be for you. There are thousands of people, for whom nothing is difficult ...

Don't say that money is tight. That will be in your house and that of your acquaintances; abounds in many parts, in the home of those who work effectively and are complied and ordered ...

Do not fool yourself !

You are the cause of everything that distresses you, of your scarcity, of your bad situation; of your difficulties and your misfortunes;

THE CAUSE OF EVERYTHING IS YOU

Learn from the strong, from the active, from the bold, from the brave, from the energetic, from those who make no excuses, from those who know no difficulties.

Learn from those who succeed; Be a complete man. Stop being a puppet; get up, cheer up, hurry up, move, get up, and you will have everything.

 

Of wisdom

Blaming others for our misfortunes is a sign of ignorance; blaming ourselves is the beginning of wisdom; and refraining from blaming others or ourselves is our perfect wisdom.

Epictetus

Listen to god

In a great storm, a man prayed to God to take care of him and said “help me, Lord”. At that, a farmer with two horses passed by him and said to the man:
• Let's get on one of my horses and take refuge in the mountain, this flood cannot reach us there.
• To which the man replied:
• It doesn't matter, you run away, God is watching over me.
Two days later, the rain did not stop and a woman passed by the man and said to him: - Poor man, the rain has already reached half of your body, get on my cart and let's run away from here. To which the man replied:
• It doesn't matter, you run away, God is watching over me.
Five days later, two peasants in a boat said to the man: "Get on our boat and let's run away from here, you don't see that the water has already reached your face and you almost drowned." To which the man replied:
• It doesn't matter if you run away, God is watching over me.
After that flood the man dies and goes to heaven and says to God:
• Lord, I have always been a faithful disciple of yours. Why did you abandon me and allow me to drown?
To which God replied: - My son, I never abandoned you, I sent you to the farmer and you did not listen to him, I sent you to the lady and you did not listen to her, I sent you to the peasants and you did not listen to them and I sent you several messages to that you were saved, but it was you who did not want to listen to them. Anonymous

Search inside

Three sages were commissioned to hide God so that no one could ever find him. They decided to meet to discuss how to do it. The first of them suggested hiding it in the farthest of the stars. However, the second realized that perhaps it would be found there by the powerful spaceships of the future. In turn, he proposed that he hide in the depths of the oceans. After reflecting for a moment, the third sage said that this remedy would also be useless, because it was likely that in the future it would be necessary to grow food at the bottom of the sea to feed the human race, so God would be found. So, he added: The only place where we can hide God so that no one will ever see him is inside each person. No one will think to look for it there. And since then God lives inside us. Anonymous

Have not you noticed!

One day, God came down to earth to visit his children. He arrived at a shoemaker's dwelling, a modest and orderly house. God:
• I have walked a lot and my shoes are broken and my feet are damaged, could you make me some shoes?… But I don't have anything to pay you with.
Shoemaker:
• I am already tired of people asking me for things and not for nothing in return. I have many dreams and I have not been able to fulfill them because I have no money.
•What do you need? - God asked.
•
The shoemaker smiling replied.
• I want many, but many pesos.
• I can give them to you, but in exchange for you giving me your legs, God answered.
•My legs? How can I walk through the forest? How can I run to my children? No, I can't give you my legs.
God says to him:
• Then your arms.
- How can I feed myself then? How can I hug my wife? How can I pet my grandchildren? I can't give you my arms. God insists:
• How about I give you many millions for your eyes?
• But this way I will never see a sunrise, I will not be able to see the eyes of my beloved, enjoy the sunset. No, I can't give you my eyes!
• Ah! - God said - Look just how much wealth you have and you had not realized!
Anonymous

Teachings

Caminando por el bosque una niña se dirigía con su abuelo rumbo a un pozo. Al encontrarse ahí, extrajeron un poco de agua para beber.
•Abuelo – preguntó la niña -, ¿Dónde vive Dios?
El anciano la cargó para sentarla a la orilla del pozo. Le dijo:
•Ve al fondo del pozo y dime que ves.
•Mi reflejo abuelito – respondió la niña.
•Dios vive ahí, concluyó el abuelo: en tu interior.
Anónimo

La verdadera riqueza

Si hubiera un banco que acreditara en su cuenta 86,400 cada mañana, que no transfiriera el saldo disponible de un día al día siguiente, y no le permitiera conservar efectivo; y al final del día cancelara la parte de esa cantidad que usted no hubiera usado.

¿Qué haría?

Por supuesto, sacar día a día hasta el último centavo y aprovechar todo el dinero. Pues bien, tal banco existe: Se llama tiempo. Cada día le acredita 86,400 segundos, y cada noche da por, definitivamente, perdidos cuantos haya dejado de emplear provechosamente. Nunca transfiere los saldos, ni permite que usted se sobregire. Cuando no usa lo disponible ese día, el único que pierde es usted. No existe recuperación de fondos. Tampoco es posible girar cheques sobre el mañana. De cada persona depende invertir este precioso caudal de horas, minutos y segundos para obtener los máximos dividendos en cuanto a salud, felicidad y éxito. Anónimo

Pide lo que quieras

If at this moment a miraculous Being, dressed in white, resplendent with magnificent light appears before you and says to you: "Ask for what you want! It will be granted to you", you would certainly rush to ask for the best things. Well, that miraculous Being exists within you and has the power to give you whatever you ask. Only, before, you should know what you want ... knowledge apparently easy, more than is done in very few men. And after you know it, you must ask the inner God, with such assurance, as if you were asking the miraculous man dressed in white, to seduce your faith with the prestige of his external presence. You think you are miserable because you ignore what you can. Everything is yours and you are dying of longings ... The stars belong to you and you have no light in your home ... The whole nature wants to give itself as its owner and lord! And you cry disdainfully for a woman! Ask for what you want, that everything will be granted to you. Anonymous

True wealth

How much money does one have to be considered rich in our society? The figures, which number in the millions, vary. But I think of the immensely rich people I know, and they don't seem happy. Also in all those who sweat to pay their bills, and yet they are rich. If you can share any problems with your spouse, you are rich. If you can look your parents in the face, convinced that you have paid back even a small part of what they gave you, you are rich. If you can take an afternoon off to go boating with a friend, you are rich. If you can honestly say that you have nothing to hide, you are truly rich. Benjamin Stein.

Conformity

If you stand up and take it into account. It can be knocked down with a punch. But remember this: A man shot down by his opponent can get back up. A man shot down by conformity never looks up again. Thomas Warson. Son

The reasons for being an entrepreneur

A young man, the son of a successful businessman, constantly and harshly questioned his father. He continually reproached him for the forgetfulness in which he had to attend to his company. The businessman waited for the right moment and spoke to his son: I want you to know, son, that I understand your attitude. I certainly have not been with you as long as I wanted, being in the company. But, you know, the company for me is the way through which a man creates, strives, sets goals, can achieve and feel useful ... The company is the extension of oneself. Furthermore, I cannot and should not ignore that employees, workers and their families depend on the company. I have a commitment to all of them. The money I earn through the company not only allows me to support the family; with this means it is possible to fight for our ideals, of a freer and more prosperous society. Of course, all this does not mean the distance I have had from you and your world. Let me take you by the hand and show you what the life of an entrepreneur is; that you share with me the problems, the privileges and the enormous responsibility that this profession implies. Thus, tomorrow you will choose your own path. I do not want to make the same mistake of so many solitary businessmen, who were not able to inherit their children and their human and spiritual ideals and values, settling for just giving them money, which often becomes an instrument for their own destruction. Anonymous the privileges and the enormous responsibility that this profession implies. Thus, tomorrow you will choose your own path. I do not want to make the same mistake of so many solitary businessmen, who were not able to inherit their children and their human and spiritual ideals and values, settling for just giving them money, which often becomes an instrument for their own destruction. Anonymous the privileges and the enormous responsibility that this profession implies. Thus, tomorrow you will choose your own path. I do not want to make the same mistake of so many solitary businessmen, who were not able to inherit their children and their human and spiritual ideals and values, settling for just giving them money, which often becomes an instrument for their own destruction. Anonymous

It is in you, eagle or chicken?

An Indian warrior found an eagle egg, which he collected from the ground and later placed in a hen's nest. The result was that the eaglet was raised alongside the chicks. Thus, believing herself a chicken, the eagle spent her life acting like these. They scratched the earth in search of seeds and insects with which to feed. It clucked and clucked. As it flew, it flapped its wings lightly and barely waved its plumage, so that it barely rose a meter above the ground. It did not seem abnormal to him; this was how the other chickens flew. One day he saw a majestic bird glide across a clear sky. It flew almost without flapping its gleaming wings, letting itself be gallantly carried by the currents of the air.
• What a beautiful bird! - He said to the chicken that was next to him.
What her name?
• Eagle, the queen of birds - I answer this one. But have no illusions: you will never be like them.
The old eagle stopped paying attention to him. He died believing he was a chicken. Peruvian parable

COMMITMENTS

The moment we commit ourselves definitively, providence also acts. All sorts of things are beginning to happen in our favor that otherwise would never have happened. A stream of events that arises from that decision; Unforeseen incidents, encounters and material assistance arise that no man would have dreamed of meeting on his way. For this reason, this Goethe couplet inspires me with great respect: <Start doing what you can or dream of being able to do. Audacity contains genius, power and magic. > WH Murray

The code of honor
• Never leave a partner in need, in danger or in trouble.
• Never withdraw your loyalty once it is granted.
• Never leave a group to which you owe your support.
• Never underestimate or minimize your strength or power.
• You never need praise, approval or compassion.
• Never compromise your own reality.
• Never allow your affinity to degrade.
• Do not give or receive communication unless you want to.
• Your self-determination and your honor are more important than your immediate life.
• Integrity towards yourself is more important than your body.
• Never regret yesterday. Life is in you today, and you make your tomorrow.
• Never be afraid to harm another in just cause.
• Do not want to please or be admired.
• Be your own counselor, follow your own advice, and select your own decisions.
• Be true to your own goals.
LR Hubbard.

The joy of creating

Strive to smile and soon you will stop frowning. Make an effort to laugh and soon you will find something to laugh about. Be enthusiastic and soon you will feel like this. A being causes its own feelings. The greatest joy in life is to create. Take it down! LR Hubbard. A WORTHY LIFE It is almost impossible to watch television without learning that someone accomplished something great and overcame what once seemed insurmountable obstacles; the poor boy who accumulates a fortune, the young man whose legs suffered terrible burns and who seemed to be destined to lead a life of invalidity and who becomes a great figure of athletics; the lady who, at 80 years old, still runs the marathon race. Every day a dramatic new story appears somewhere, THE OLD HISTORY OF THE OVERCOMED OBSTACLES AND THE GREAT SUCCESSES REACHED. But, how is it that these things are achieved? The answer is simple, these people had a goal. This is they had fixed in their minds a point that they had to reach, something that was more important, much more important than the time and effort that had to be invested in it; a dream that they saw only in their minds and they felt only in their hearts; too big to hide; a dream that rose before their eyes when they woke up in the morning ... and that was the last thing they thought when falling asleep at night. This great dream ... is the cause of everything we see surrounding us in the world. Everything in the world is a dream come true, a goal achieved. WHAT MAN'S MIND CAN CONCEIVE AND BELIEVE, CAN BE ACHIEVED; You know, friend, what does this mean to you and me? In order for you to understand this, we must first understand what is A LIFE WORTHY? It means that every person who has a dream in their mind and heart, and who has identified it as a goal; He is a person with a LIVING LIFE. Seeing it like this, you might think that all people lead a WORTHY LIFE, but it is not like that, only 5% of people have a goal in life, the rest only go through life adrift, hoping that by a miracle something good happens to them, or at least nothing bad happens to them; These are the people who have not learned anything from the rules of life. People are like boats, and most are like little boats in the sea that have no course, rudder, or captain; and they only go where the winds, the currents and the circumstances of life push them, and consequently they never reach any safe harbor but are always involved in whirlwinds and problems. But that small group of people who have exercised the discipline to decide the point of their destination, and who have set a course, a path, a port, a goal; They navigate through life, without fear because they always achieve what they set out to do. When a person is asked What is your goal ?, the majority answers: BE HAPPY, GO AHEAD, HAVE MONEY, HAVE HEALTH; these are not goals or objectives. A GOAL, It is a clear and specific objective, a point that you want to obtain, it can be a house, a car, a promotion in your job, a certain amount of money, a salary increase, a university degree, having a business, ... any of the thousands of things. But which one? Friend, which one? you want to achieve; If it is a house, where do you want it? what size ?, how many bedrooms ?, how many floors ?, in which neighborhood ?; with or without a garden ?; If your goal is a television, which one? How many inches? What brand? Color or black and white? if you want money, how much ?, and when do you want to have it ?; if your goal is to have your business, which one ?, an aesthetic ?, a ice cream parlor ?, a store ?, what size? ... The first thing you have to do if you want to have A LIVING LIFE, is to define YOUR GOAL, no matter if small or large, if it seems easy or difficult, or what it is about; the first thing you have to do is define a goal, an objective; something you want or want to have. Like a ship, a person can only reach one port only, not two or three, only one, the first; most people never accomplish anything; first: because they don't know what they want and second: because they want so many things and they all want to arrive at the same time; and as a result, they never get anywhere, they never get anything. The first thing your friend should do is define perfectly what you would like the most; and once this is done, forget about everything else, remember that we are only going to work first for a goal. Which one? the one you want the most, the one you long for the most, the one you love the most. Now you tell me, Tere, I have already defined my goal, my objective, but how can I do it to achieve it, to reach it, to obtain it? Well, now we are going to see how you can reach your goal. 1.- DEFINE YOUR GOAL 2.- WRITE YOUR GOAL On a card that you are going to bring in your bag, on a piece of paper that you are going to stick in front of your bed (so you can see it from when you get up and when you go to bed), in your kitchen (so you can see it while you cook) and everywhere you are, 3.- HAVE A PHOTO OR DRAWING, it is important that the objective is accompanied by an image, for example of the house you want or that you would like to have; or the integral kitchen that you want, but the important thing is that there is an image, so that you know perfectly and don't forget what your objective is. 4.- THINK ABOUT YOUR GOAL, during the day, you will only think about your goal, your goal; You must make an effort to discipline yourself and think only of your objective. 5.- EFFORT, in your work, in your actions, in your actions, in your actions, in everything you do, concentrate your strength and energy towards your goal and objective. THERE IS NO WORTHY LIFE BUT FOR A CLEAR PURPOSE, NOTHING CAN REPLACE THE PURPOSE, A PURPOSE UNDERLINES THE CHARACTER, YOUR SOCIAL POSITION, AND YOUR LIFE. Decide your goal, insist on it, and for the next 30 days, look at your card every morning, every night and as many times as you can during the day. Print your goal in your mind and think of it as if you already had it, feel it, imagine that you have already achieved it, that it is already yours, that you have already achieved it, and this will become a habit, a habit that will lead you to the achievement of a objective and then another, every day of your life. Because this is the great secret: YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME REAL. a habit that will lead you to the achievement of one goal and then another, every day of your life. Because this is the great secret: YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME REAL. a habit that will lead you to the achievement of one goal and then another, every day of your life. Because this is the great secret: YOUR THOUGHTS BECOME REAL.

Fate is in your hands.

Luck does not exist; at best, there are favorable or unfavorable circumstances. Good luck is the result of everything we have been able to sow, while bad luck is the manifestation of everything we have not been able to foresee. Enzo Ferrari

The destiny of our days

Where do the days go, granny? Where are they going? Rosita asks her grandmother, a beautiful autumn afternoon when the two of them were sitting on the grass, in the field.
• Ha, little daughter! - says the grandmother - the days are taken by the months, the years, the time ...
• and, when the time takes all the days of our lives,
• Do we die?
•Look; now it's autumn, look at that big, beautiful and very old tree. Since I was little, that tree was already a lord tree; and each year its leaves are blown away by the wind as time is carried by our days.
• But since he knew how to take good roots, he is not dead; it lives in its branches, which it renews every spring, as we continue to live in our children, and they in their children. Thus goes the chain of days, months, years, of time.
•
• Diana Martha Salazar
Philosophizing ...

We all have two philosophies: the one whose moral ideas we break in our conduct, because of our fragile will. And the other philosophy, more humane, with which we console ourselves with our falls and weaknesses. Julio Torri

You can

Don't complain about your luck. Don't give up on life. Do not embitter existence Do not cry, Ask mercy to anyone Because in you providence Put that which makes triumph. You can do what you want Take the test and you will see it. Smash into everything that obstructs your path and you will see that there is always a way to get out of the mud and change your destiny. The world belongs to you It is yours, fight for it; And if it seems difficult Remember that he who deserves more of the gall makes honey. Adolfo Martínez R.

The will to be

The will to be is in us, as well as the will to be better. It is up to the leaders to make it easier for our people to achieve these aspirations. Axayacatl.

Think ...

Think about not what you have done wrong but what you are not doing well. Do you usually bring gifts to your loved ones simply because you love them? Do you often passionately kiss and hug your spouse? Lately have you played with your children without haste and without masks? How long have you not been accompanying your parents and talking to them as if they were your friends? How long has it been since you did something disinterested, not for money but simply for being part of your people and she of you, because you love and want to see her grow, despite all the problems? You have experienced many pleasures ... Experience the pleasure of serving and you will see how the world begins to claim you as an essential being ...

For this upcoming year, LET'S SET OUR GOALS AND THEY WILL BOOST US.

Whatever we do, let's always try to make it our future wishes and not our past defeats to set our goals.

The Importance of Goals

WHEN A WOMAN ACHIEVES HER GOALS AND DOESN'T SET OTHERS, SHE STOPS LIVING AND GOES TO A VEGETATIVE LIFE, WHERE IT MERELY EXISTS. A WOMAN DIES WHEN STOPPING DREAMING. WE ARE NOT AFRAID TO DIE. FEAR, RATHER, STOP LIVING BEFORE YOU DIE!

Remember this

Most people fail, not because they lack talent, money, or opportunity; It fails because it never plans. WE MUST PLAN THE FUTURE, BECAUSE IT'S THERE. WHERE WE WILL LIVE! Do Something Big Trying to do something big and fail is one of the best things that can happen to us in life. Failure is not about not being able to achieve our goals. Failure is not reaching the level that by our possibilities we could have reached. No woman will be aware of her triumph until she has experienced some apparent failure.

Positive thinking

Let's never give the leadership of our lives to real or imaginary problems. Problems stop those who think negatively; PROBLEMS DRIVE THOSE WHO THINK POSITIVELY. LET'S MAKE THE DECISION RIGHT NOW TO NEVER ALLOW PROBLEMS TO PREVENT US FROM DREAMING. Let's start growing now. Let's think big. BIG THINGS HAPPEN TO PEOPLE WHO THINK BIG. We can all become the people we want to be. It is perfectly possible. We will discover this as our thoughts are ALWAYS POSITIVE and we believe that everything is possible. Our thoughts… OUR THOUGHTS CAN BECOME A REALITY WHEN WE GIVE THEM POSITIVE ENERGY AND WE EXPERIENCE THEM AS IF THEY WERE ALREADY REALITY. BRYAN ROBINSON

THE PERFECT LISTEN

PERFECT LISTENING CONSISTS IN HEARING, NOT SO MUCH TO OTHERS, HOW MUCH TO ONE'S OWN. THE PERFECT VISION CONSISTS OF LOOKING, NOT SO MUCH AT OTHERS, HOW MUCH AT oneself.

At eighty-five years old.

An eighty-five year old woman was being interviewed on the occasion of her birthday. The journalist asked her what advice she would give to people her age.
• GOOD, - said the old woman, AT OUR AGE, IT IS VERY IMPORTANT NOT TO STOP USING ALL OUR POTENTIAL; OTHERWISE, THIS LEAVES.
•
• IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO BE WITH PEOPLE AND, WHEN POSSIBLE, TO EARN A LIFE BY PROVIDING A SERVICE.
• THAT IS WHAT KEEPS US WITH LIFE AND HEALTH.
- Can I ask you what you do to earn a living at your age?
• I CARE FOR AN ELDERLY LIVING IN MY NEIGHBORHOOD -
• It was her unexpected and delicious response.
ANTHONY DE MELLO

Harvest

IF YOUR PLANS ARE FOR A YEAR, PLANT A GRAIN. IF THEY ARE TEN YEARS OLD, PLANT A TREE. IF THEY ARE A HUNDRED YEARS OLD, TEACH THE PEOPLE. WHEN YOU PLANT A SINGLE SEED, YOU COLLECT A SINGLE HARVEST. WHEN YOU TEACH PEOPLE, YOU COLLECT ONE HUNDRED HARVESTS. KUAN CHUNG

Personal accounting

Have you taken a look at the profit and loss statement of your life? Our life is the most important business that we must attend. Are you operating with "red numbers"? Are there accounts pending payment? Have you had profits and your "capital" has grown? I think doing math from time to time is healthy and necessary. Readjust, invest our time, enjoy the profits. All this must be taken into account. If you have a "partner" or "partner", do their accounting together: How is that partnership going? Do you meet to solve problems that affect both of you? If you haven't, I think it would be a good idea to do so. YOUR LIFE IS A BUSINESS, CHECK YOUR ACCOUNTS. Lest you go to bankruptcy in complete bankruptcy!

Inner freedom

The woman has a great reserve of inner freedom and even under the most adverse circumstances, she always has alternatives as long as she has a life span ... Circumstances limit and condition her, but they do not determine her, she is the one who decides and submits to them.

ANOTHER NEW opportunity

Each new dawn Consider that you were born That day again To life, to struggle and to work; That you have the treasure Of another opportunity To advance, to enjoy the incomparable happiness Of being alive. Say hello to the sun, to the world, to existence, and give thanks to God for the gift of a new journey to achieve victory.

TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR TIME

Take advantage of your time, It is a non-renewable resource That once it leaves, It never comes back. Knowing how to use every minute will give you good fruit AND content, you will strengthen your human dignity. What wears you out most is not what you do but what you stop doing And for the same reason you feel remorse. Take advantage of your time, make him work for your victory.

LIVE BIG

Live, live big, It doesn't matter if you are small, Poor or ignored. You can, you must Live big With the strength Of your thought And your spirit. Little by little, step by step Centimeter by centimeter You will grow in will And in soul, and yours will be The triumph. Always keep it in mind: You have to live, live big.

THE EFFECTS OF LAUGHTER

Laughter is healthy. It helps digestion, respiration and blood circulation. And it has a rejuvenating effect on the body AND on the soul. Laugh at everything, Laugh at everything, Except the suffering of others. Laughter, as someone said Beautiful mind, is the song Of angels on earth.

PROFESSIONAL DELIVERY

The most beautiful thing that human beings can achieve At each stage of their life in this world, Is to do what they like and want to do As an integral part of their own being. The moment you act with love and conviction The most wonderful and incredible phenomenon that can be manifested in every Human being begins: Your professional dedication Professional dedication is directly related to the ability to give and receive. It is a pure and spontaneous expression, without internal blocks, doubts or hesitations. It manifests when the inner commitment matures AND is integrated into the being.

BE, BE

I must be strong without being rude, Be kind without being weak, Learn with pride without being arrogant, Learn to be gentle without being soft. Be humble without being shy, Be courageous without being reckless, Be grateful without being servile Be thoughtful without being lazy. Anonymous

POSSIBLE GOALS

Stop and reflect: Man has the ability to achieve everything he imagines and desires from the heart. There is no impossible goal in this world, because there will always be someone who yearns for it With so much love and so much strength that they will have to reach it. Use the force of desire, That will lead you to the stars.

LIFE IS CONQUEST

Be dynamic in life Don't stop with your arms crossed. It is not the beautiful ideas that are worth. They are the works you carry out! The feet that do not walk, take root! Life is conquest! Do not wait for those in need Come to call you: Go visit them. Bring them a word of encouragement, A accommodating smile,

A thought of love.

WORK WITH LOVE Be faithful in the fulfillment of your duties! Carry with care and love all the work they give you, even if it seems insignificant. Whatever you do, however small, is a step forward in progress. Do all your work, As if all your future Depended on them, As in fact it happens.

GIVE TO RECEIVE

Giving more than what is expected of us gives us the right to receive more than we expected. Only those who are willing to follow this truth will achieve their goals, because life knows how to pay abundantly to those who generously invest their talent, their time and their work. Losers ... ... wait to receive before giving, And they wait forever. The winners…… commit their full capacity In each of their acts.

ALWAYS STRIVE

There are great rewards for the effort. Among them, the conscience of the duty fulfilled, The material achievements To share with those you love, The incomparable dignity Of the man or the woman who can say: "Mission accomplished and ... ... go ahead" strive, Always strive. The prize of stubborn and brave effort Is excellence.

THE MAGIC OF A SMILE

Irresistible is the value of a smile, since a smile expresses more than a thousand words. But for it to be so, the smile should not be a mechanical gesture of teeth out, but the warm message of solidarity and sympathy. Starting today, Deliver your greeting accompanied by the magic light Of a smile that is born from the heart and affection. Express your love to others With a true smile.

ALWAYS DO GOOD

While you have time in this life, Guide your steps along the paths of good. Try to act, Always do something for the good of another, Even if it is only A word of encouragement, A kind attention, A smile of encouragement. Do something for the good of your neighbor, And it will come ... ... joy and happiness to your heart.

CONTINUOUS GRATITUDE

Do not fail to present your thanks to family members, friends and acquaintances. We are not talking about common gratitude, When we say "thank you very much" We talk about continuous gratitude, That we have to give them by example, Because they have filled us with affection And are contributing to our perfection, With your help and even with their misunderstandings.

LEARN TO MASTER YOURSELF

Dominate and conquer yourself! Winner is not the one who overcomes others, but the one who conquers himself, holding back his vices and overcoming his limits. The triumph over himself is without measure more difficult, and whoever achieves it can be placed among the heroes. Learn to dominate yourself, And never be discouraged. If you did not succeed today, start again, that someday you will succeed!

Applying our power

Power is, more than anything, perception. Not using it is the most powerful use that can be given. The idea is to use the minimum amount of power to create the maximum amount of change. The powerful elegant can selectively apply power, like a laser, carefully and with almost no resistance, so that those to whom he applies that power do not feel overwhelmed. INSTEAD OF IT, THEY WILL FEEL MOTIVATED. PETER GUBER

The planet of inexperience

Inexperience is something inherent in the human condition. We are born only once; We never start a new life equipped with the experience of a previous one. We leave childhood without knowing what youth is; we marry ignoring what marriage means, and even when we reach old age, we do not know where we are heading: The elderly are the innocent children of their own old age. In that sense, the world of men is the planet of inexperience. MILAN KUNDERA.

About hard work

Nothing worthwhile or lasting can be accomplished without hard work. Senator BILL BRADLEY, who was a basketball star, once recounted how, during his student days at PRINCETON, his father used to give him this warning: “Son, when you're not out there practicing, there is someone else doing it. and the day you meet her, she will beat you. ” GARY FRANKS

Speaking of fate

WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS, AS THESE BECOME WORDS. YOUR WORDS, AS THEY ARE TRANSFORMED INTO ACTIONS. YOUR ACTIONS, AS THEY BECOME A HABIT. YOUR HABITS, BECAUSE THEY CONFORM YOUR CHARACTER. AND LASTLY, WATCH YOUR CHARACTER AS THIS BECOMES YOUR DESTINATION. FRANK OUTLAW.

Work at home

I still had a few days off, but my wife had already run out of them. It was kind of boring to be home alone, so one day I decided to do the dishes, dust and fix the house, to surprise my wife. He was sure that she would be very grateful when she returned home, but when she arrived she didn't say a word. Finally, I couldn't contain myself anymore and I complained: - You haven't even noticed how I fixed the house today. His answer opened my eyes: - Yes, it is a very thankless job. Don't you think ANONYMOUS.

TALES OF DEEP WISDOM.

On one occasion, an inveterate player said to the wise teacher: “yesterday they caught me cheating while we played cards, so they beat me up and threw me out the window. What would you advise me to do? - The teacher stared at him and said: if I were in your place, from now on I would try to play on the ground floor. That amazed the disciples: Why didn't you tell him to stop playing? They asked him. Because he knew he didn't want to leave it, was the teacher's simple and shrewd response. ANTHONY DE MELLO.

I have always believed…

I have always believed that the moment you wake up in the morning is the most wonderful time of the day. As tired as we feel, we are always certain that anything can happen that day. It hardly matters that it almost never happens. THE POSSIBILITY IS THERE. MONICA BALDWIN.

Evidence of value

Courage is not limited to the battlefield. The real tests of value are much deeper and quieter. They are internal tests, such as being faithful when no one looks at us, such as bearing pain when the room is empty, like being alone when nobody understands us. CHARLES SWINDOLL.

About age

I don't want to be one that takes years off. If someday they ask me how many I have, and I have 30, I will say so; If I'm 45, I'll say the same. What year could I eliminate from my life? The year my son was born, or the year my daughter was born? The year I first fell in love? Perhaps a less fortunate one, like the one where I caught pneumonia. Or a sad one, in which you have lost a loved one. I could choose an inconsequential year: the one in which I saw a shooting star, or the one in which life did not seem fascinating to me. But no, I prefer to stay with everyone: with the good, with the bad and with the bunch. To deny any of them would be to deny myself. Because my life is the sum of all those years. SHEILA C.

Practice makes the champion

In a hundred-meter race, in a very warm environment, individuals from different nations faced each other, the goal: to fight the weather and the clock. The winner timed 11:20 ... eleven seconds, twenty hundredths of a second. Fourth place was 11:27… eleven seconds, twenty-seven hundredths of a second. The difference between being champion and someone else was only seven hundredths of a second! When a commentator approached to interview the champion, he said:
• He was lucky to come in first place because the difference was minimal.
To which the champion replied:
• If getting up every day to practice while others are asleep; stop having fun while others do; trying my best so that in each training session I earn a few hundredths of a second from my own record, it is called luck; So I was lucky.
ANONYMOUS.

SHARPEN THE SAW.

One day a man who was walking in the field found himself in front of a lumberjack who was busily cutting a log, and the walker asked him:
• Excuse me sir, you look exhausted ..., How long have you been working?
• More than six hours - was his reply.
• Wouldn't it be nice if you rested a little and sharpened your saw?
The man answers:
• No… I don't have time, because there is a lot of wood to cut.
• But if you sharpen your saw it will cut faster, and if you rest you will have the strength to cut more.
After meditating for a moment, the man understood that for each task he undertakes in life, he must prepare himself physically, mentally and spiritually (sharpening the saw) and rest to think better about what he will apply his effort to. ANONYMOUS

THE JOY OF CREATING.

Esfuérzate por sonreír y pronto dejaras de fruncir el ceño. Esfuérzate en reír y pronto encontrarás algo sobre lo cual reírte. Ponte entusiasta y pronto te sentirás así. Un ser causa sus propios sentimientos. La mas grande alegría que hay en la vida es crear. ¡Derróchala¡ L. RONALD. HUBBARD

ACERCA DE LA SALUD

LA SALUD ES TAN CONTAGIOSA COMO LA ENFERMEDAD. LA MEDICINA HA ESTADO TAN OCUPADA EN RECONOCER EN LA ENFERMEDAD EL ACAECER INDIVIDUAL Y SINGULAR DE UNA POSIBILIDAD GENERAL, QUE NO HA ADQUIRIDO TODAVIA CAPACIDAD PARA ENTENDER QUE, ASI COMO UN ENFERMO ES CAPAZ DE ENFERMAR A TODA SU FAMILIA, UN SANO ES CAPAZ DE MANTENERLA CON SALUD. FLORENCIO ESCARDO.

En contacto con las personas

The hands of the people who introduce me are eloquent to me even if they don't say words. Contact with some gives me different results. I have met people so sad that by shaking their cold fingers I seemed to be shaking hands with a storm. There are others who transmit sunlight through their hands; and by taking those hands I am glad my soul HELEN KELLER

TELL ME LIKE OTHERS AND I'LL TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE

There was an old Quaker who, sitting on the edge of the village well, greeted the weary travelers who passed by. And to each one who asked: What kind of people live around here? He answered them with another question: What kind of people did you meet in your last dwelling? If the traveler said he had left a neighborhood where people were cheerful and friendly, pleasant and fun-loving, the Quaker confidently replied that he would find them the same in his town. For those travelers who complained that they had left a town where people were unpleasant and angry, the patriarch would shake his head sadly:
• Unfortunately, here you will find them the same.
A young man who was listening to everything that the Quaker said puzzled asked him, Why do you respond to the people who will find the same people as the one they found in their last dwelling? And the patriarch with a smile on his lips replied: Because the problem is not the people you come to, but the attitude you take in them. life is like a mirror, the face that you show it is the reflection that you will have. ANONYMOUS

Book…

A book must be chosen as a love, personally. Slowly discover which authors feed you, with which you enrich yourself. So every authentic library has to be like a self-portrait of its owner. JL MARTIN DESCALZO When you make people laugh, he'll listen to you, and then you can tell him anything. HERB GARDNER. So smile a little. My wife is a gypsy-a man tells his friends. Every time I'm late it makes me see my luck. ARMANDO FUENTES. About to be a father, an employee of our bank nervously waited for a phone call from his wife. The time of delivery was very close, but he was trying to concentrate on work. When the manager approached him to ask how his wife was doing, he replied: Transactions are being presented at 15min intervals. VV A woman was helping her son with his math homework. After a week, the boy brought home his workbook.
• I'm sorry, Mom
• -He said with a sigh
• -You got zero
God gives youth to those who smile. Time goes by; Youth leaves the hand of time, and if the smile is saved, God gives us, preserving our youth. CAMILO JOSE CELA.

Keep your smile after this

Two men chatted. One of them was telling the other about a lawsuit he had with his wife. "In the end," he said, "he ended up on his knees and begging me." "What did he tell you?" Asked the friend. - He asked me to get out from under the bed. FRANCES PLEVAK. One holiday, my daughter took her classmate to dinner with our large family. As sometimes happens, we engage in a heated discussion over a trifle, but suddenly we remember that we had a guest. There was an awkward silence, until the young woman intervened:
• Oh, don't worry about me. I also grew up as a family.
For sleep, wealth and health to be truly enjoyed, it is necessary to interrupt them JEAN PAUL RICHTER.

Take a break

In the restaurant where he works, my wife always goes the extra mile to satisfy customers. One night a mature man took her to the party to explain that she was celebrating her grandmother's 100th birthday with the large group gathered for dessert. My wife took immediate action, and shortly afterwards she put a huge cake, adorned with 100 lit candles, in front of the lively old woman who was sitting at the table. When the entire restaurant sang and congratulated her, the woman burst into tears. "Thank you," said the grandson to my wife, "but she is my mother. My grandmother still hasn't arrived. My grandmother and sister loved to unleash their tongue, especially when they were together. On one occasion they washed the dishes after a big family dinner, and at the same time they chatted animatedly.
• only one - answered my grandmother - why?
Then they realized that they had been so engrossed in their conversation that every time Auntie put the clean tray on the counter, my grandmother would take it and wash it again.

VICTORY FOR THOSE WHO PERSEVERE

INICIAR una obra es cosa relativamente fácil, basta con avivar un poco la lumbre del entusiasmo. PERSEVERAR en ella hasta el éxito es cosa diferente; eso ya es algo que requiere continuidad y esfuerzo. COMENZAR está al alcance de los demás, continuar, distingue a las mujeres de carácter. PERSEVERANCIA es la médula de toda gran obra, virtud que consiste en llevar las cosas hasta el final. Es preciso, pues, ser PERSEVERANTE, formarse un carácter no solo intrépido, sino PERSISTENTE, PACIENTE, e INQUEBRANTABLE. Sólo eso es el Carácter. El verdadero carácter sólo conoce un lema: LA VICTORIA Y sufre con VALOR, con SERENIDAD y con ALIENTO la más grande de las pruebas: LA DERROTA La lucha tonifica el espíritu, pero cuando falta carácter, la derrota lo reprime y lo desalienta. Hemos nacido para luchar. Las más grandes VICTORIAS corresponden siempre a quienes se preparan, a quienes luchan y a quienes PERSEVERAN. ANONIMO

EL éXITO COMIENZA CON LA VOLUNTAD

If you think you are defeated, you are. If you think you dare not, you will not. If you think you would like to win, but you can't, you won't. If you think you will lose, you have already lost. Because in the world you will find that success begins with the will. Everything is in mental state. Because many careers have been lost before they were run, and many cowards have failed, before their work began. Think big, and your deeds will grow. Think small and you will be left behind. Think you can and you will. Everything is in mental state. If you think you are ahead, you are. You have to think well to rise, you have to be sure of yourself, before trying to win an award. The battle of life is not always won by the strongest or the fastest man because sooner or later, the man who wins, He is the one who thinks he can do it. RUDYARD KIPLING

BRAVE PRAYER

Lord, give me your strength, give me the thrust of initiative and the courage of discipline; more love, Lord, more authenticity, the courage to do and to do without fear, more coherence, Lord, more impulse. The value of continuing and the spirit of always renewing myself, more generosity, Lord, more understanding, the value of knowing how to be alone, and that of knowing how to start again, more sincerity, Lord, more friendship. The value of not getting irritated, of always staying in control of myself, more delicacy, Lord, more charity, the value of always finding a little time to meditate and pray, more faith, Lord, more light: With our eyes always on justice and in kindness. ANONYMOUS

RESISTANCE

No person becomes great until they have faced and overcome great resistance. Greatness cannot be conceived until this concept is understood. Unfortunately the common woman ignores this rule. This woman in her ignorance is afraid to face the slightest resistance. He does not want to be criticized and he mistakenly feels that criticism will stop him, he will not be happy, and his dreams will not come true. The truth is just the opposite. When you initiate a change to improve yourself, the first to oppose are the closest people and your loved ones. They fear change, because this means facing the unknown. When you start to progress, you find a difficult path made by your friends and family. They show their resistance with negative comments and actions, which often force you to stay in a state of recess. Now if you want to conceive progress, you have to be strong and resist the negativism of the people around you. This is difficult and requires courage, because you want to please and not hurt your loved ones. The truth is that the damage falls on them, when you fail to be yourself and stop instead of moving forward and progressing. The people who offer resistance, when they see you stand out for having persisted in your decision, they have no other alternative but to look at you with the greatest respect. History has proven this point many times. An example: The greatest of all men, I endure the severest resistance and in doing so gave birth to Christianity. If Jesus Christ had fled to the opposition, Today we would not know his name nor would the great truths that He brought for man be available to us and so that he could find his individual greatness. Furthermore, Christianity encountered the greatest resistance in Rome. And Rome is today the center of Christianity. Let these great lessons from the past engrave in your mind as a memory of your personal growth, which will determine the growth of your family. We must understand and give thanks that our idea is much more powerful than resistance. You are fortunate to have this kind of resistance in your loved ones as it is proof that you are overcoming yourself, and it will give you the energy to continue growing and improving. WILIAM PENN PATRICK Let these great lessons from the past engrave in your mind as a memory of your personal growth, which will determine the growth of your family. We must understand and give thanks that our idea is much more powerful than resistance. You are fortunate to have this kind of resistance in your loved ones as it is proof that you are overcoming yourself, and it will give you the energy to continue growing and improving. WILIAM PENN PATRICK Let these great lessons from the past engrave in your mind as a memory of your personal growth, which will determine the growth of your family. We must understand and give thanks that our idea is much more powerful than resistance. You are fortunate to have this kind of resistance in your loved ones as it is proof that you are overcoming yourself, and it will give you the energy to continue growing and improving. WILIAM PENN PATRICK And this will give you the energy to continue growing and improving. WILIAM PENN PATRICK And this will give you the energy to continue growing and improving. WILIAM PENN PATRICK
A. NOT EVERYTHING IS AUTOMATIC
Today's man is used to automatisms ,: The ignition of the car, the elevator, the light, the computer…. everything works like this. But his existence, his happiness, does not work with easy automatisms, but for his intelligence and his will. Happiness must be conquered every day. Ricardo Cuadrado T. Automatically use that intelligence and that will to the positive side, and happiness will present itself instantly The more difficult the fight. The more difficult the fight, the more glorious is the triumph. We do not hold in high esteem things that come the easy way; only what is very dear to us gains value. I love the man capable of smiling in adversity, drawing strength from weakness and becoming courageous thanks to reflection. It is characteristic of the small spirits to be intimidated, however, Those who are endowed with a firm heart and whose conscience approves of their conduct will be faithful to their principles until death. Thomas paine

The intense work.

Intense work does not cause heart attacks. What's more, it can even benefit health. However, people often think: if I could raise that money! Or if I could earn a promotion! Or if I could get recognition! Those aspirations are what cause stress, which in turn can lead to illness. Dr. Dean Ornish. Enjoy your work, whatever it is and enjoy the product obtained today, you will maintain very good health.

Evidence of value

Courage is not limited to the battlefield. The real tests of value are much deeper and quieter. They are internal tests, such as being faithful when no one looks at us, such as bearing pain when the room is empty, like being alone when nobody understands us. Charles Swindoll That kind of bravery not everyone has it. Internal courage is what finally keeps us firm in the face of life.

A good leader

A good leader is one who has the tact to choose the men who are to do what he wishes to do, and knows how to hold back enough not to intrude while they are doing it. Teodoro Roosvelt BACK TO HOME
A WARM CHRISTMAS

Do you think it's worth starting today? F end only a few days for the new year, E look forward to it with many dreams. Whatever you plan today, it will be tomorrow, I nicia with strength and with much desire. Take care of everything that prevents you from continuing. There is nothing more important than loving. I killed you and everyone around you. I lived with that love to give. Invade your heart of that feeling that makes you dizzy. Dedicate most of the time to delivering to MOR always in some way. God will reward you. Tere Bringas Dear friend: That this Christmas love is present in your house. In each of the people that make up your family. But mainly in you. May you use this love to thank your parents who gave you life. Show them by giving a sincere kiss and a real hug. Or thanking them, proving that you are fine wherever they are. Remember that the amount of love that you radiate will be the one that you find around you. Tere Bringas.

CHRISTMAS PRAYER

. THANK YOU LORD, because you were born, lived and died for us. But thank you especially, Lord, for the unforgettable teachings that your journey through earth left us. For the humanity you showed us when choosing the place of your birth. For the unlimited love on which your doctrine is based. For the tenderness that your Mother represents, the Virgin Mary. For the generosity with which you shared with us the Kingdom of your Father. For the total dedication you made to us through the Eucharist. For the sacrifice of a cruel death, which you accepted for us. For the happy promise contained in your Resurrection Lord, do not allow me to forget you this Christmas. Make all my December joy be based on my gratitude for all the things you have given me without deserving them. Thanks for the lights and the parties; for sweets and gifts; for the love of my family; by the presence of my friends; for the peace of the world and tranquility of my home. But thank you especially, Lord, because I know and love you. Thank you for being born on a frosty December night, in the humblest of conditions, only to bring us a Light of Truth, which will never go out, as long as there is only one soul that evokes the message of the Angels to the Shepherds the night of your birth. An angel knocks on the door as long as there is only one soul that evokes the message of the Angels to the Shepherds on the night of your Birth. An angel knocks on the door as long as there is only one soul that evokes the message of the Angels to the Shepherds on the night of your Birth. An angel knocks on the door

Cuando Ben entregó la leche en la casa de mi prima esa mañana, no mostraba su acostumbrada jovialidad. Era un día de noviembre, yo acababa de llegar junto con mi familia al vecindario y me encantaba que los lecheros aún repartieran la leche de puerta en puerta. Siempre disfrutaba de los comentarios alegres y ocurrentes de Ben, pero esa mañana era el arquetipo del abatimiento. Tuve que preguntarle que era lo que pasaba y me dijo un poco avergonzado, que dos clientes se habían machado sin pagar; uno debiéndole $ 100.00 y el otro $ 750.00 cantidad que el se vería obligado a pagar. .El cliente que le adeudaba $ 750.00, era una mujer joven y bonita que tenía seis hijos y estaba esperando otro- me explicó – . Siempre me decía: ” Le pagará en cuanto mi esposo consiga un segundo empleo”, pero ni siquiera me dejó su nueva dirección. Le dije que lo lamentaba mucho, no se me ocurrió ninguna otra cosa. La siguiente vez que lo vi estaba peor, hablaba mal de aquellos niños desaliñados que se habían bebido su leche. Lo que había sido una familia encantadora era ya una partida de bribones. Volví a expresarle mis condolencias y me quede pensando en como podría ayudarlo para que esa experiencia no amargara sus días. Entonces recordé que la NAVIDAD se aproximaba, y me vino a la mente lo que mi madre solía decir: ” Cuando alguien quiera quitarte algo, dáselo. Así, jamás podrán robarte.” La siguiente vez que lo vi le dije que podía hacer algo para sentirse mejor.- No creo que sirva- me respondió – pero dígamelo de todos modos. – Regálele la leche a la mujer. Considérelo un REGALO DE NAVIDAD para los niños. – ¿ Cómo me sale usted con eso? – replicó – Ni siquiera a mi esposa le doy un REGALO DE NAVIDAD tan caro. ¡Claro! ¡Como los $ 750.00 no son suyos! No insistí pero seguí creyendo que mi sugerencia era acertada. El asunto se convirtió en motivo de broma. – ¿Ya le regaló la leche a la mujer? – le preguntaba a Ben siempre que nos encontrábamos y cada vez parecía que se animaba un poco más. Entonces sucedió, seis días antes de NAVIDAD, Ben llegó con una sonrisa diciéndome – ¡lo hice! – Le di la leche como REGALO DE NAVIDAD. No resulto fácil, pero no tenía nada que perder. La cosa ya estaba hecha, ¿no? – en efecto – confirmé, compartiendo su alegría – Pero esas acciones deben hacerse de corazón. – Lo sé. Así lo hice. Y le aseguro que me siento mejor. Por ello tengo este BUEN SENTIMIENTO NAVIDEÑO. Gracias a mi, los niños tuvieron leche abundante para su cereal. Las fiestas vinieron y se fueron, y una mañana de enero Ben llegó casi corriendo. Tengo que contarle algo asombroso. Me explicó que cubriendo una ruta de reparto de otro lechero, de pronto oyó que alguien lo llamaba, al voltear vio que una mujer corría hacía él agitando unos billetes en la mano la reconoció de inmediato, llevaba un bebe en brazos, envuelto en una cobijita blanca .¡Oiga! Espere un momento Ben, – gritaba- Tengo su dinero. Ben detuvo el camión y se bajo. – Lo siento de veras – se disculpo la mujer – Créame que tenia intención de pagarle. Le contó que su esposo llegó una noche con la noticia de que había conseguido un departamento más barato y un trabajo nocturno y con la emoción se había olvidado de dejar su nueva dirección. – Pero he estado ahorrando. Aquí tiene $ 100.00 a cuenta de lo que le debo. – No se preocupe, señora . repuso Ben – Ya está pagado. – ¿Pagado? ¿Quién pagó? – Yo -. La mujer lo miró como si fuera un ángel, y rompió a llorar. – ¿Y usted que hizo? – quise saber. -No sabía que hacer así que le di un abrazo y antes de que comprendiera lo que estaba pasando, yo también me puse a llorar, sin tener la más remota idea del motivo. Entonces me imaginé a aquellos niños tomando su leche en el desayuno, ¿sabe?, me alegre de que usted me hubiera metido en esto.
•¿No aceptó los $100.00? – ¡Por supuesto que no! – protestó, indignado -. ¿QUÉ NO HABIAMOS QUEDADO QUE LA LECHE ERA MI REGALO DE NAVIDAD?
Con generosidad, es posible enmendar los errores. Shirley Bachelder

Querido Santa Claus…

En el centro de la ciudad vimos a Santa Claus, y me dejaron sentarme en sus rodillas.
•
•Dime, pequeño, ¿Qué regalo te gustaría este año?
•Bueno, primero, me gustaría todo lo que no me trajiste el año pasado. Luego, quisiera un juego de turista, una pista de carrera de coches, un balón de futbol, una pistola de agua, una caja de herramientas de verdad, una gran grúa con dos palas y un carro de bomberos eléctrico, que corre solíto, y un traje de vaquero con sus pistolas, y unos patines, y. ..
•Esa es una lista larga – me interrumpió Santa Claus -. Ahora, voy a mirar mi libro, para ver si te has portado bien.
•No; no vea el libro – supliqué -; me conformo con unos patines.
Willy Breinholst REGRESAR AL INICIO
ANECDOTAS

Para el AMA DE CASA la jubilación significa tener dos veces más marido con la mitad del sueldo. R.M. A mí las vacaciones no me preocupan; el patrón me dice cuándo y mi esposa a dónde. R.M. La sonrisa es vital Por primera vez en muchos años, una amiga nuestra viajó desde nuestro pueblo a la ciudad para ver una película. Después de comprar su billete de entrada, se detuvo ante la tienda de golosinas a comprar palomitas de maíz. Al pagar $18.00 al dependiente, mi amiga no pudo evitar comentar: – La última vez que vine al cine las palomitas costaban solamente $3.00. – entonces, señorita – le contestó el dependiente – realmente se va a divertir. Ya tenemos sonido. P.R. Era una señora tan egoísta, que presta atención con mucho interés. H.L. López La maestra, después de un día muy atareado pasado en calificar exámenes finales, revisar listas de asistencia y entregar informes: “Enseñar en una escuela es muy parecido a dar a luz: una y otra empresa requieren nueve meses y en ambos casos el último día es el peor. S.r.d.

LOS TIEMPOS CAMBIAN

Hace 16 años Hoy ¡Qué fresca y cómoda está ¡Métete en seguida y ponte con pañal y nada más! más ropa. Hoy dijo su primera palabra ¡Ya basta! ¡Cállate! Es muy tímida con los descono- ¡No permitiré que mi hija salga cidos. con un extraño. ¡Qué emoción, le está saliendo ¡Qué caro me está saliendo el el primer diente! Dentista! ¿No te gustaría que no pasara ¡A ver cuando maduras! de esta edad? Ya se sienta y por horas hojea ¡Te he dicho que te pongas a los libros en su cuarto. estudiar! Creo que va a tener la nariz de ¡ Ya dije que no, ni hablar de la su padre. cirugía plástica! ¡Qué felicidad, cuando deje de Y, además, jovencita, tu madre alimentarla a las dos de la madru- te espero hasta las dos de la gada para dormir un poco más. madrugada. P.H.W. REGRESAR AL INICIO
PARA REIR UN POCO

 

TACTO CONYUGAL

La primera vez que mi esposo se reunió a cenar con mi familia, mi padre decidió ponerlo a prueba.
•A ver, Marcos- le dijo -, sé franco y responde: ¿quién guisa mejor, tu mujer o la mía?
Me quedé petrificada a la mitad de un bocado, mientras todas las miradas se posaban en mi marido. El sin embargo, haciendo gala de diplomacia contestó: – Yo diría que su hija aprendió perfectamente todo lo que mi suegra le enseño. M.T.

PELIGROSO RIVAL

Mi esposo acababa de volver de un viaje largo de cinco días, y yo había planeado una velada romántica para los dos. Mientras desempacaba su maleta, lo oí decir con emoción, detrás de mí. -¡Mi amor, no sabes cuanto te extrañe! Me volví para echarme en sus brazos, y menuda sorpresa me llevé cuando vi que estaba besando el control remoto de la televisión. Diana Yong

TOMATE UNA PAUSA

A Practical Man My husband is a generous man, but he is also practical. On one occasion, he and my son went to buy a gift for me.
• Hey, Dad- my son asked, puzzled- If Mom wants a mink coat, what are we doing in the home appliances department?
ARW

HISTORICAL or HYSTERICAL
• Whenever my wife and I argue, she becomes historical.
• You mean hysterical.
• No, I mean historical; he absolutely remembers all my mistakes, and the exact date I made them.
RD

THE SMILE IS HEALTHY

Oh no! When my husband can withdraw from everything around him. One night I felt a little snubbed. He had asked me to bring his book to him when I went to bed, and so I decided to put on the most suggestive of my robes to see his reaction. As soon as I entered the bedroom with the book under my arm, my husband exclaimed: -Oh, no! You have lost the page you had marked. VMS

Wrong number

One morning, very early, my husband and I were awakened by the ringing of the phone. I barely mumbled a "Well?" And a whiny male voice began to say,
"Honey, don't hang up! Let me explain you.
• But… - I tried to interrupt.
• I promise I will never do it again. You are what matters most to me in life.
• It is that… - I tried to explain.
• No, listen to me! I will die without you!
By then, my husband was already listening to the conversation and he laughed.
• A man is with you, right Rosi?
• I'm not Rosi - I shouted - didn't you realize that you had the wrong number ?:
• Why didn't you tell me before? Now I will have to repeat everything again!
• The man replied, and then, in a calmer voice, added: "
Do you think it will work?" VC BACK TO HOME
GOOD GOOD

 

FRESH FRUITS FOR THIS CHRISTMAS

THE STRAWBERRY. Contains vitamin C and potassium; prevents infections, cancer, stroke, and menopause symptoms; To preserve them, spread them out on a tray and cover them with a kitchen cloth. They will last from 2 to 3 days. They can be used for desserts, drinks, jams and main dishes. THE GUAVA. Contains vitamin C and potassium; prevents gastrointestinal diseases; at room temperature they are kept for 2 to 4 days; They are used in preserves, compotes, desserts and jams. LIME. It contains vitamin C, potassium and vitamin A; it is recommended for high blood pressure and for the prevention of infections; keeps 10 days refrigerated in an airtight container; It is used for waters, typical dishes and desserts. TANGERINE. Contains vitamin C and potassium; recommended for stroke and infection prevention; they are kept for 3 to 5 days at room temperature; It is used for water, juices, drinks, desserts, ice cream, sauces for main dishes. THE GRAPE. Contains magnesium and potassium; prevents heart disease; it is kept from 2 to 4 days at room temperature; It is used for desserts, sauces, drinks and juices. Some tips To keep the enamel of the sink or bathtub shiny, rub them occasionally with half a lemon or with a cloth moistened with turpentine. You will remove the yellowish stains from the toilets, pouring coarse salt and a splash of hot vinegar. Then rub with a sponge. Some tips If you rub the pan with coarse salt; You will also prevent food from sticking to the bottom. Don't shed more tears peeling onions! Avoid this by placing a small crumb of bread on the tip of the knife. Grandma's remedy, They say it is infallible: Take a sip of water and keep it in your mouth while you cut the onion. There will be no crying.

Some tips

Pouring a little salt in the pan will prevent the oil from skipping. Keep that half a lemon that you have left over by applying a little salt on the cut. Then put it on a plate and cover it with a glass. When you need it, just slice the part with salt. and ready! You can also preserve it by wrapping it in sticky plastic.

Turkey stuffing

Ingredients
• Two medium onions
• 225 grs. Of toasted bread in squares
• 75 grs. Butter
• 15 tablespoons celery, finely chopped
• 2 apples, diced
• 1 can of cream of chicken with mushrooms
• 50 grs. Of well-chopped raisins
• 1 tablespoon of chopped parsley
• 1 tablespoon of fine herbs
• salt and pepper to taste
Preparación Picar la cebolla bien finita, ponerla a cocinar junto con la mantequilla hasta que este bien cocida, agregar la crema de pollo con champiñones, cocinar durante un minuto y agregar el pan, apio, manzana, pasitas, perejíl y yerbas finas. Sazonar bien con la sal y la pimienta y cocinar durante cinco minutos. Rellenar el pavo. Los alimentos enlatados Si algo tiene fama de permanecer por mucho tiempo en buen estado son los alimentos enlatados; y esto radica en el proceso de envasado. Primeramente la lata es esterilizada para después introducirle el alimento, fruta, verdura o lo que sea que contendrá. La lata sigue un proceso de llenado de vacío, esto es le sacan todo el aire para después sellarla; obviamente sin aire no sobrevive ningún tipo de bacteria por lo que los alimentos se conservan. Algunas latas cerradas al vacío tienen una válvula de seguridad que consta de alguna pequeña saliente en la tapa; esta sirve de indicador de conservación. Si la tapa está levantada quiere decir que el aire ha penetrado a la lata y que es probable que en el interior se hayan podido formar bacterias que descomponen los alimentos

La manzana

En esta ocasión nos servirá para preparar un jugo delicioso, nutritivo, saludable y curativo. Se pela una manzana grande, se corta en trozos y se ponen en la licuadora con dos ciruelas pasa y dos dátiles previamente remojados en medio vaso de agua desde un día antes. Se les quita el hueso y se licúan con el agua en que se remojaron junto con la manzana. Debe quedar un poco espeso y este jugo es lo más sano y nutritivo que pueden tomar los niños, los adultos y los ancianos, porque ayuda a fortalecer los huesos, combate el estreñimiento y quita la acidez y la gastritis. Si se toma en la noche ayuda a dormir mejor, sobre todo si se licúan dos hojas de lechuga orejona.

El brócoli

El brócoli es uno de los alimentos con mayor contenido de vitamina A, es conveniente comerlo frecuentemente para prevenir el cáncer, Comiéndolo crudo da mejores resultados, puede ser con jugo de naranja licuado con cinco ramitos de brócoli o jugo de zanahoria con tres troncos de brócoli pasado por el extractor de jugos o licuando el jugo de zanahoria con cinco ramitos de brócoli. También se puede comer cocido, pero que sólo hierva dos minutos y se escurra. El agua se toma como consomé o se agrega a la sopa.

SPAGHETTI CON ESPECIAS

INGREDIENTS * 1 Package of 200 grs. Spaghetti
• Half a cup butter or margarine
• 1 Can sliced ​​mushrooms
• 2 Tablespoons bell pepper, sliced ​​and drained
• 2 Tablespoons
minced dried basil
• ½ teaspoon crumbled marjoram
• ½ teaspoon salt
• Half a teaspoon of crushed red pepper
• 1 minced clove of garlic
• 1 cup of finely chopped cheddar cheese
Preparation Boil salted water, when boiling put the spaghetti, move it taking care not to overcook. Meanwhile, in a large skillet, melt butter or margarine over low heat. Add the mushrooms, bell pepper, parsley, basil, marjoram, salt, pepper, and garlic. Cook for three to four minutes and then add the well-drained spaghetti. Add the cheese, stir to mix perfectly. Serve it hot. CHICKEN ONION Ingredients * 1 Chicken cut into pieces * 3 Big onions * 1 Green bell pepper * 1 Red bell pepper * 2 Tablespoons of fat * 3 Garlic cloves * ½ Cup of vinegar
• Salt, pepper and ground paprika
Preparation In the hot fat, brown the chicken pieces, previously seasoned with salt, pepper and ground paprika. Add the sliced ​​onions, the peppers, also sliced ​​and add the vinegar. Place them in the pressure cooker, let the steam escape, set the pressure regulator and cook for five minutes. Remove from the heat and let the pot cool on its own. I am ready to serve.

TOLTECA SOUP

Ingredients * 2 to 3 cubes of knorr * 4 Roasted and sliced ​​poblano peppers * 2 shelled tender corn * 1 tablespoon of finely chopped onion * 1 tablespoon of pure corn oil * 1 liter of water * ½ tablespoon of corn starch * ½ Acid cream cup * 125 grs. Oaxaca type Asadero cheese Preparation In the oil add the onion, the slices and the corn grains. Once transparent, add the cornstarch without stopping to move. Add the water and the Knorr cubes, boil until the vegetables are cooked. Finally, add the cheese in pieces and leave it until gratin. Remove it from the heat and add the cream. Serve it very hot.

LOIN IN MORRON SAUCE

Ingredients * 1 kg of pork loin * ½ onion * 2 cloves of garlic * 1 can of bell pepper * ½ cup of sherry * ½ cup of cream * ¼ teaspoon of pepper * 1 teaspoon of salt * 3 tablespoons of oil * 2 slices of fried bacon Preparation Fry the loin in the saucepan with oil, grind the pepper with the onion, garlic and sherry, salt, pepper, fried bacon and cream. When the meat is golden brown, pour the ground into it, cover it and let it cook for an hour over low heat. Slice it cold and serve it hot.

CHOCOLATE AND CHANTILLY LITTERS

Ingredients * 2 packages of horns
• Liquid chocolate spread
• Chantilly cream
• Chocolate chips
• 4 cherries
Preparation The horns are cut in half, the base is smeared with the liquid chocolate, then the chantilly cream is placed and finally sprinkle with chocolate chips, place the cherries and cover.

FLEAS WITH CHOCOLATE

Ingredients * 1 12-ounce package of semi-dark chocolate * 1 Can of condensed milk * 2 Tablespoons of butter * 2 Cups of peanuts or walnuts * 1 Package of miniature chocolates Preparation Melt the chocolate together with the milk in a double boiler. the butter; remove from heat. In a saucepan put the chocolates and peanuts, add the chocolate mixture and stir very well; empty the mixture into a tray previously covered with wax paper and refrigerate for two hours. Take it out of the refrigerator and cut it into squares. Enjoy it in the company of your guests this Christmas.

GREEN SALAD WITH MUSHROOMS

Ingredients * 1 Romaine lettuce, washed * 1 Escarole lettuce, washed
• 2 Bunches of spinach, washed
• ½ Pound of fresh mushrooms parboiled in two tablespoons
• of olive oil.
Vinaigrette * 4 cloves crushed garlic * 1 fillet ground anchovy * 2 egg yolks 1 tablespoon dry sherry 1 tablespoon mustard 2 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce * ½ cup red wine vinegar
• ½ cup grated Parmesan type
• ½ Cup of olive oil
• ½ Cup of oil
• 1 teaspoon of salt, pepper and
bell pepper Preparation Blend all the ingredients of the vinaigrette, arrange the lettuces, spinach and mushrooms on a plate and pour the vinaigrette on the salad just before to serve.

FILLET IN MOZTAZA SAUCE

Ingredientes * 1 Cucharada de mantequilla * 2 Cucharadas de mostaza tipo Dijón * Media taza de vino blanco * Un cuarto de crema * 1 Kilo de filete en caña
•Sal y pimienta
•Perejil picado y lavado
Preparación Derrite la mantequilla a fuego lento. Agrega la mostaza y el vino. Mezcla para integrar todo y espera a que se reduzca y concentre el sabor. Añade la crema a temperatura ambiente, deja que espese y agrega el perejil picado Calienta durante 15 minutos una sartén gruesa o una parrilla. Sazona la carne con sal, pimienta y un poco de mostaza . Baja la temperatura de la plancha y pon la carne hasta obtener el término deseado. Sírvela en un platón, ya sea con la salsa encima o en una linda salsera.

PASTEL HELADO MARMOLEADO

Ingredientes
•2 Litros de helado de vainilla
•2 Litros de helado de café
•6 Merengues machacados
•300 gramos de nueces molidas
Preparación En moldes desarmables previamente engrasados, pon capas de helado, alternando los sabores. Presiona. Pon una capa de merengue machacado y una capa delgada de nueces molidas. Repite la operación una o dos veces más y acaba con nueces. Mételo al congelador por lo menos dos horas antes de servirlo. Si lo deseas adorna con pompones de crema chantilly

UN BUEN PENSAMIENTO PARA EL NUEVO MILENIO

Try to be wise when you cannot be happy, to be docile when you cannot be happy, to settle for what is hopeless and to be patient when there is no possibility of compensation. Elizabeth Montagu Dear friend: May these dicembrinos messages support you for your wishes, goals and objectives in the new millennium. I take this opportunity to wish you an unforgettable Christmas; a year end in the company of all your loved ones; and the initiation of a New Year, the year 2000 full of much love. Thanking you in advance for allowing me to be part of that desire for improvement that you have as a woman and that we support through these messages; that they only have the objective of sowing a seed of love, peace and tranquility within your home. Hoping to serve you next year in the best way, I put myself at your orders. Sincerely Your friend Tere Bringas

RECOMMENDED FOOD

To have a good diet, each family should make the best use of the food available to them and ensure that the meals of the day meet the following characteristics: COMPLETE: Include varied foods, there is no single food that provides the individual with all the substances which requires. BALANCED: With the amount of nutrients that each person needs to develop and stay healthy. ENOUGH: Each person requires energy to carry out their activities and body functions and this must be according to their weight, height and age. VARIED: With different flavors, colors, smells and consistencies, to avoid monotony and ensure the consumption of different nutrients. SAFE: With the least amount of toxic substance, prepared and consumed with hygiene to maintain health.

10 TIPS ON HEALTHY FOOD

1.- Choose a wide variety of foods 2.- Eat a lot of cereals, fruits and vegetables. 3.- Maintain an adequate weight. 4.- Eat moderate portions of all foods. 5.- Make three meals a day. 6.- Balance your total diet. 7.- Identify your weaknesses and change them gradually. 8.- Drink a lot of water. 9.- Stay active. 10.- Remember: No food is good or bad by itself. Practical suggestions

THE ALMONDS

Almonds are a great food for the nervous system, for the brain and for fighting anemia. They can be taken in the form of horchata. 10 almonds are soaked from the previous day, the skin is removed and liquefied with half a glass of water and a little honey. They should not be eaten in excess, ten almonds daily are sufficient. Every time you chop vegetables or anything you're going to cook, put your chopping board on a double sheet of newspaper, so that all the debris falls there and when you're done, just roll up the newspaper and throw it away. This way the table is clean. Take the test and you will see that this is very useful. Coffee beans and ground coffee maintain their aroma for longer if stored in a metal can, with an airtight lid. Practical suggestions

THE NUTS

Walnuts are very nutritious because they contain iron and vitamin B that strengthen the body and are highly recommended for women who are feeding the baby because they increase the amount of breast milk, the same as sesame, five peeled almonds, half a glass of milk and a tablespoon of honey, liquefies very well and is taken every day. This also provides enough calcium. Take advantage of the bobbins that were left from the previous day. Slice them, make a mixture with egg and a little milk, dip the bread slices there and fry them in a little butter or margarine until they are lightly browned on both sides, sprinkle with sugar and cinnamon powder or drizzle with honey. You can serve them for breakfast or snack. The tea, both in leaf and in sachets, stays cooler when stored in airtight containers, in cool, dark places, away from foods with strong, pungent flavors. Practical suggestions

THE DATILES

Among the dried fruits, the date is the most nutritious, because immediately the energy rises and the forces recover. Prepare any of these smoothies: Six dates are soaked from the day before, they are boned and liquefied with two large, ripe and soft peaches, removing the skin and a glass of water. If you had any bell peppers from the can that was opened and not He plans to use them soon, drain the liquid, transfer them to a glass jar and cover them with oil. In this way they are not spoiled and when you need them, just drain them and the oil can be used in salads. It is advisable to empty canned foods as soon as you open them, and store them in glass or plastic containers in the refrigerator.

Mushroom soup

Ingredients: * one kg of clove mushrooms * half medium onion, finely chopped * two cloves of minced garlic * one lt. Chicken or beef broth. * a branch of epazote * a dry chipotle chili * a tablespoon of olive oil * salt, pepper and granulated broth for seasoning Preparation Wash and clean the mushrooms very well and leave them to drain. Put oil in a saucepan, once hot, add the onion, garlic, epazote and add the chili. Incorporate the mushrooms and move constantly. Season to your liking, empty the broth and boil with the epazote, about 3 minutes. Remove the epazote before serving, if desired.

Onion soup

Ingredients:
• six slices of whole wheat bread.
• One finely chopped onion • One
and a half liters of seasoned chicken broth
• One hundred grams of grated Manchego cheese
• Two tablespoons of butter
Preparation Fry the onion in the butter until golden. Add the chicken stock, let it boil for ten minutes. Serve the soup in a soup plate, place a brown bread on top with a little grated cheese. It goes into the oven to gratin. Serve very hot.

Poblano rice

Ingredients:
• a cup of rice
• a third of a cup of oil
• three washed and seedless poblano peppers
• a cup of young corn kernels
• a piece of onion
• two garlics
• a sprig of epazote
• three tablespoons of chicken broth
• three cups of hot water
Preparation In a bowl of approximately two liters, put the rice, oil, garlic and onion, mixing everything well and ensuring that it is well distributed in the bowl. Cover and microwave for 3 minutes. Remove, stir, add the corn kernels, cover again and put in the microwave for three more minutes. Apart in a cup of water, blend the chilies and the onion, plus the remaining two cups of water, add the rice, the chicken broth and the sprig of epazote. Mix well, cover and put in the microwave for nine minutes. We will give you two minutes of rest and after this nine more minutes.

Fish Al Cilantro

Ingredients:
• one kg. Fish fillet (preferably red snapper)
• One sliced ​​onion
• Ten whole olives
• Fifteen whole capers
• Two tablespoons of butter
• Five lemons
• Ten sprigs of coriander
• A glass of white wine
• Strips to taste of bell pepper can
• garlic salt and pepper
Preparation Start by making a marinade with lemons, garlic salt and pepper. Add the fish fillets and let them steep for ten minutes, turning them occasionally. In a frying pan, heat the onion in the butter, place the fish fillets slowly, turn them over, add the olives, capers and white wine. Finally, add the coriander leaves, cover and cook over medium heat for ten to fifteen minutes, taking care not to disrupt the fish.

Maria de Jesus Chicken

Ingredients:
• six pieces of chicken
• three tablespoons of butter
• one and a half cup of orange juice
• one small can of chipotle
• two tablespoons of granulated chicken broth
• half tablespoon of oregano
• one piece of onion
Preparation Place the chicken in an uncoated container, spread with the butter and sprinkle with the chicken broth, cover and microwave for seven minutes. Separately liquefy a cup of orange juice with the garlic and onion, with this bathe the chicken, cover it again and cook for four more minutes. In the orange juice that is left over, the chipotle is crumbled (the amount you want) and the chicken is added, sprinkled with the oregano, covered and cooked for three or four minutes more Accompany it with a green salad, spinach is recommended .

Tuna croquettes

Ingredients
• a can of tuna
• 500 grs. Potato cooked, peeled and pureed
• one egg yolk
• flour (The necessary one)
• two beaten eggs
• breadcrumbs (the necessary one)
• oil for frying
• salt and pepper to taste
Preparation In a container with the puree, add the shredded tuna and egg yolk. Mix thoroughly, seasoning with salt and pepper to taste. Form twelve croquettes with the pasta, pass them through the flour, then through the beaten egg and finally through the ground bread. Accompany the croquettes with a fresh salad of lettuce, tomato and cucumber.

Mango mousse

Ingredients
• two cups of mango pulp
• a quarter of a liter of sweet cream
• three egg whites
• three quarts of sifted icing sugar
• two sachets of unflavored gelatin
• one third of a cup of water
• two tablespoons of rum
• pinch of salt
• mango slices for garnish
Preparation Mix the gelatin with the water. After five minutes put it in a bain-marie to liquefy. Grind the mango with the rum, salt and half the sugar, add the gelatin. Empty the cream into the container in which it is going to be beaten and put it in the freezer for two hours, as well as the blades of the mixer. After this time beat it in the mixer, and when it begins to sponge and harden add the sugar little by little, without stopping beating. Beat the egg whites until they are nougat. Mix the mango with the whipped cream, gently; Incorporate the whites, as if you were wrapping the creams with them. Wet a metal jelly pan and pour the water into it. Pour in the smoothie and refrigerate until set. To unmold it, immerse it for two or three seconds in very hot water, taking care not to let the water get into the mold.
• three eggs
• half a large can of condensed milk
• four cups of fresh milk
• muscovado sugar for decoration
Preparation Beat the eggs and milk perfectly. Empty this mixture into individual molds, place them on an extended cookie sheet and put water up to two thirds of the height of the molds and put them in the oven at moderate heat (180 · C) for about an hour. Put a little brown sugar on top of each flan and return the flan to the oven until the sugar dissolves. Take them out and already cold put them in the refrigerator for two hours,

Bananas to singapore

Ingredients
• two ripe tabasco bananas
• two tablespoons of sugar
• one teaspoon of coffee powder
• two tablespoons of orange liqueur
• two tablespoons of brandy
• two tablespoons of butter
• four tablespoons of orange juice
Preparation Place a spread spread of butter the bananas cut in halves throughout. Separately mix the sugar and coffee powder, sprinkle the mixture on the bananas and on top of this put all the mixed liquids. Put the mixture in the oven until the sugar melts. (instead of coffee powder you can use cinnamon) The kitchen is both child's play and adult's pleasure. Cooking carefully is an act of love

GARDEN SOUP

Ingredients: 3 slices of bacon 1 small potato 1 carrot ½ pore (the white part) ½ tablespoon of salt ½ liter of broth
1. celery
stick
1. small piece of cabbage 50. grams of peeled peas
1. ground tomato with garlic and onion (caldillo)
1/8 teaspoon of pepper Preparation: Cut the bacon into small pieces and fry until the fat is released. in it also fry the chopped vegetables, stirring continuously until they soften. Once soft, add the tomato broth and fry until it changes color. Add the broth and, when it boils, season it with salt and pepper. This soup is very nutritious and also inexpensive, since you can use leftover vegetables to prepare it. You can also combine it with strong dishes that contain flour.

CREAM OF ELOTES

Ingredients:
1. poblano
pepper 2. tender corn
¼ chopped onion
1. minced garlic clove
½ teaspoon oil ½ teaspoon butter ¼ liter of milk ½ tablespoon cornstarch
50.grams of chihuahua cheese
salt and pepper Preparation: The poblano pepper is toasted on a comal, peeled, deveined and cut into strips. (If you want to remove the spicy, you must put it to soak in warm water with salt). The corn is cooked (until softened in salted water, after which they are shelled, heat the butter and oil together and add garlic, chopped onion and fry the chili in strips until it is citroned. Then pour the water into the corn was cooked and allowed to boil until the onion and chili are soft and add the corn kernels and the cornstarch diluted in cold milk. When the soup has thickened a little it is ready to be served. Season it and add chihuahua cheese.

PEASANT-STYLE RICE

Ingredients: 200 grams of leftover meat in pieces ½ cup of rice ¼ cream ½ lettuce
1. egg salt and pepper Preparation: Turn on the oven at 250 º C, chop your leftover meat well. Wash your rice. Mix the raw rice with the meat, the egg, salt and pepper. Form balls with this mixture and wrap each one in a lettuce leaf (so that they are softer, soak them first for a moment in boiling water). Place the balls in a baking sheet, bathe them in cream (season to your liking) and put them in the oven for 20 minutes. This is another way to take advantage of the remains of rice with the remains of any meat. Generally it is for more than two diners Food is the basis of our health. What we eat can heal us or can make us sick. DOCTOR CASTRO

BEAN POT WITH MEATBALLS

.
2. cups of cooked red beans or
bays 3. cups of broth in which ½ cup of tomato puree was cooked
4. tablespoons of oil
½ finely sliced ​​medium onion ½ finely sliced ​​red pepper ½ finely sliced ​​green pepper ½ teaspoon of salt 1 / 8 teaspoon of pepper ¼ teaspoon of oregano drops of tabasco sauce Preparation: Fry the onion and the peppers in the oil until they are crisp; add the tomato puree, salt, pepper, oregano and tabasco sauce. Let them fry for 3 or 4 minutes. Add the beans and the broth and the meatballs and let them simmer for 15 minutes. ALBONDIGUITAS Ingredients: 200 grams of ground meat 1
egg
¼ teaspoon of salt 1/8 teaspoon of pepper
1 teaspoon of flour
Preparation: Mix all the ingredients and form balls the size of a walnut. This saucepan is enough for 4 people. Serve it when you have visitors. You will see what a good impression it makes

CHICKEN IN CATSUP SAUCE

Ingredients:
4. chicken legs
4 chicken thighs 2 tablespoons oil
1. minced garlic cloves
½ minced onion
6.
tablespoons ketchup 1. tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
½ cup Worcestershire sauce 1 teaspoon bouillon powder 3 sprigs of chopped parsley Preparation: Fry the chicken legs and thighs in the oil. When they are half golden brown, add the garlic cloves and the onion. Let them sit and add the tablespoons of ketchup and the tablespoons of Worcestershire sauce, fry a little and add the water, the bouillon powder and the parsley. Cover the saucepan and simmer for half an hour or until the chicken is cooked through. If necessary, you can add a little more water, but it should not be broth, only impregnated with the sauce. Garnish with another bit of parsley finely chopped and sprinkled on top. This chicken goes very well with white rice or mashed potatoes (for 4 people) SPICEED PORK Ingredients: 1 ½ kilogram of pork loin
1. tablespoon of oil
1.
onion 2. cloves
1. bay leaf
2. tablespoons of brown sugar
1 ½ cup of beer Preparation: Heat your pressure cooker, add the oil and meat. Trim off excess fat. Add the onion, cloves, bay leaf, sugar and beer. Cover your pressure cooker, set the regulator and cook for 10 minutes. If knowing how to eat to be healthy is the greatest thing for man, knowing how to heal yourself by eating is the great biological wisdom. DOCTOR CASTRO.

PEAKS TO THE ROMPOPE.

Ingredients: 1 cup of peaches in halves ¾ cup of eggnog Preparation: Place the peaches with the half sunk upwards in a patent leather, mix the eggnog with a little syrup of the peaches and pour them on top of them. Put them in the hot oven for a few minutes and serve.

BANANAS FLAMBE

Ingredients: 1 banana per person, cut in half lengthwise 1 teaspoon of sugar per person 1 teaspoon of butter per person 1 tablespoon of rum per person Preparation: In a wide skillet put the butter and once it is melted fry in it the bananas for 2 to 3 minutes per side, trying not to break them, place them on a plate, add the sugar and when serving, heat the rum a little, light it on fire and pour it over the bananas on the plate.

RICE DESSERT

Ingredients: ½ cup of rice flour ½ liter of milk
1 cinnamon stick 5 tablespoons of sugar
2. egg yolks
Preparation: Dissolve the rice flour in the cold milk, add the sugar and cinnamon and put all this on fire smooth while stirring until slightly thickened; remove it from the fire and when it has cooled slightly add the slightly beaten yolks. Put all the mixture again on a very low heat without stopping stirring, and when it begins to thicken, remove it, keep moving until it cools and put it in small glasses or deep saucers for dessert.

APPLE AND ORANGE SHELLS.

Do not throw away the apple peels, the seeds or the heart, nor the orange and tangerine peels because with them a delicious and very effective tea is prepared to remove nervousness and insomnia. Cut the shells into pieces. They are spread out on a tray and put to dry in the sun. This way they come together every day and when they are very dry you can store them in a jar or in a pot to prepare the tea. Boil a liter of water with three tablespoons of apple peels, 1 tablespoon of orange peels, 10 chopped orange leaves and 1 tablespoon of orange blossom. After 5 minutes it turns off and it is left to rest for 20 minutes. Strain it, sweeten it with honey and take it during the day. It is a calming tea. VITAMIN C: Avoid frequent infections and colds,

AVOCADO PROPERTIES

Avocado is a food that provides the body with important minerals such as iron, calcium and phosphorus and vitamins E and B1, natural oils of the highest quality that benefit the heart, arteries and help eliminate good cholesterol. Furthermore, the avocado is delicious, very nutritious and energetic. You can eat an avocado every day with a salad of lettuce, onion, tomato, olive oil, a little lemon juice and little salt, or a sandwich of avocado with olive oil, fresh cheese or panela, onion and a little spicy. Avocado is also used in beauty treatments for skin and hair because it is a great skin softener and very effective in brightening hair. VITAMIN E: Helps prevent blood clots from forming, prevents heart disease and removes dry skin. Whole grains, celery, watercress, spinach, all this raw contains VITAMIN E.

ALFALFA FOR HEALTH

Alfalfa is a plant that helps keep skin, hair, nails and teeth healthy, because it contains calcium, potassium and magnesium, B vitamins, vitamins A and E, folic acid, phosphorous and sodium. People with diabetes get great benefits by including alfalfa in their diet, as well as those with arthritis and rheumatism. The best way to take it is in a smoothie that has pineapple, water, honey, lemon and alfalfa well washed and disinfected, and if you do not get it, take five alfalfa tablets before each meal. Alfalfa fights anemia because it is a great food with a high content of chlorophyll, pantothenic acid and biotin. Strengthens muscles, heals ulcers and stops bleeding due to its vitamin K content.

VITAMIN A: Keeps the skin healthy and strengthens the view, helps hair and nails to have a natural shine. Many fruits and vegetables contain

VITAMIN A such as papaya, peaches, carrots, broccoli, spinach, celery and all those with green leaves.

Happiness and wisdom

One of the differences between happiness and wisdom is that whoever thinks he is the happiest of men, actually is. But whoever considers himself the wisest is usually a hood fool.

CHARLES CALEB C

IF ONE GIVES HIMSELF ...

If you give yourself body and soul to your work, your energy multiplies to the point of appearing inexhaustible.

On the other hand, when you are divided, in conflict with the work you do, anguish is generated, and this consumes exorbitant amounts of physical and emotional energy.

HELEN DE ROSIS

Women's liberation

The militants of the women's liberation movement enrage me. They continue to harangue people and endlessly proclaim that women are smarter than men. That is true, but the secret must be kept, or our game will be spoiled. ANITA LOOS

A TRADITION OF RICE

Colors contribute a lot to be attractive food, because they work on the nervous centers through the eyes. Anyone who eats blindfolded will notice that food tastes less. Let's talk about the rice that reaches the table with a golden color, like the southern sun. Milanese rice is said to have been born in 1574, when a craftsman who worked in the cathedral's stained glass windows married his teacher's daughter, who was a glassmaker. In order to surprise the guests at the wedding banquet, the host painted the rice with some saffron that he used to prepare his colors. At first, some did not like the strange taste of rice, but as the monk sometimes makes it a habit, seasoning rice with saffron became a habit. CM

COLD LEMON PAY

Ingredients:
◦A roll of maría cookies
◦A softened butter
stick ◦A tablespoon of sugar
◦A box of green lemon jelly
◦A large cream cheese
◦A cup of hot water
◦Medium cup of sugar
Preparation: Place the cookies with the tablespoon of sugar until powder. Mix the cookies with the butter in a pie pan until you get a paste, cover with the pan pressing. Dissolve the gelatin in the hot water. Empty on the cookie sheet. Refrigerate until set. Garnish with lemon zest strips.

THREE MARIES OF GELATINA ROYAL

Ingredients:
◦A box of strawberry flavor royal jelly of 170 grams
◦Two cups of boiling water
◦Two cups of cold water
◦Three or four medium bananas
◦Lemon
juice ◦Three or four cherries
◦Half a cup of chantilly cream
Preparation: Dissolve the royal jelly in the boiling water. Add the cold water, empty into a deep mold and wait for it to set. When you go to serve, slice the bananas, spread some lemon juice on them and place them on extended plates or on small ice cream dishes. Take out the gelatin trying to form balls like ice cream, put it on the bananas and decorate with chantilly cream to your liking and scatter the chopped cherries.

ORANGES TO JEREZ

Ingredients:
◦
Six thin-skinned oranges ◦ Six tablespoons of sugar
◦ A glass of sweet sherry
Preparation: Thoroughly wash the oranges and dry them. Scratch the peel off one of them, brush away the zest, and then squeeze out the juice. Put the juice, zest, sugar and sherry in a good-sized container. Peel the other five oranges, remove the seeds and the white skins. Separate them into wedges and arrange them in a container. Refrigerate until serving time.

CREAM SAUSAGES

Ingredients:
◦Eight German San Rafael frankford sausages
◦150 grams of butter
◦150 grams of cooked and sliced ​​mushrooms
◦A quarter of a liter of cream
◦Salt and pepper
Preparation: Fry the butter, the mushrooms and the sausages halved. Season with salt and pepper. Add the cream and cook twenty minutes. (Eight servings).

COMING CAKE

Ingredients:
◦Four slices of whole
wheat bread ◦A quarter of ground beef
◦A quarter of ground pork
° A cup of cheese
◦A cup of cream
◦A cup of milk
◦Four strips of bacon
◦Two eggs
◦One onion
◦
Two garlic cloves ◦ Parsley, salt and pepper to taste
Preparation: Mix cheese, cream, bacon, garlic, onion and parsley in a blender. In a container, stir the two meats until obtaining a uniform paste, add the liquefied sauce. Beat the eggs with the milk and the slices of whole wheat bread; season the meat with salt and pepper. Distribute the cake in a greased refractory and put it in the oven until golden. (Six servings).

HAWAIIAN CHOPS

Ingredients:
◦ Four 120-gram pork chops each
◦ One can of beef broth
◦ Half a cup of diced pineapple
◦ One-quarter cup of ketchup
◦ Two tablespoons of wine vinegar
◦ One tablespoon of brown sugar
◦ One tablespoon soy sauce
◦Half teaspoon mustard
Preparation: Brown the chops on both sides; removes fat. Combine the remaining ingredients and pour them over the chops. Cook uncovered for five minutes or until softened. Bathe them in the sauce often. And remove the chops. Tip: You can garnish your dish with green and red cherries.

 
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